Injured during sex (trying to be non-explicit)

[Anonymous]

If you’re in pain days later, then you have an infection. Could be yeast or bacterial. See a DR and get it cultured. You need prescription meds.

No more oral. If you get an infection from oral, you’ll get it again with the same partner.

[Anonymous]

I'm crossing my legs so tight right now! Op, make an appointment with your GP or Gyn.

[Anonymous]

Look and feel carefully. Is there a specific swelling on either side of the labia? This sounds more like he triggered development of a Bartholin gland cyst. (Irritation --> swelling --> blocks duct.)

[Anonymous]

OP here. Thank you for all the kind and helpful replies. It was a little less sensitive this afternoon so I looked and it’s a pimple/whitehead on my clitoris. Not on the clitoral hood but the actual clitoris itself. It feels pretty hard like a cyst but it’s so insanely sensitive to touch (I think I finally have an idea of what it feels like when a man gets hit in the testicles) that I don’t have the strength to even try to pop it. I’m sure that’s a bad idea anyway. Has anyone has this before? Do they eventually just resolve themselves over time like other pimples do?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thank you for all the kind and helpful replies. It was a little less sensitive this afternoon so I looked and it’s a pimple/whitehead on my clitoris. Not on the clitoral hood but the actual clitoris itself. It feels pretty hard like a cyst but it’s so insanely sensitive to touch (I think I finally have an idea of what it feels like when a man gets hit in the testicles) that I don’t have the strength to even try to pop it. I’m sure that’s a bad idea anyway. Has anyone has this before? Do they eventually just resolve themselves over time like other pimples do?

Your gyne can drain it in her office and then give you a topical antibiotic. I had a whitehead on my labor drained months ago. Even after numbing, the incision hurt like hell, but I had been in pain down there 24 hours a day for the week prior. Warm baths and squeezing did not help. When she told me it would like reoccur, I wanted to cry. Has not come back yet, thank God!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thank you for all the kind and helpful replies. It was a little less sensitive this afternoon so I looked and it’s a pimple/whitehead on my clitoris. Not on the clitoral hood but the actual clitoris itself. It feels pretty hard like a cyst but it’s so insanely sensitive to touch (I think I finally have an idea of what it feels like when a man gets hit in the testicles) that I don’t have the strength to even try to pop it. I’m sure that’s a bad idea anyway. Has anyone has this before? Do they eventually just resolve themselves over time like other pimples do?

I had something like this, but not from oral. It was from spin class and not changing out of my sweaty compression shorts quickly enough. I begged off the cycle for a week until it went away and then made sure I changed right after.

If you felt teeth WHILE he was dining at ladytown, then I would discuss this with him. Any decent man should be open to women telling them what makes them feel good (and not).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thank you for all the kind and helpful replies. It was a little less sensitive this afternoon so I looked and it’s a pimple/whitehead on my clitoris. Not on the clitoral hood but the actual clitoris itself. It feels pretty hard like a cyst but it’s so insanely sensitive to touch (I think I finally have an idea of what it feels like when a man gets hit in the testicles) that I don’t have the strength to even try to pop it. I’m sure that’s a bad idea anyway. Has anyone has this before? Do they eventually just resolve themselves over time like other pimples do?

I had something like this, but not from oral. It was from spin class and not changing out of my sweaty compression shorts quickly enough. I begged off the cycle for a week until it went away and then made sure I changed right after.

If you felt teeth WHILE he was dining at ladytown, then I would discuss this with him. Any decent man should be open to women telling them what makes them feel good (and not).

I definitely felt his teeth scraping against me and I guess I’m too “polite” in bed to say what I like but I am pretty ashamed of myself that could not even say when something was painful. I just faked an orgasm to get him to stop. Obviously I need to work on this and he needs to work on his technique too….

[Anonymous]

Epsom salt bath help with this as well. I got a pimple on my regions only one time in life and it was extremely extremely painful. I thought I had herpes so I went to my gym. Doctor said it was a regular old pimple and to let it drain on its own and that you doing Epsom bath and warm baths would help with that happen sooner. It worked.

[Anonymous]

OP's boyfriend took the term "eating" literally.

[Anonymous]

If you faked an orgasm he’s going to think you liked what he did. You REALLY need to speak up.

[Anonymous]

Oh sweetie, I’m sorry. You can speak up and it will be OK, I promise. You can talk about what you like / how you like it without it being an admonishment. I echo the sentiments above - if you can’t tell a partner what you don’t like (or that they are HURTING you) - that’s not the partner for you.

Also something I learned the hard way - if it hurts DURING, it’s gonna hurt AFTER. It’s ok to stop.

[Anonymous]

How long have you been dating him???

I assume not that long if you couldn’t speak up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^PISS-poor, not puss-poor, but I guess both fit, haha.

I thought you typed that on purpose and was like omg amazing.

[Anonymous]

Sorry you’re dealing with this. If you have a wound, I recommend frequent sitz baths, like several times a day. That should help it heal faster.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thank you for all the kind and helpful replies. It was a little less sensitive this afternoon so I looked and it’s a pimple/whitehead on my clitoris. Not on the clitoral hood but the actual clitoris itself. It feels pretty hard like a cyst but it’s so insanely sensitive to touch (I think I finally have an idea of what it feels like when a man gets hit in the testicles) that I don’t have the strength to even try to pop it. I’m sure that’s a bad idea anyway. Has anyone has this before? Do they eventually just resolve themselves over time like other pimples do?

I had something like this, but not from oral. It was from spin class and not changing out of my sweaty compression shorts quickly enough. I begged off the cycle for a week until it went away and then made sure I changed right after.

If you felt teeth WHILE he was dining at ladytown, then I would discuss this with him. Any decent man should be open to women telling them what makes them feel good (and not).

I definitely felt his teeth scraping against me and I guess I’m too “polite” in bed to say what I like but I am pretty ashamed of myself that could not even say when something was painful. I just faked an orgasm to get him to stop. Obviously I need to work on this and he needs to work on his technique too….

If it doesn’t go away you should get it checked out. Could be a cyst of some kind.