Woman here, would my salary be “good” or “bad” for me in the dating market

[Anonymous]

Men it is money women If Hot.

[Anonymous]

To the professional men I know, this would be a plus.

[Anonymous]

I'm not single, but do single people supply their w2 to prospective dates? I'm not sure how anyone would know how much I make. Additionally with hoe much money I'd be left with if my husband kicked the bucket, no way in hellllll would I remarry or libe with someone else. So I'm not sure why this would be relevant.

[Anonymous]

It is not about how much money you make, but what type of a woman you are. Masculine, aggressive, competitive, argumentative, etc? Or are you a strong woman, yet feminine, dress nicely, logical, compassionate, etc. You got the point.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:With your wonderful attitude you won’t need to worry. Men will be beating a path to your door.

Lol! It was the mention of "margs" that really sealed the deal for me.

Followed quickly by the use of the word "convo".

[Anonymous]

as a man making the same amount+ as you, I would have no qualms at all. In fact, it would likely put me at ease in the sense that you would have your own wealth and are less likely looking for someone to support and finance a certain lifestyle. That's what I had to put up with quite a number of times while I was back in the dating pool (post divorce) and before I met my now DW.

[Anonymous]

Smart people don't get remarried. They have partners and keep finances separate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is not about how much money you make, but what type of a woman you are. Masculine, aggressive, competitive, argumentative, etc? Or are you a strong woman, yet feminine, dress nicely, logical, compassionate, etc. You got the point.

what?

[Anonymous]

It will be easy to date but hard to find long-term committed relationships or marriage. That's what the numbers show. My personal experience reflects this also. Men date sideways or down, women date sideways or up - for wealth, IQ, and social status. Due to the math, the wealthier/smarter you are as a woman, the worse the ratio of available men becomes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It will be easy to date but hard to find long-term committed relationships or marriage. That's what the numbers show. My personal experience reflects this also. Men date sideways or down, women date sideways or up - for wealth, IQ, and social status. Due to the math, the wealthier/smarter you are as a woman, the worse the ratio of available men becomes.

+1 truth. Everyone wants it to be false but it is not, and it doesn’t take huge numbers to throw the ratios and change the dating/marriage norms. Think colleges once they get past 60% female, the dating market caters to what men want because of numbers.

[Anonymous]

Your attribution that your salary is a problem for men is incorrect. It is women who typically will not date a man that earns less than she does. Women typically want to marry up. Meaning they want a man with more status, more money, etc. Your salary is more than most people on the planet. If you want to find a man that earns more than you then you will have a hard time finding one of those.

[Anonymous]

I'm single and make a very large salary in a male dominated industry. My problem is I don't want kids and don't want to marry. I have no problem attracting me who want to be in a committed relationship. What I do have a problem with is keeping them. They want more than I want to give. I never want to live with a man let alone marry one.

So in my experience, my income is never a problem probably is actually an asset. My problem. Is so many me want kids and marriage and it's just not what I really need in a relationship. Makes is a challenge because they all think they can change me

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm single and make a very large salary in a male dominated industry. My problem is I don't want kids and don't want to marry. I have no problem attracting me who want to be in a committed relationship. What I do have a problem with is keeping them. They want more than I want to give. I never want to live with a man let alone marry one.

So in my experience, my income is never a problem probably is actually an asset. My problem. Is so many me want kids and marriage and it's just not what I really need in a relationship. Makes is a challenge because they all think they can change me

Just date a guy with kids without custody. He won’t want kids and low commitment

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm single and make a very large salary in a male dominated industry. My problem is I don't want kids and don't want to marry. I have no problem attracting me who want to be in a committed relationship. What I do have a problem with is keeping them. They want more than I want to give. I never want to live with a man let alone marry one.

So in my experience, my income is never a problem probably is actually an asset. My problem. Is so many me want kids and marriage and it's just not what I really need in a relationship. Makes is a challenge because they all think they can change me

Just date a guy with kids without custody. He won’t want kids and low commitment

A man who does not have custody of his kids is not a good human. That would be a massive red flag. That's my clue to run in the opposite direction.

[Anonymous]

It would be a plus. I’m turned on by smart, attractive, successful women.