Do you judge women for being unattractive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes people do. But depends on job. My one daughter who majored in marketing works in a big tech company in marketing is truly beautiful. She is shy and quiet. But for marketing what you want

It she was a CPA or programmer or data base administrator not so much.

Of course we judge people on looks. I have a niece who is extremely smart and nice and sweet but zero looks. As a 20 year old women trying to date, make friends get a first job of course people judge.

Men too. I used to be very good looking. Like asked to audition general hospital. I was six foot two inch, 190 pounds, in perfect shape at 20. I could sweet talk the HR girls for a job, get into clubs for free. Those days are over

You’re a loser.

It is truth. My company we have influencers, marketing, HR, Sales, public relations nearly all good looking well dressed and well spoken women. Accounting, tech support, back office we have “back of the house” women.

When I was 24 and in shape dating blonde model types I walk into clubs for free and get best table. Now that old and out of shape lucky if they let me in and at best a seat by the men’s room.

My job we have balls to do thirsty Thursday’s or D&I or Pride events and we gather good looking people to front for photos to publish on line.

Someone at work commented our pictures from IT were 90 percent white, young, good looking people and 1/2 women. IT is mainly Indian or Asian or Russian/Polish unkempt nerdy men from 25-30 and most overseas.

Yet our trendy Soho party picture made it look like case of Friends work here.

My company before we hired models on a Saturday to pretend to work at my company. We had a lot of ugly people

[Anonymous]

Yes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I judge people for looking ungroomed and not dressing appropriately for the occasion

This plus being extremely overweight/obese

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I judge people for looking ungroomed and not dressing appropriately for the occasion

This plus being extremely overweight/obese

I am afraid I do judge obese people. My dad always used to say "fat people are lazy" I know it is far more complex than that, but I do find it revolting, personally.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I judge people for looking ungroomed and not dressing appropriately for the occasion

This plus being extremely overweight/obese

I am afraid I do judge obese people. My dad always used to say "fat people are lazy" I know it is far more complex than that, but I do find it revolting, personally.

I generally think of extra weight as the outward expression of mental health issues like depression or anxiety, or of financial issues where the person or family can only afford junk. Have some compassion and be grateful you aren’t in the same position.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I judge people for looking ungroomed and not dressing appropriately for the occasion

This plus being extremely overweight/obese

I am afraid I do judge obese people. My dad always used to say "fat people are lazy" I know it is far more complex than that, but I do find it revolting, personally.

I generally think of extra weight as the outward expression of mental health issues like depression or anxiety, or of financial issues where the person or family can only afford junk. Have some compassion and be grateful you aren’t in the same position.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I judge people for looking ungroomed and not dressing appropriately for the occasion

This plus being extremely overweight/obese

I am afraid I do judge obese people. My dad always used to say "fat people are lazy" I know it is far more complex than that, but I do find it revolting, personally.

I generally think of extra weight as the outward expression of mental health issues like depression or anxiety, or of financial issues where the person or family can only afford junk. Have some compassion and be grateful you aren’t in the same position.

+1

And yet there is an obese woman (in a very unflattering swimsuit) on the cover of Sports Illustrated for this year's swimsuit issue. Everyone is cheering her on.

Or do you think that's what people are doing openly and behind closed doors are judging.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I judge people for looking ungroomed and not dressing appropriately for the occasion

This plus being extremely overweight/obese

I am afraid I do judge obese people. My dad always used to say "fat people are lazy" I know it is far more complex than that, but I do find it revolting, personally.

I generally think of extra weight as the outward expression of mental health issues like depression or anxiety, or of financial issues where the person or family can only afford junk. Have some compassion and be grateful you aren’t in the same position.

+1

And yet there is an obese woman (in a very unflattering swimsuit) on the cover of Sports Illustrated for this year's swimsuit issue. Everyone is cheering her on.

Or do you think that's what people are doing openly and behind closed doors are judging.

Ashley Graham is so trashy

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes people do. But depends on job. My one daughter who majored in marketing works in a big tech company in marketing is truly beautiful. She is shy and quiet. But for marketing what you want

It she was a CPA or programmer or data base administrator not so much.

