What Would You Say is Inappropriate Touching Between Opposite Friends

[Anonymous]

And don't stop dating other people, a lack of self-respect or abundance mentality this early on can be smelled from a mile away

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And don't stop dating other people, a lack of self-respect or abundance mentality this early on can be smelled from a mile away

What is an abundance mentality?

[Anonymous]

Why would you be hiking with your Mexican friend and not your wife?

It's funny. I often go hiking solo. My wife accuses me of going hiking with imaginary women. Maybe she gets her ideas from this forum

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Holding hands - 10
Walking arm in arm - 6/7
Hugging - 1
Hugging with a kiss to the chest - 10
Kissing on the cheek - depends on your culture
Kissing in the lips 10
Cuddling 10

Can you really score a 10 on a 0 to 5 scale?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why would you be hiking with your Mexican friend and not your wife?

It's funny. I often go hiking solo. My wife accuses me of going hiking with imaginary women. Maybe she gets her ideas from this forum

Where did OP mention he was married? Why make that assumption?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why would you be hiking with your Mexican friend and not your wife?

It's funny. I often go hiking solo. My wife accuses me of going hiking with imaginary women. Maybe she gets her ideas from this forum

Where did OP mention he was married? Why make that assumption?

I guess i assumed he was because why would any of these be inapprorpiate unless one of them is a work subordinate of the other?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why do you ask?

I have an opposite sex friend. I’m trying to interpret her physical touch with me. We went hiking Saturday and she was taking my arm, holding my hand as we sat on a rick in a stream. She’s not a very tall woman and at one point she falls into my arms from a rock and is hugging me and starts kissing my chest (through my shirt). She also called me a little pet name - my peludito in Spanish. She is Mexican.

Return the favor and kiss her chest (through her shirt). See how she responds. That will give you your answer right there.

This is good advice. Heck, maybe even GREAT advice

If she acts surprised, just tell her you were trying to determine if she wears cotton or polyester shirts. But make sure you use your hands too, near your ears when you are kissing her chest, to feel the shirt material of course.

Please report back.

[Anonymous]

I' ve already been under her shirts. We slept together twice and then she gave me the "let's be friends" line but is still flirty and touchy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The only pertinent question is whether any of her touching you in unwelcome or uncomfortable. If so, you need to clear the air between the two of you, and tell her to stop.

No. It is not unwelcome. It’s quite pleasant actually.

Why do you call it inappropriate in the title then?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The only pertinent question is whether any of her touching you in unwelcome or uncomfortable. If so, you need to clear the air between the two of you, and tell her to stop.

If a guy liked a women enough to hike with her he likes her enough to have him stroke him however she wants. Name one single guy who disagrees.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wait- did your cock ever accidentally find its way into her mouth or V?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The only pertinent question is whether any of her touching you in unwelcome or uncomfortable. If so, you need to clear the air between the two of you, and tell her to stop.

No. It is not unwelcome. It’s quite pleasant actually.

Why do you call it inappropriate in the title then?

It's pleasant. I enjoy it. But it's confusing me because I thought we were no longer in the boyfriend/girlfriend zone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The only pertinent question is whether any of her touching you in unwelcome or uncomfortable. If so, you need to clear the air between the two of you, and tell her to stop.

No. It is not unwelcome. It’s quite pleasant actually.

Why do you call it inappropriate in the title then?

Because according to her we're friends, not lovers anymore.