When boys are ordered around by pushy girls

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This really isn't about gender. It's not like you'd advise him to punch the other kid if it was a boy or anything. He's seven, and he's dealing with another seven-year-old. He got off the swing, and you can't "save" a swing on the playground. He got off, another kid came to take a turn, he can either use the less-desirable swing or he can wait until they are done.

Assuming they had equal claim to it bc they both had a hand on it, what I’m seeking is words to deal with the “No you take that one” order.

He had been on the swing and then gotten off? The swing goes to the kid waiting even if she’s a girl.