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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow. The segment on TW/sexual harassment at was teased at the top of the 5pm news… and then poof, gone. Totally normal. Nothing to see here, right DCSC?

DCSC just made themselves look even more suspicious, protecting abusers instead of victims.

Sounds like T again. There are real victims out there. T is a grown man who got hit on. We’ve seen the texts he sent to everyone in DC. He didn’t bring this up until he was caught being shady. Can we stop this charade. She shouldn’t have hit on him and she received her punishment. It’s time he to faced his own and end this embarrassment. T did something wrong. full stop. Everyone is sorry he got hit on but this is ruining the soccer experience for so many people.

I’m not Tom. I’m a soccer parent — my kid was with Brookland FC, and we followed Tom to DCSC because he’s one of the few coaches who consistently put kids’ safety and well-being above politics and ego.

And let’s be real: I am a survivor of sexual harassment and assault. I stayed silent for years because of people like you — people who mock, minimize, and shame victims until they give up. I buried it and carried that trauma until therapy decades later. So don’t you dare tell me what a “real victim” looks like.

I’ve sat through (and even faked) enough SafeSport trainings to know what Michelle did to Tom was a blatant violation of policy. Dismissing it as “a grown man who got hit on” is sickening. That’s the exact culture that protects abusers, silences victims, and tells everyone else to just “get over it.”

This isn’t about soccer being “ruined.” It’s about whether we tolerate a system that looks the other way when coaches cross the line. And by mocking this, you’ve made yourself part of the problem. If one of your own children were ever harassed and you responded like this, you’d be failing them in the most unforgivable way.

Shame on you.

I also know Tom very well. From Brookland FC pre-DCSC, I watched how he courted many DC clubs for a merger and went to the highest bidder ($$$$$). When it didn't work out for him, he stole personal data to promote his next "venture." He was called out for that, and suddenly, there are text messages sent to dozens, if not hundreds, of people claiming he was SA.

He is a shoddy businessman at best who cannot run a clean soccer club. When called out, he lashes out. I pity the guy, but that's about all he's going to get from me.

-Signed a woman and a survivor, heartbroken that others use that as an excuse to claim victimhood due to their own lack of accountability.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Let’s revisit an important point that was raised earlier:

What if the roles were reversed?
If Tom Walsh had sent those same messages to Michelle Alioto, how would it have been perceived? What would her husband’s reaction be? How would she feel if he were her boss?
And most importantly, how would the club, especially the Executive Director,
respond?

Would DCSC be defending Tom Walsh the way they have publicly supported Michelle Alioto?

This leads to a much bigger and more serious question:

Is it acceptable for a woman in a leadership position to behave this way and receive just a warning, while a man in the same situation would be forced out and left to fight for his reputation?

Yes, real victims exist, and this shouldn’t be reduced to “a grown man getting hit on.” This is not about personal drama, it’s about professional boundaries, power dynamics, and the accountability expected of leadership.

In any workplace, especially one that involves the development and care of youth athletes, this type of behavior would be taken seriously regardless of who initiated it. When someone in power crosses that line, it raises concerns about abuse of authority, retaliation, and a failure to lead by example.

If we truly value fairness, integrity, and transparency within our soccer community, then we must apply the same standards to everyone, regardless of gender or job title.

The situation has already done considerable damage to DCSC’s reputation. Continuing to ignore or downplay it only makes things worse.

The DCSC Board must address this publicly and clearly.
In any organization, leadership is accountable, not only for their own actions but for those they hire and empower.

Let’s not forget: Greg Andrulis brought both Michelle and Tom into the club and the Board brought in Greg.

If DCSC truly wants to move forward, then maybe it’s time to make things right.

THE

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow. The segment on TW/sexual harassment at was teased at the top of the 5pm news… and then poof, gone. Totally normal. Nothing to see here, right DCSC?

DCSC just made themselves look even more suspicious, protecting abusers instead of victims.

Sounds like T again. There are real victims out there. T is a grown man who got hit on. We’ve seen the texts he sent to everyone in DC. He didn’t bring this up until he was caught being shady. Can we stop this charade. She shouldn’t have hit on him and she received her punishment. It’s time he to faced his own and end this embarrassment. T did something wrong. full stop. Everyone is sorry he got hit on but this is ruining the soccer experience for so many people.