Of course we judge people on looks. I have a niece who is extremely smart and nice and sweet but zero looks. As a 20 year old women trying to date, make friends get a first job of course people judge.

Men too. I used to be very good looking. Like asked to audition general hospital. I was six foot two inch, 190 pounds, in perfect shape at 20. I could sweet talk the HR girls for a job, get into clubs for free. Those days are over

You’re a loser.

It is truth. My company we have influencers, marketing, HR, Sales, public relations nearly all good looking well dressed and well spoken women. Accounting, tech support, back office we have “back of the house” women.

When I was 24 and in shape dating blonde model types I walk into clubs for free and get best table. Now that old and out of shape lucky if they let me in and at best a seat by the men’s room.

My job we have balls to do thirsty Thursday’s or D&I or Pride events and we gather good looking people to front for photos to publish on line.

Someone at work commented our pictures from IT were 90 percent white, young, good looking people and 1/2 women. IT is mainly Indian or Asian or Russian/Polish unkempt nerdy men from 25-30 and most overseas.

Yet our trendy Soho party picture made it look like case of Friends work here.

My company before we hired models on a Saturday to pretend to work at my company. We had a lot of ugly people

Lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:“If you aren’t beautiful by aged 20, it isn’t your fault. If you aren’t beautiful by 40, it is your fault”.

Everyone can find a healthy and unique beauty.

If you are judging people in your 20's it isn't your fault, you are still young and immature. If you are still judging people into your 40's it is your fault, you have not grown as a person.

Honestly for me judging others is a waste of time, I simply don't care what my co-workers look like or how they dress and as for strangers on the street, why would I care? I know that society is obsessed with looks but to me it's such a waste to even think about it. That sort of thinking brings me down, who needs it.

[Anonymous]

My younger cousins, who look like supermodels, judged me for being fat and having acne and just generally being awkward.

They ended up having to get divorced from their husbands because they were being cheated on and conned out of money.

Not pretty enough to avoid the infidelity, I see!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I judge people for looking ungroomed and not dressing appropriately for the occasion

This plus being extremely overweight/obese

I am afraid I do judge obese people. My dad always used to say "fat people are lazy" I know it is far more complex than that, but I do find it revolting, personally.

I generally think of extra weight as the outward expression of mental health issues like depression or anxiety, or of financial issues where the person or family can only afford junk. Have some compassion and be grateful you aren’t in the same position.

I don’t disagree, but there are far too many obese people to blame it all on severe mental illness. And having financial issues isn’t a reason for obesity.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I was envious of my “unattractive” peers when I was younger. When men were interested in them, they were genuine and treated them well. They all married eligible men and stayed married.

I was “hot” but lacking in confidence and it didn’t serve me well at all.
Now that I’m middle aged I’ve finally started meeting men who treat me with kindness and respect.

Same. I used to be “hot” but had low self esteem, so I ended up dating a lot of shallow jerks who treated me poorly and then traded up when something even better came along. My more average looking friends all found these great guys who wanted to settle down and stick with them forever, and it seemed so much more real than my “relationships.” (I ended up with a great guy, but was a lot older before it happened.)

I’m glad you are meeting people who treat you better now!

That is because guys, at least all of the Gen X guys I knew, seemingly wanted to marry some version of their mothers. All of them married plain or slightly above plain women. They weren’t like previous generations of men who married the most beautiful woman they could attract.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My younger cousins, who look like supermodels, judged me for being fat and having acne and just generally being awkward.

They ended up having to get divorced from their husbands because they were being cheated on and conned out of money.

Not pretty enough to avoid the infidelity, I see!

There is unfortunately so much truth in this tale. I tend to judge hot women more than "unattractive" women, for this reason.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My younger cousins, who look like supermodels, judged me for being fat and having acne and just generally being awkward.

They ended up having to get divorced from their husbands because they were being cheated on and conned out of money.

Not pretty enough to avoid the infidelity, I see!

There is unfortunately so much truth in this tale. I tend to judge hot women more than "unattractive" women, for this reason.

That pp is lying. All her younger cousins look like supermodels really?