Injured during sex (trying to be non-explicit)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wait, so your partner was essentially sucking on a genital pimple?

I don’t think so. He was giving me oral sex on Thursday and as he was doing it it felt like he was scraping me with his teeth. It was painful and I didn’t like it but I appreciated the effort and faked an orgasm. I was sore the next morning but it felt like chafing after rough-ish sex. I expected it to get better over the next day or so but it kept hurting more and more.
My doc thinks as other PPs suspected above that he had bacteria in his mouth that infected me when he scraped me with his teeth and the drainage I saw today helped relieve the pressure. She prescribed antibiotics and hopefully I can tell my boyfriend without making him feel bad that teeth are a bad addition to the mix when it comes to oral sex. I know he wouldn’t like it if I used me teeth on him. So hopefully he doesn’t take it personally.

Consider the possibility that you had a situation emerging before the experience w/ bf. Maybe that's why it hurt at the time, along with the toothy weirdness. Good for you seeing the doctor. I hope you speak up in the future in the monent if something hurts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I ended up going to the ER. There was almost no one there (so i feel less guilty about taking up the staff's time). I got very good care and now I feel confident that I'll start to heal.

Not to get political but I CANNOT believe that female genital mutilation exists in this world. I love my clitoris. And if it is cut (as mine is) the pain is excruciating. I can't imagine how awful it must feel to have it intentionally cut and then not be able to orgasm. UGH. Awful, terrible and disgusting. This experience that I'm going through has lit a fire under me that I'm going to start donating or volunteering some way to a charity that aims to end FGM. Any referrals would be awesome.

Oh, wow! I hope you feel better. Youshould follow up with you doctor in case you need to extend the antibiotics.

[Anonymous]

It probably wasn’t teeth that did it, if it’s two day stubble that’s like a scotch Brite against me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I ended up going to the ER. There was almost no one there (so i feel less guilty about taking up the staff's time). I got very good care and now I feel confident that I'll start to heal.

Not to get political but I CANNOT believe that female genital mutilation exists in this world. I love my clitoris. And if it is cut (as mine is) the pain is excruciating. I can't imagine how awful it must feel to have it intentionally cut and then not be able to orgasm. UGH. Awful, terrible and disgusting. This experience that I'm going through has lit a fire under me that I'm going to start donating or volunteering some way to a charity that aims to end FGM. Any referrals would be awesome.

Oh, wow! I hope you feel better. Youshould follow up with you doctor in case you need to extend the antibiotics.

That’s good advice, thank you! I spoke with a friend this afternoon and told her about my morning and she told me that when she gave birth to her son her clitoris got torn. She said that she wasn’t in too much pain giving birth because she had an epidural but that the clitoral tear felt like being struck by lightning.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I ended up going to the ER. There was almost no one there (so i feel less guilty about taking up the staff's time). I got very good care and now I feel confident that I'll start to heal.

Not to get political but I CANNOT believe that female genital mutilation exists in this world. I love my clitoris. And if it is cut (as mine is) the pain is excruciating. I can't imagine how awful it must feel to have it intentionally cut and then not be able to orgasm. UGH. Awful, terrible and disgusting. This experience that I'm going through has lit a fire under me that I'm going to start donating or volunteering some way to a charity that aims to end FGM. Any referrals would be awesome.

Oh, wow! I hope you feel better. Youshould follow up with you doctor in case you need to extend the antibiotics.

That’s good advice, thank you! I spoke with a friend this afternoon and told her about my morning and she told me that when she gave birth to her son her clitoris got torn. She said that she wasn’t in too much pain giving birth because she had an epidural but that the clitoral tear felt like being struck by lightning.

oh. my. god.