I’m not Tom. I’m a soccer parent — my kid was with Brookland FC, and we followed Tom to DCSC because he’s one of the few coaches who consistently put kids’ safety and well-being above politics and ego.

And let’s be real: I am a survivor of sexual harassment and assault. I stayed silent for years because of people like you — people who mock, minimize, and shame victims until they give up. I buried it and carried that trauma until therapy decades later. So don’t you dare tell me what a “real victim” looks like.

I’ve sat through (and even faked) enough SafeSport trainings to know what Michelle did to Tom was a blatant violation of policy. Dismissing it as “a grown man who got hit on” is sickening. That’s the exact culture that protects abusers, silences victims, and tells everyone else to just “get over it.”

This isn’t about soccer being “ruined.” It’s about whether we tolerate a system that looks the other way when coaches cross the line. And by mocking this, you’ve made yourself part of the problem. If one of your own children were ever harassed and you responded like this, you’d be failing them in the most unforgivable way.

Shame on you.

SAME

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Thank you to the parent who had the courage to speak up. Your words reflect what so many are feeling but are afraid to say.

To the person minimizing this situation: you are exactly why so many victims never come forward. When someone is harassed by a person in power and the response is “he’s a grown man” or “get over it,” it sends a chilling message to everyone else: your pain doesn’t matter unless it fits someone else’s definition of abuse.

The truth is, sexual harassment is not defined by gender or physical harm, it’s defined by power dynamics, unwanted advances, and the emotional and professional toll it takes on the person targeted. If this had happened to a female coach, especially by her superior, would anyone be calling it a “charade”?

This is why victims stay silent. This is why people lose faith in SafeSport, HR, and internal reporting systems. Because when someone does come forward, especially a man, they’re mocked, discredited, and blamed. That’s not justice. That’s toxic culture.

And let’s be honest: Greg Andrulis and DCSC leadership have failed to handle this with transparency or fairness. Their response has reinforced the exact imbalance of accountability we’re talking about. Michelle Alioto crossed the line, repeatedly and received a slap on the wrist. Meanwhile, the person who reported the issue was pushed out, labeled “shady,” and left to defend himself publicly.

This isn’t just about Tom. This is about a system where those in power protect each other, and victims are punished for speaking up.

If we care at all about player safety, club culture, or building an environment of respect and equality, we need to start with leadership. And right now, DCSC, under Greg Andrulis, is setting a dangerous precedent: that your status within the club determines how seriously misconduct is taken.

If you think this is “ruining soccer,” ask yourself: who’s really to blame, the person who came forward, or the leadership that refuses to hold everyone to the same standard?

DCSC Board members must put aside personal agendas and act in the best interest of DCSC with integrity, professionalism, and the right standards of leadership. If you are not willing or capable of leading with transparency and accountability, then it’s time to step aside so others can.

PERSON

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow. The segment on TW/sexual harassment at was teased at the top of the 5pm news… and then poof, gone. Totally normal. Nothing to see here, right DCSC?

DCSC just made themselves look even more suspicious, protecting abusers instead of victims.

Sounds like T again. There are real victims out there. T is a grown man who got hit on. We’ve seen the texts he sent to everyone in DC. He didn’t bring this up until he was caught being shady. Can we stop this charade. She shouldn’t have hit on him and she received her punishment. It’s time he to faced his own and end this embarrassment. T did something wrong. full stop. Everyone is sorry he got hit on but this is ruining the soccer experience for so many people.

I’m not Tom. I’m a soccer parent — my kid was with Brookland FC, and we followed Tom to DCSC because he’s one of the few coaches who consistently put kids’ safety and well-being above politics and ego.

And let’s be real: I am a survivor of sexual harassment and assault. I stayed silent for years because of people like you — people who mock, minimize, and shame victims until they give up. I buried it and carried that trauma until therapy decades later. So don’t you dare tell me what a “real victim” looks like.

I’ve sat through (and even faked) enough SafeSport trainings to know what Michelle did to Tom was a blatant violation of policy. Dismissing it as “a grown man who got hit on” is sickening. That’s the exact culture that protects abusers, silences victims, and tells everyone else to just “get over it.”

