When a guy invites you over…

[Anonymous]

One time a woman invited herself over to my place. That got the message across.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The real answer is….who cares? It’s a free country and he can expect whatever the hell he wants to—if YOU don’t want to have sex yet then don’t!!!!

Excuse yourself and catch your uber home once he turns the lights down and gets that heavy, dreamy look in his eyes.

Is it really a free country?

OP here. We haven’t even kissed yet. Just trying to see what he’s thinking. Normally I wait a few months for sex, as I feel like we are still getting to know each other. He actually invited me over for the 3rd date, but we had to switch locations due to scheduling issues.

Are you 12? Seriously now that you said this I do not think he is planning on having sex with you. Why would he?

Huh?

If they haven't even kissed yet, she has bigger problems than wondering if he wants to do the sex with her.

[Anonymous]

If you haven’t kissed yet, I would consider it a red flag (ie no strong chemistry). And yet the guy is probably still hoping a kiss and more could happen at home.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He wants to fcuk. Guaranteed at some point he will take the Dick out.
Don’t go. Meet at Starbucks.

What if she wants to meet the dick, I mean dog? That could get awkward at SBX.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
If you are not ready for X, tell him so BEFORE you go over.
If he still pressures you, then you'll know you cannot trust him
If he respects you and just makes you dinner and introduces you to his dog, you may have found a catch.
And that he's into you if he calls again after that date.

Signed, nice guy (and yes, we finish last sometimes).

Yawn