Sister has brain tumor wants to go to Hawaii

[Anonymous]

My sister 30 just diagnosed with a brain tumor wants to take a sister trip to Hawaii for two weeks.
She says wants the 3 of us to be together again like when we were girls no boyfriends, husbands, or kids before starting treatment.
I don't know what to think or do. At the moment I can't decide between crying, packing my bags, cursing whomever, and trying to convince her to stay, and go on a trip after.
Don't really need advice just needed to let of steam it's all rather surreal.

[Anonymous]

I'm so sorry.

[Anonymous]

Hugs, OP.

[Anonymous]

I'm so sorry. But I would definitely go. You don't ever want to regret not going.

[Anonymous]

So sorry OP - it is terrible. Absolutely go and live it up for her. You WILL NEVER REGRET IT. However, you might consider a 1 week trip so she can get going on treatment, especially if she has kids/husband.

Treatment is generally brutal and from my personal experiences, patients are never close to the same person they were before. All should spend every minute they can with her while her mind is still intact. The stats sadly aren't on her side and it can be a matter of months depending on things.

[Anonymous]

I am so sorry OP. What a great idea that your sister came up with. <<<hugs>>>

[Anonymous]

So sorry, OP

[Anonymous]

Go for it, OP! What a wonderful idea. Hoping treatment works for your sis.

[Anonymous]

I'm very sorry, OP. Do it.

[Anonymous]

Go

[Anonymous]

You should go and take a lot of pictures.

[Anonymous]

Read my "Sleepless in Seattle" post.

Go.

[Anonymous]

It takes time to schedule treatment. Get the treatment scheduled and then go.

[Anonymous]

i'm so sorry. prayers for you.

[Anonymous]

Go and give her the love and support she needs.