This isn’t about soccer being “ruined.” It’s about whether we tolerate a system that looks the other way when coaches cross the line. And by mocking this, you’ve made yourself part of the problem. If one of your own children were ever harassed and you responded like this, you’d be failing them in the most unforgivable way.

Shame on you.

I also know Tom very well. From Brookland FC pre-DCSC, I watched how he courted many DC clubs for a merger and went to the highest bidder ($$$$$). When it didn't work out for him, he stole personal data to promote his next "venture." He was called out for that, and suddenly, there are text messages sent to dozens, if not hundreds, of people claiming he was SA.

He is a shoddy businessman at best who cannot run a clean soccer club. When called out, he lashes out. I pity the guy, but that's about all he's going to get from me.

-Signed a woman and a survivor, heartbroken that others use that as an excuse to claim victimhood due to their own lack of accountability.

AMEN

[Anonymous]

Well, I am only here because I like soccer drama.

I will note that T.W. in MD/DC/VA is Safesport and USSF licensed,

As is GA

And MA-- as of two weeks ago.

Guess what? Governing bodies will wash their hands just like WJLA. Should they is another debate.

[Anonymous]

Ask andrulis to Kindly share information on the rationale behind her recruitment. What were her qualifications? Leveraging her vast experience in executive roles or management, she secured a senior position with an attractive salary package. What were the results of her background check from the clubs where she previously served as an assistant coach? Did she oversee a club or a specific age group? How were her interactions with fellow coaches? What was her reputation? What led to her departure? Why is Andrulis so insistent on retaining her despite releasing other essential team members who were implementing positive and effective changes? These are honest questions that should be answered.

[Anonymous]

Sorry to disappoint you, but not every person who supports Tom is secretly the same person. Some of us just aren’t blinded by DCSC’s excuses.
You, on the other hand, sound like you’re on their payroll.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thank you to the parent who had the courage to speak up. Your words reflect what so many are feeling but are afraid to say.

To the person minimizing this situation: you are exactly why so many victims never come forward. When someone is harassed by a person in power and the response is “he’s a grown man” or “get over it,” it sends a chilling message to everyone else: your pain doesn’t matter unless it fits someone else’s definition of abuse.

The truth is, sexual harassment is not defined by gender or physical harm, it’s defined by power dynamics, unwanted advances, and the emotional and professional toll it takes on the person targeted. If this had happened to a female coach, especially by her superior, would anyone be calling it a “charade”?

This is why victims stay silent. This is why people lose faith in SafeSport, HR, and internal reporting systems. Because when someone does come forward, especially a man, they’re mocked, discredited, and blamed. That’s not justice. That’s toxic culture.

And let’s be honest: Greg Andrulis and DCSC leadership have failed to handle this with transparency or fairness. Their response has reinforced the exact imbalance of accountability we’re talking about. Michelle Alioto crossed the line, repeatedly and received a slap on the wrist. Meanwhile, the person who reported the issue was pushed out, labeled “shady,” and left to defend himself publicly.

This isn’t just about Tom. This is about a system where those in power protect each other, and victims are punished for speaking up.

If we care at all about player safety, club culture, or building an environment of respect and equality, we need to start with leadership. And right now, DCSC, under Greg Andrulis, is setting a dangerous precedent: that your status within the club determines how seriously misconduct is taken.

If you think this is “ruining soccer,” ask yourself: who’s really to blame, the person who came forward, or the leadership that refuses to hold everyone to the same standard?

DCSC Board members must put aside personal agendas and act in the best interest of DCSC with integrity, professionalism, and the right standards of leadership. If you are not willing or capable of leading with transparency and accountability, then it’s time to step aside so others can.

PERSON

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow. The segment on TW/sexual harassment at was teased at the top of the 5pm news… and then poof, gone. Totally normal. Nothing to see here, right DCSC?

DCSC just made themselves look even more suspicious, protecting abusers instead of victims.

Sounds like T again. There are real victims out there. T is a grown man who got hit on. We’ve seen the texts he sent to everyone in DC. He didn’t bring this up until he was caught being shady. Can we stop this charade. She shouldn’t have hit on him and she received her punishment. It’s time he to faced his own and end this embarrassment. T did something wrong. full stop. Everyone is sorry he got hit on but this is ruining the soccer experience for so many people.

