
1. High stress does feed on itself, that's how it works at both the individual and the campus level. 2. Greek Life dominates W&M social life. 32% of men are in frats and 36% of women are in sororities at W&M. Compare that with UVA where it's 28% total. Now Greek Life at W&M is certainly more laid back than at schools like UVA, but that's because the social scene at W&M is more subdued. What social scene there is, is dominated by Greek Life. |
3. Students don't go out on dates to tourist trap area. The tourist trap restaurants cater to senior citizens. 4. Easy to check Amtrak ticket fares from Williamsburg to DC on short (<1 week) notice. If you need to buy tickets >1 week in advance for it to not cost $70, it's not exactly a weekend getaway is it? Actually it's $80, booking 1 week ahead - https://www.amtrak.com/tickets/departure.html |
Ok? So then plan ahead and dont take trips during a holiday like most normal people do (apparently not you though). The average ticket cost is not $80. You're acting like a short turnaround and a holiday travel period represents the typical cost. |
The point is not that high stress can't feed on itself, but that W&M is infused with high stress, which we haven't found to be true. I'm sure there are kids who are stressed out, but that's at any university and my DS and his friends are serious about studies but relaxed. My DC also has a very active social life along with the 60+% of students who aren't Greek. True, if you want to regularly attend parties with lots of alcohol, the Greek scene is probably the way to go, but lots of kids aren't really into that and other groups host parties. |
You didn’t open the links, did you? |
+1. Amtrak costs seem to be based on a particular train’s open capacity. DD takes Amtrak to and from Williamsburg to Alexandria for most breaks (along with a couple hundred other WM students). As long as I book a month out, it’s $20 one way, before the student discount, which makes it about $16. It was $60 the one time we had a last minute change of plans. But, WM students don’t tend to randomly come home to NOVA at the last minute, and if they do, they can almost always catch a ride with another student. They don’t Amtrak anywhere else last minute during classes either. I mean… 5+ hours each way to NY on a random weekend when the have schoolwork? Not so much. Plus, if you think an $80 train ticket is steep, wait until you see the cost if they spontaneously fly somewhere. |
Not reading a 4 year old thread. But yes. After reading the title, I’m surprised anyone thinks that an already competitive college with a 45% increase in ED1 apps over two years has a “lack of interest”. That’s 45% more kids willing to make a binding commitment to attend WM in October 2023 than we’re willing to do so in October 2021. (Which makes me thank my lucky stars my DC was ED to WM in 2021. She was not a shoe in to start with. Not sure she would have been accepted in is years pool).
Also, WM is 1st or 2nd among VA state schools in terms of applicants per seat and admits a very high stats class— in fact, with nearly identical stats to UVA last year. So again, this is “lack of interest”? Seems like high stats kids are very interested. So, to whoever redirected this thread (since OP’s kid is now a college senior) please cite to concrete data/ explain why you believe there is a “lack of interest” in WM. Not “I think,” or “my neighbors kid said,” but actual numbers showing low or declining interest. Because at our HS several 4.4+WGPA girls were flat out denied. They didn’t even get the WL, community college or study abroad, then spring admission offer. It’s one thing to hate on WM because it’s not you or your kid’s ideal college. Not Greek enough, sporty enough, etc. That’s fair. It’s another to announce that no one wants to attend, which is a lie. Why would someone re-start that thread when the numbers prove them wrong? Hey, wait a minute. Didn’t ED just come out? I guess it’s no coincidence that some salty parent decided to bash WM for rejecting their kid, rather than using that energy to help their kid focus on ED2, RD and the many other great options their kid almost certainly has. So, to the parent who pulled this thread back up— rejection sucks. Especially when it’s your kid who is rejected. I’m still a little pissed at the one school that rejected my older kid 3 years ago— which is ridiculous, because they ended up at a great place for them and they don’t care anymore. But to me, it felt personal. So, I needed to grow up, zip it, and cheer on the school he chose. Your kid will also end up at a great school and this time next year won’t even remember they applied to WM. But it will be easier for them to get there if you aren’t constantly bashing “the one that got away”. |
Thanks for getting to my point - that Washington DC being 3+ hours away does not count as "close to a major metro area". Because it's not close to a major metro area, and neither is going to DC on Amtrak convenient in any way. |
I think it's time to lock the thread. You need to find a new hobby besides being spiteful. |
W&M is certainly infused with more stress than other similar universities like VT and UVA. But as I said, it's not because the rigor is necessarily worse (those schools also have pre-meds, UVA has very competitive pre-business, and VT has very competitive engineering), but it's perceived to be worse by the students themselves which becomes a self-reinforcing cycle. Perhaps your DC went to a highly competitive high school and so for them, this is normal. There are literally words to describe this phenomenon - TWAMP (Typical William and Mary Person) and Swemming (going to the main library, Swem). As for other social options, of course there is. Beyond Greek Life, those options tend to be related to international students, student-athletes, ethnic clubs, political clubs (which consist of the worst types of people), etc. But Williamsburg being the place it is makes social outings very limited for those not in Greek Life (and also for those in Greek Life). Of course there are students that are fine with the limited offerings, but this whole thread is about why certain students don't want W&M. For example, there are three rather mediocre college bars, no movie theaters, no night clubs, etc. |
No night clubs—what decade are you living in? |
Your info seems to be very outdated. 4 bars (which are no worse than the ones in Hooville), two movie theaters, plenty of places to eat, miles of walking/hiking/running trails, a lake where people can go boating, Busch Gardens, an outlet mall, etc. |
He has no interest in fact or being objective. This is the guy who is bitter because of an ex that went to W&M |
Dear god, what a mental health crisis we have in the US |
Wait. I thought his kid was rejected from WM. That at least explains the bitterness. Spending Christmas Eve trashing a college because your ex went there is … sad. It’s just sad. |