Sister and her husband nap every time they come over

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Where do they sleep? Just pass out in the living room? I agree that is weird. Are they very overweight?

She is size 12 and he is chubby but not obese.

Okay, but WHERE do tgey nap?

Living room sofa. Or one will go to basement sofa.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I love napping so much. And I'm an introvert. I would absolutely do this if I were visiting family.

What's so strange to me is how you've decided that something completely innocuous is weird, and you want to punish them for it. I mean, WTH?

Most people on this thread are agreeing it's weird.

Fair enough on the weird part, but the impulse to punish it is what I'm having a hard time wrapping my brain around.

[Anonymous]

If it bugs you, don’t invite them. Meet them at a restaurant or something.

There ya go, solved your problem in 20 seconds.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe they are trying for a baby

OP said they are in their early 50s and nap on the living room couches.

Wrong. Other people assumed it was the couch. OP never confirmed. If they ask to use a guest room I’d be more sympathetic than if they just pass out in the living room. That’s rude.

I did say couches. They usually nap there on main floor. Sometimes one goes to basement.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe they are trying for a baby

OP said they are in their early 50s and nap on the living room couches.

Wrong. Other people assumed it was the couch. OP never confirmed. If they ask to use a guest room I’d be more sympathetic than if they just pass out in the living room. That’s rude.

First page answer says living room couches, sometimes the DH goes down to the basement. OP, was that you answering?

I think, in either case, it is odd behavior.

Yes

[Anonymous]

My husband naps practically every day in the afternoon, and is able to fall asleep anywhere. His job is very flexible, and is a cerebral problem-solving type of work, where getting it right is more important than anything else. He sleep well during the night but is a very early riser, so I think the afternoon nap is his way to getting his total hours of sleep.

My daughter takes after him: gets up very early and sometimes naps in the afternoon.

My son and I can never fall asleep during the day. However, we are late risers.

[Anonymous]

If the whole visit is only a few hours, how long are they napping? Is this a 20-40 minute refresher or are they taking long naps?

[Anonymous]

I have adult cousins that do this as family functions. Beyond weird in my opinion.

[Anonymous]

My SIL and BIL, who we only see a couple times a year, spend all of their time on their phones.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like health issues.

[Anonymous]

You said they have been doing this for decades and their children are adults. Does this mean they would bring the whole family over and then after a meal the parents would nap and the kids would be awake? Do you have kids? What do they think of this? Mine would be talking about it constantly.

[Anonymous]

The person who said to meet them for lunch at a restaurant to avoid this whole issue wins this thread.

[Anonymous]

This one’s a head scratcher. I have so many questions, e.g.:
-If this has been going on for years, do you have standing to say something now?
-Do they do this at every house they visit or just some houses?
-Are they long or short naps?
-How do they transition to the naps? Do they announce their intentions to nap or do they say they are just going to rest?
-Does OP ever go nap at their house?
-What did they do when they had little kids that needed supervision?
-Is it a big deal if they nap? Do they at least help clean up meals?

Please update us OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like health issues.

Diabetes? Low iron? Heart issues?

[Anonymous]

This is pretty wild. I probably wouldn’t say anything but it is completely weird behavior. I am also curious to know how long the visits are and how long they nap. If they are only there for 2-3hrs it seems so strange that a nap would be required at every visit.

I’ve never encountered a healthy adult with a strict nap schedule.