I’m not Tom. I’m a soccer parent — my kid was with Brookland FC, and we followed Tom to DCSC because he’s one of the few coaches who consistently put kids’ safety and well-being above politics and ego.

And let’s be real: I am a survivor of sexual harassment and assault. I stayed silent for years because of people like you — people who mock, minimize, and shame victims until they give up. I buried it and carried that trauma until therapy decades later. So don’t you dare tell me what a “real victim” looks like.

I’ve sat through (and even faked) enough SafeSport trainings to know what Michelle did to Tom was a blatant violation of policy. Dismissing it as “a grown man who got hit on” is sickening. That’s the exact culture that protects abusers, silences victims, and tells everyone else to just “get over it.”

This isn’t about soccer being “ruined.” It’s about whether we tolerate a system that looks the other way when coaches cross the line. And by mocking this, you’ve made yourself part of the problem. If one of your own children were ever harassed and you responded like this, you’d be failing them in the most unforgivable way.

Shame on you.

Where is the assumption coming that nothing was done about it? Or that it wasn’t taken seriously?

I am seriously trying to understand how people know so much about how this was handled? Is this forum your source of information?

There are other parents in the club who are SA survivors and they didn’t follow TW.

[Anonymous]

I’ve never said survivors “had to” follow TW — everyone makes their own decisions. My point is about my own choice: I don’t support a club that appears to minimize or deflect when these issues come up.

You do you.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow. The segment on TW/sexual harassment at was teased at the top of the 5pm news… and then poof, gone. Totally normal. Nothing to see here, right DCSC?

DCSC just made themselves look even more suspicious, protecting abusers instead of victims.

Sounds like T again. There are real victims out there. T is a grown man who got hit on. We’ve seen the texts he sent to everyone in DC. He didn’t bring this up until he was caught being shady. Can we stop this charade. She shouldn’t have hit on him and she received her punishment. It’s time he to faced his own and end this embarrassment. T did something wrong. full stop. Everyone is sorry he got hit on but this is ruining the soccer experience for so many people.

I’m not Tom. I’m a soccer parent — my kid was with Brookland FC, and we followed Tom to DCSC because he’s one of the few coaches who consistently put kids’ safety and well-being above politics and ego.

And let’s be real: I am a survivor of sexual harassment and assault. I stayed silent for years because of people like you — people who mock, minimize, and shame victims until they give up. I buried it and carried that trauma until therapy decades later. So don’t you dare tell me what a “real victim” looks like.

I’ve sat through (and even faked) enough SafeSport trainings to know what Michelle did to Tom was a blatant violation of policy. Dismissing it as “a grown man who got hit on” is sickening. That’s the exact culture that protects abusers, silences victims, and tells everyone else to just “get over it.”

This isn’t about soccer being “ruined.” It’s about whether we tolerate a system that looks the other way when coaches cross the line. And by mocking this, you’ve made yourself part of the problem. If one of your own children were ever harassed and you responded like this, you’d be failing them in the most unforgivable way.

Shame on you.

Where is the assumption coming that nothing was done about it? Or that it wasn’t taken seriously?

I am seriously trying to understand how people know so much about how this was handled? Is this forum your source of information?

There are other parents in the club who are SA survivors and they didn’t follow TW.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’ve never said survivors “had to” follow TW — everyone makes their own decisions. My point is about my own choice: I don’t support a club that appears to minimize or deflect when these issues come up.

You do you.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow. The segment on TW/sexual harassment at was teased at the top of the 5pm news… and then poof, gone. Totally normal. Nothing to see here, right DCSC?

DCSC just made themselves look even more suspicious, protecting abusers instead of victims.

Sounds like T again. There are real victims out there. T is a grown man who got hit on. We’ve seen the texts he sent to everyone in DC. He didn’t bring this up until he was caught being shady. Can we stop this charade. She shouldn’t have hit on him and she received her punishment. It’s time he to faced his own and end this embarrassment. T did something wrong. full stop. Everyone is sorry he got hit on but this is ruining the soccer experience for so many people.

