Beating the dead horse again (sexless marriage)

[Anonymous]

could he be having an affair? When my ex was, he didn't want sex with me. He admitted in counseling he felt like it would be like cheating on her. He was done with me and in love with her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I divorced in this situation and I’ve never been happier. I stayed ten years too long. Get out now.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:could he be having an affair? When my ex was, he didn't want sex with me. He admitted in counseling he felt like it would be like cheating on her. He was done with me and in love with her.

I was thinking the same. However, my cheating ex was having it with me many times per week the entire time he was cheating. That never changed. But, it’s something to consider.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:could he be having an affair? When my ex was, he didn't want sex with me. He admitted in counseling he felt like it would be like cheating on her. He was done with me and in love with her.

I was thinking the same. However, my cheating ex was having it with me many times per week the entire time he was cheating. That never changed. But, it’s something to consider.

It's tough sometimes because, you wake up in the middle of the night and, for a few sleepy seconds, you aren't sure who is laying next to you and in what bed.

[Anonymous]

If he will commit to (pity) sex twice per week that is your best resolution. Otherwise, open the marriage and you can basically pick any man you want.