There are definitely cultural differences in values, which may be part of the disconnect in this situation. As a strong academic institution, one would assume Harvard is all about high test scores. But it values different things as well, which may not be understood in a culture that may have different values. |
See the post 2 above yours. Apparently her kids can tour colleges and take test prep, but, she is upset that someone else's (Asian) kids did too. |
I think your comment makes your biases perfectly clear and disqualifying. |
It isn't bad. It just isn't distinctive or impressive in any way, and only brings yawns at Harvard. |
These are classes differences not cultural ones. |
Perhaps. In what sense do you think that is true? |
I would guess that the PP thinks the white guy who likes cars, rock music, chicken wings and beer is 'low class'? Perhaps she thinks that upper class guys don't like cars chicken or beer and spend all their time at the opera? |
It is universally known that Jews and Asians place a high value on education so high achievement shouldn’t come as a surprise to anyone. Other cultures couldn’t care less about education and likewise their substandard results shouldn’t be surprising. What is surprising is that bureaucrats are misguided enough to think they can socially engineer the latter groups to care. |
No one said it was impressive to prep. But some people are saying how test scores aren't everything (which, fine, I can agree with that), but then those same people probably tout how high the SAT/gpas are at their kids' schools, or even the college they went to, implying that they are smart and went to a great school. Would these same people be fine with sending their kids with a yawn SAT/GPA score? I doubt it. |
Art, opera, and fine dining are generally considered upper class activities in both the West and Asia. There are plenty of Americans who think it's important to have "impressive" hobbies and would similarly look down on sports and casual foods. (Also, did the pp go to a restaurant in Asia and the locals felt that they had to explain the cuisine to him? Or did they go to a fine dining restaurant where dining etiquette is more formal? In that case, he would have the same problem in the US. ) There are also plenty of Asians who are into sports (soccer), popular music, and would happily eat at a night market or street food place. Sports, pop music, street food are all thriving industries in Asia. That wouldn't be possible if millions of Asians didn't support these industries. |
Right. Many on this thread are not acknowledging the key point that Harvard's interest in diversity pertains to many areas, including field of study. There are only so many STEM kids Harvard will admit. My guess is that any quotas have just as much, or more, to do with this as with race or ethnicity. |
I guess K-pop popularity was started by "low class" Americans rather than young Asians. Why is it ok to be obsessed with lax (a pretty much all white sport) and spend lots of time, effort, money on it, but it's not ok to do the same with academics? |
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When I was in Asia was there a few times I was presenting and doing sales calls.
Interesting I could not fill my own drink, order my own food, someone handed me towel in bathroom and people of lower rank carried my briefcase and called my cab. Your life is often decided in 8th grade. Bad grades off you go to a technical school to be a Janitior. Average grades in HS no college will want you. And you better have a prestigious college and high GPA to get a great job. The pressure starts elementary school. I once addressed a group of 200 international Asian MBA students and two actually said "you no study no good yet big job" it was actually a compliment as they wanted to know hiw I did it. In Asia someone whose resume had a so so college would not be at my level. |
Because every Asian applicant is a future STEM major? Way to stereotype. |