I’m not Tom. I’m a soccer parent — my kid was with Brookland FC, and we followed Tom to DCSC because he’s one of the few coaches who consistently put kids’ safety and well-being above politics and ego.

And let’s be real: I am a survivor of sexual harassment and assault. I stayed silent for years because of people like you — people who mock, minimize, and shame victims until they give up. I buried it and carried that trauma until therapy decades later. So don’t you dare tell me what a “real victim” looks like.

I’ve sat through (and even faked) enough SafeSport trainings to know what Michelle did to Tom was a blatant violation of policy. Dismissing it as “a grown man who got hit on” is sickening. That’s the exact culture that protects abusers, silences victims, and tells everyone else to just “get over it.”

This isn’t about soccer being “ruined.” It’s about whether we tolerate a system that looks the other way when coaches cross the line. And by mocking this, you’ve made yourself part of the problem. If one of your own children were ever harassed and you responded like this, you’d be failing them in the most unforgivable way.

Shame on you.

Where is the assumption coming that nothing was done about it? Or that it wasn’t taken seriously?

I am seriously trying to understand how people know so much about how this was handled? Is this forum your source of information?

There are other parents in the club who are SA survivors and they didn’t follow TW.

What is making you think that it has been minimized or deflect? an open discussion in this forum?

[Anonymous]

If any members of the Board are following this forum, I respectfully ask that you address the concerns being raised, not through staff, Tom Walsh, or his supporters, but directly, as representatives of the DCSC community. If this forum is not the appropriate place, I urge the Board to issue a communication to the families.

It’s also important to acknowledge that many families are hesitant to speak up due to a perceived risk of retaliation, something that appears to be supported by how this situation has unfolded.

To be clear: I am not accusing Michelle Alioto of sexual harassment or abuse of power. However, her conduct has raised legitimate concerns that deserve honest answers.

Questions for the Board:

Were Michelle Alioto’s actions toward Tom Walsh reviewed and deemed appropriate?

If no wrongdoing was found, why were corrective steps required?

If corrective action was taken, does that not imply her behavior was at least inappropriate?

Does the Board believe her conduct aligns with DCSC’s leadership standards?

Even if her actions don’t meet the threshold of harassment, unprofessional behavior should not be tolerated, especially in youth sports. In any serious organization, that would warrant removal.

A Broader concern: how does the Board justify allowing inappropriate behavior from a senior staff member, while past staff and families, including Tom Walsh, have been removed for simply disagreeing and with ED or raising concerns?

The club must apply fair and consistent standards across the board. These decisions cannot rest solely with Greg Andrulis, especially if he has shown an unwillingness to lead with sound judgment. Given the number of issues that have occurred under his leadership, isn’t it time to evaluate his continued role in guiding the direction of the club?

[Anonymous]

Real Soccer Coaches of Northeast DC!
https://wjla.com/features/i-team/dc-soccer-club-fights-allegations-of-sexual-harassment-from-former-director

Maybe one of them will be on the new season of Dancing with the Stars

[Anonymous]

Here’s the interview with Tom Walsh:

https://wjla.com/features/i-team/dc-soccer-club-fights-allegations-of-sexual-harassment-from-former-director

I’m wondering how much money DC soccer club is paying for the lawyer that is representing Michelle Alioto and Greg Andrulis to cover this mess??? So Dc Soccer Club members are paying the tab?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Here’s the interview with Tom Walsh:

https://wjla.com/features/i-team/dc-soccer-club-fights-allegations-of-sexual-harassment-from-former-director

I’m wondering how much money DC soccer club is paying for the lawyer that is representing Michelle Alioto and Greg Andrulis to cover this mess??? So Dc Soccer Club members are paying the tab?

Most youth soccer clubs have one Executive Director to manage operations, staff, and finances. But at DCSC, Greg Andrulis created a CXO role (title rarely used in youth sports) that overlaps with his own, meaning paying a lot extra for duplicate leadership. On top of that, club funds are now being used to cover legal costs related to Michelle Alioto’s misconduct. How much? That’s the million-dollar question. Club fees should go toward players and team development by the coaches, not toward backing mismanagement and legal fallout.