When a guy invites you over…

[Anonymous]

Do you know him well enough to not worry about date rape?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The real answer is….who cares? It’s a free country and he can expect whatever the hell he wants to—if YOU don’t want to have sex yet then don’t!!!!

Excuse yourself and catch your uber home once he turns the lights down and gets that heavy, dreamy look in his eyes.

He can want whatever he wants, but not expect it.

That is entitled and can lead to unjustified resentment, if not anger.

[Anonymous]

I can’t believe so many people have sex so early in a relationship. OP, I would *not* plan to have sex with someone on the 4th date who you haven’t even kissed. No man who respects women would get angry if you came over to hang out and meet the dog and didn’t want to have sex.

[Anonymous]

I would hope so. At least some serious heavy making out and some hand or oral sex. I don’t want to waste time or become super emotionally connected with someone only to later find sexual compatibility issues.

[Anonymous]

Most likely, yes he wants to progress the relationship. Maybe sex, maybe not, but he is thinking of making it more physical (since you have not kissed yet).

Did he say anything more than “meet the dog”? Is he making dinner? Did he mention anything else besides a dog meet?

If not, and you are not ready for things to get physical, plan an activity yourself.
Sure, I’ll come over and pick you up and meet your dog. Then we can go to restaurant/ activity/ dog park near your place.
His reaction to this will tell you much you need to know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:On my 4th date with a guy I met online. He’s invited me over to his house (he says his dog wants to meet me lol). Does this always mean he wants sex?

If you have to ask, you need to date more…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would hope so. At least some serious heavy making out and some hand or oral sex. I don’t want to waste time or become super emotionally connected with someone only to later find sexual compatibility issues.

As a woman I prefer to “insist the goods” on date 4-5 with my hands. What if he has ED, too small/big/has hygiene issues ? I would want to know that before we discuss PIV/exclusivity down the road. I bet he would want to see me naked, too. But I won’t go or let him do O - too much infection risk unless we both use protection

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would hope so. At least some serious heavy making out and some hand or oral sex. I don’t want to waste time or become super emotionally connected with someone only to later find sexual compatibility issues.

As a woman I prefer to “insist the goods” on date 4-5 with my hands. What if he has ED, too small/big/has hygiene issues ? I would want to know that before we discuss PIV/exclusivity down the road. I bet he would want to see me naked, too. But I won’t go or let him do O - too much infection risk unless we both use protection

I am more of a 1st or 2nd dater if I really like them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would hope so. At least some serious heavy making out and some hand or oral sex. I don’t want to waste time or become super emotionally connected with someone only to later find sexual compatibility issues.

As a woman I prefer to “insist the goods” on date 4-5 with my hands. What if he has ED, too small/big/has hygiene issues ? I would want to know that before we discuss PIV/exclusivity down the road. I bet he would want to see me naked, too. But I won’t go or let him do O - too much infection risk unless we both use protection

I am more of a 1st or 2nd dater if I really like them.

That’s way too early for most women but you do you. I meant “inspect the goods” in the above post

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I must have screwed up so badly: I invited a woman over for a weekend lunch to my house to meet my dogs on a second date, and she was apparently totally thinking we were going to have sex, and wanted to have sex, but she initiated right when I had to leave for family reasons. I was caught by complete surprise and left her abruptly at the worst possible time. Haven’t seen her since. Now I know she must have been operating under these code rules that me inviting to my place meant “for sex.” Lesson learned I guess.

Hahahaha

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:On my 4th date with a guy I met online. He’s invited me over to his house (he says his dog wants to meet me lol). Does this always mean he wants sex?

He wants to meet your cat.

[Anonymous]

In the old days guys asked if you wanted to see their record collection.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would hope so. At least some serious heavy making out and some hand or oral sex. I don’t want to waste time or become super emotionally connected with someone only to later find sexual compatibility issues.

As a woman I prefer to “insist the goods” on date 4-5 with my hands. What if he has ED, too small/big/has hygiene issues ? I would want to know that before we discuss PIV/exclusivity down the road. I bet he would want to see me naked, too. But I won’t go or let him do O - too much infection risk unless we both use protection

I am more of a 1st or 2nd dater if I really like them.

That’s way too early for most women but you do you. I meant “inspect the goods” in the above post

Not most women. It depends on what they want. It depends on chemistry.

And yes, no oral until tested. But hands, for sure.

[Anonymous]

How can we be sure the dog does not also want to have sex with her?

[Anonymous]

He wants to fcuk. Guaranteed at some point he will take the Dick out.
Don’t go. Meet at Starbucks.