Fairfax County Double Murder

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:August 2, 2024 from the biggest victim blamer of them all per her public Instagram. Tess Banfield “9t1s5b God, I need a favor. #FJNR #FUAIl” She also loves: “butcherknifekillerJNR, josephnathanryanisamurderer” among others

She's 100% reading these threads because her profile is now private, and it wasn't a few hours ago/throughout this whole thing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m just saying that on that first day of the murder I posted on the closed thread that it’s weird when families only post their kid on their Christmas card and so many people said that was BS and that they were a loving family… but Sometimes when it smells like BS, it is BS!

Oh man, we only put our kids on our xmas card (they're cuter than DH and I)!

Honestly, most of the cards we receive are just the kids and not the parents....

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m just saying that on that first day of the murder I posted on the closed thread that it’s weird when families only post their kid on their Christmas card and so many people said that was BS and that they were a loving family… but Sometimes when it smells like BS, it is BS!

Oh man, we only put our kids on our xmas card (they're cuter than DH and I)!

Honestly, most of the cards we receive are just the kids and not the parents....

Good luck, babe.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m just saying that on that first day of the murder I posted on the closed thread that it’s weird when families only post their kid on their Christmas card and so many people said that was BS and that they were a loving family… but Sometimes when it smells like BS, it is BS!

Oh man, we only put our kids on our xmas card (they're cuter than DH and I)!

Honestly, most of the cards we receive are just the kids and not the parents....

Agree. Who wants to see adults on a Christmas card? Kids change from year to year- it’s fun to see how they’ve grown, especially if you don’t live close by. And yes, most kids are tons cuter than their parents.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m just saying that on that first day of the murder I posted on the closed thread that it’s weird when families only post their kid on their Christmas card and so many people said that was BS and that they were a loving family… but Sometimes when it smells like BS, it is BS!

Oh man, we only put our kids on our xmas card (they're cuter than DH and I)!

Honestly, most of the cards we receive are just the kids and not the parents....

Agree. Who wants to see adults on a Christmas card? Kids change from year to year- it’s fun to see how they’ve grown, especially if you don’t live close by. And yes, most kids are tons cuter than their parents.

It's definitely a sign of an unhappy family in SOME cases. Another sign was his FB page that had photo of him and his dog...no family. Before you say maybe they didn't want that public- Christine's profiles are all public and have pics of their child.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m just saying that on that first day of the murder I posted on the closed thread that it’s weird when families only post their kid on their Christmas card and so many people said that was BS and that they were a loving family… but Sometimes when it smells like BS, it is BS!

Oh man, we only put our kids on our xmas card (they're cuter than DH and I)!

Honestly, most of the cards we receive are just the kids and not the parents....

Agree. Who wants to see adults on a Christmas card? Kids change from year to year- it’s fun to see how they’ve grown, especially if you don’t live close by. And yes, most kids are tons cuter than their parents.

I don't know, if I only see a kid I start waiting for that divorce announcement.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:August 2, 2024 from the biggest victim blamer of them all per her public Instagram. Tess Banfield “9t1s5b God, I need a favor. #FJNR #FUAIl” She also loves: “butcherknifekillerJNR, josephnathanryanisamurderer” among others

She's 100% reading these threads because her profile is now private, and it wasn't a few hours ago/throughout this whole thing.

Since the beginning.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m just saying that on that first day of the murder I posted on the closed thread that it’s weird when families only post their kid on their Christmas card and so many people said that was BS and that they were a loving family… but Sometimes when it smells like BS, it is BS!

Oh man, we only put our kids on our xmas card (they're cuter than DH and I)!

Honestly, most of the cards we receive are just the kids and not the parents....

Agree. Who wants to see adults on a Christmas card? Kids change from year to year- it’s fun to see how they’ve grown, especially if you don’t live close by. And yes, most kids are tons cuter than their parents.

It's definitely a sign of an unhappy family in SOME cases. Another sign was his FB page that had photo of him and his dog...no family. Before you say maybe they didn't want that public- Christine's profiles are all public and have pics of their child.

Eh, I think that's really reaching. I don't set up my FB profile photo or settings based on what my spouse does. Some people don't post that stuff publicly while their wife might.

Not saying that to say that BB is innocent, but just that a person not posting their family really doesn't mean much, frankly.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m just saying that on that first day of the murder I posted on the closed thread that it’s weird when families only post their kid on their Christmas card and so many people said that was BS and that they were a loving family… but Sometimes when it smells like BS, it is BS!

Oh man, we only put our kids on our xmas card (they're cuter than DH and I)!

Honestly, most of the cards we receive are just the kids and not the parents....

Good luck, babe.

Thanks, I guess my days are numbered.... or my spouse's are?

[Anonymous]

Really curious what their family dynamic was prior to the incident. It didn't seem like BB and JM were trying to hide their romance even before the murder...

