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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was envious of my “unattractive” peers when I was younger. When men were interested in them, they were genuine and treated them well. They all married eligible men and stayed married. I was “hot” but lacking in confidence and it didn’t serve me well at all. Now that I’m middle aged I’ve finally started meeting men who treat me with kindness and respect. [/quote] Same. I used to be “hot” but had low self esteem, so I ended up dating a lot of shallow jerks who treated me poorly and then traded up when something even better came along. My more average looking friends all found these great guys who wanted to settle down and stick with them forever, and it seemed so much more real than my “relationships.” (I ended up with a great guy, but was a lot older before it happened.) I’m glad you are meeting people who treat you better now![/quote] That is because guys, at least all of the Gen X guys I knew, seemingly wanted to marry some version of their mothers. All of them married plain or slightly above plain women. They weren’t like previous generations of men who married the most beautiful woman they could attract. [/quote]
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