Husband went to the driving range when my clogged duct started seeming more like mastitis

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Anonymous wrote:Just get some antibiotics and you will start feeling better right away. Your husband has no clue what you're dealing with but you don't need to be a martyr about it. Call your doctor's emergency line and get a script.

Sure, I'll get right on that after I put 2 preschoolers and 1 baby to bed.

I’ve had mastitis 6 times. ER for it once and urgent care once and they almost sent me t
The hospital. It takes 24-48 hours for antibiotics to kick on. Last time I took antibiotics when it started coming on I still spiked a 103 fever and was deathly ill with chills 12-24 hours AFTER I popped the antibiotics. My doc keeps me stocked at home with them because it comes on fast and furious for me but it is no joke. I’m sorry OP. Sympathy from me for you, your DH sucks!

After the 4th time, I would switch to formula. I want to enjoy my baby.

Love that you assume I had a real choice. Part of the reason I got it was oversupply. My kids loved to Nurse and refused formula. So trying to transition a breastfed baby to formula abruptly at like 12months when I’m still giving them most of their calories is the exact opposite of enjoyable. Breastfeeding requires considerable sacrifice and it doesn’t make me a better mom than anyone else but it also doesn’t make me a martyr or stupid.

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Anonymous wrote:Just get some antibiotics and you will start feeling better right away. Your husband has no clue what you're dealing with but you don't need to be a martyr about it. Call your doctor's emergency line and get a script.

Sure, I'll get right on that after I put 2 preschoolers and 1 baby to bed.

Make better choices going forward, OP. Do a telehealth visit and get your antibiotics.

with friends like you, who would need enemies? 🙄

OP is a grown woman who chose to have not one, not two but three children with someone who, in her words, has "narcissistic rages". I don't have time for people manufacturing their own drama.

A.M.E.N. You read my mind.

You're both a piece of work.

For the record, he was a good husband until I was pregnant with our second. Then it was like someone had flipped a light switch. I had an 18 month plan in place, ready to serve him papers when that baby turned 2. That's the same time covid happened, so I delayed separating. Accidentally got pregnant (using birth control) with baby #3 during that time and decided to try to make it work or at least wait until this baby turned 2. Husband got a vasectomy now so spare me your preaching.