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This isn’t surprising behavior for men that think with their d!cks. Look at Scott Peterson.

Well, in fairness no one is picking on JR for his bad decisions by thinking with his..

Ok Victim shamer.

Because guys who seek out married women to have affairs with on fetish websites are beacons of morality

When we lived in World where half of the country is willing to vote for a convicted felon, who has abused and raped women and has cheated on every single partner – I don’t think this is a valid argument.

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[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m just saying that on that first day of the murder I posted on the closed thread that it’s weird when families only post their kid on their Christmas card and so many people said that was BS and that they were a loving family… but Sometimes when it smells like BS, it is BS!

Oh man, we only put our kids on our xmas card (they're cuter than DH and I)!

Honestly, most of the cards we receive are just the kids and not the parents....

Agree. Who wants to see adults on a Christmas card? Kids change from year to year- it’s fun to see how they’ve grown, especially if you don’t live close by. And yes, most kids are tons cuter than their parents.

It's definitely a sign of an unhappy family in SOME cases. Another sign was his FB page that had photo of him and his dog...no family. Before you say maybe they didn't want that public- Christine's profiles are all public and have pics of their child.

You are really reaching here, to the point of sounding ridiculous. Lots of people only put their kids on their Christmas cards- in some cultures, it would be considered vain to send out a picture of yourself, but kids are okay because they’re growing and changing every year. A lot of people see Christmas as being about and for children, so their Christmas cards keep the focus on children, not grown adults.

There are lots of reasons to think something was very, very wrong with this guy and his relationship with his wife(and the human race in general with the way he was able to use an innocent man to try to hide his actions), but putting a picture of a child on a Christmas card is not one of them. Please.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m just saying that on that first day of the murder I posted on the closed thread that it’s weird when families only post their kid on their Christmas card and so many people said that was BS and that they were a loving family… but Sometimes when it smells like BS, it is BS!

Oh man, we only put our kids on our xmas card (they're cuter than DH and I)!

Honestly, most of the cards we receive are just the kids and not the parents....

Agree. Who wants to see adults on a Christmas card? Kids change from year to year- it’s fun to see how they’ve grown, especially if you don’t live close by. And yes, most kids are tons cuter than their parents.

It's definitely a sign of an unhappy family in SOME cases. Another sign was his FB page that had photo of him and his dog...no family. Before you say maybe they didn't want that public- Christine's profiles are all public and have pics of their child.

You are really reaching here, to the point of sounding ridiculous. Lots of people only put their kids on their Christmas cards- in some cultures, it would be considered vain to send out a picture of yourself, but kids are okay because they’re growing and changing every year. A lot of people see Christmas as being about and for children, so their Christmas cards keep the focus on children, not grown adults.

There are lots of reasons to think something was very, very wrong with this guy and his relationship with his wife(and the human race in general with the way he was able to use an innocent man to try to hide his actions), but putting a picture of a child on a Christmas card is not one of them. Please.

+1. Would also say most families I know only put the kids on the Christmas card. Heck sometimes the grandparents put only the grandkids on the Christmas card. I would say those who post photos of their entire family on a Christmas card are more atypical than typical.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m just saying that on that first day of the murder I posted on the closed thread that it’s weird when families only post their kid on their Christmas card and so many people said that was BS and that they were a loving family… but Sometimes when it smells like BS, it is BS!

Oh man, we only put our kids on our xmas card (they're cuter than DH and I)!

Honestly, most of the cards we receive are just the kids and not the parents....

Agree. Who wants to see adults on a Christmas card? Kids change from year to year- it’s fun to see how they’ve grown, especially if you don’t live close by. And yes, most kids are tons cuter than their parents.

It's definitely a sign of an unhappy family in SOME cases. Another sign was his FB page that had photo of him and his dog...no family. Before you say maybe they didn't want that public- Christine's profiles are all public and have pics of their child.

You are really reaching here, to the point of sounding ridiculous. Lots of people only put their kids on their Christmas cards- in some cultures, it would be considered vain to send out a picture of yourself, but kids are okay because they’re growing and changing every year. A lot of people see Christmas as being about and for children, so their Christmas cards keep the focus on children, not grown adults.

There are lots of reasons to think something was very, very wrong with this guy and his relationship with his wife(and the human race in general with the way he was able to use an innocent man to try to hide his actions), but putting a picture of a child on a Christmas card is not one of them. Please.

+1. Would also say most families I know only put the kids on the Christmas card. Heck sometimes the grandparents put only the grandkids on the Christmas card. I would say those who post photos of their entire family on a Christmas card are more atypical than typical.

That is not my experience at all! Usually the people that don’t include themselves are upset they gained weight or don’t like pictures of themselves.

[Anonymous]

Upcoming court dates?