Woman here, would my salary be “good” or “bad” for me in the dating market

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It would be a plus. I’m turned on by smart, attractive, successful women.

Excellent comment, fellow woman! But in all seriousness, 99% of guys don't care about your money one way or another. If you wanted to calculate some kind of trade off between looks and salary, I think almost any guy would choose a woman who is 10% more attractive over one who earns 100% more. As a guy who makes 400k I would literally take a hot woman in perpetual debt than an average woman making 1 million

[Anonymous]

Honestly there are a ton of golddigging men so I think it will help a lot

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It would be a plus. I’m turned on by smart, attractive, successful women.

Excellent comment, fellow woman! But in all seriousness, 99% of guys don't care about your money one way or another. If you wanted to calculate some kind of trade off between looks and salary, I think almost any guy would choose a woman who is 10% more attractive over one who earns 100% more. As a guy who makes 400k I would literally take a hot woman in perpetual debt than an average woman making 1 million

LOL. As a hot woman in perpetual debt this was nice to hear. Not sure if it's entirely true though

[Anonymous]

I think you're right. I think it's like being tall. It eliminates some men. Esp insecure ones.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My DH and I were discussing if the other one would have a solid dating life if the other died or something. (Dark topic I know but we’re on vacation and having some margs, and the convo turned) I said that I would have a hard time dating due to my relative career success. I am a woman, I work in finance, my company is well known and just IPOed. I said that I don’t think men want to date women who can out earn them or out “succeed” them. My DH said he thought that was insane and that my ability to hold my own would be a huge plus out in dating land.

Do you think a woman making $300k+ is a catch or an issue to most men in the DMV? Talking general population here, do men want women they can out earn?

Depends on how hot you are