Confrssion thread

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had a moment of clarity this weekend, too. I can still love my spouse AND have a lover. It doesn't have to be either or.

Indeed it can.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had a moment of clarity this weekend, too. I can still love my spouse AND have a lover. It doesn't have to be either or.

Indeed it can.

Hmm...I had that same epiphany.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had a moment of clarity this weekend, too. I can still love my spouse AND have a lover. It doesn't have to be either or.

Indeed it can.

Big egos make smart people do stupid shit

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had a moment of clarity this weekend, too. I can still love my spouse AND have a lover. It doesn't have to be either or.

Indeed it can.

Big egos make smart people do stupid shit

I know. I'm going down a dangerous path. Bets on how long before I get caught?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had a moment of clarity this weekend, too. I can still love my spouse AND have a lover. It doesn't have to be either or.

Indeed it can.

Big egos make smart people do stupid shit

I know. I'm going down a dangerous path. Bets on how long before I get caught?

That's part of the fun right? The danger?

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

I let a friend go down on me he did it a few times... I am married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I let a friend go down on me he did it a few times... I am married.

Are you a woman?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I let a friend go down on me he did it a few times... I am married.

Why stop there? You have already cheated, why not keep going?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had a moment of clarity on Friday: my marriage is over. I have spent years trying to get my husband to see things from my perspective and he just doesn't. He doesn't read the articles and books I give him. He hasn't become respectful, or kind, or thoughtful, or magnanimous - he has remained a passive-aggressive, immature, selfish emotional abuser and he is not going to change. He cheated on me last summer and I thought it could be a reset on our marriage. It hasn't been.

I'm giving myself a year to accrue the resources and support necessary for me to leave him. I meet with an attorney this week. It's going to be hard, but I don't want my daughter growing up thinking this is how women should be treated, and I don't want my son growing up thinking this is how to treat a woman.

You are an inspiration to those who suffer in this type of marriage. Good luck, big hugs.

[Anonymous]

I confess that I start threads on here as a troll and continue to be amazed at the direction they go.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I confess that I start threads on here as a troll and continue to be amazed at the direction they go.

I do that constantly. What other reason is there to come here? The advice is laughable

[Anonymous]

I think of my ex AP just about everyday and masturbate in the shower. The fantasies are great but I miss the real thing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I confess that I start threads on here as a troll and continue to be amazed at the direction they go.

I love you. Keep it up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I confess that I start threads on here as a troll and continue to be amazed at the direction they go.

It is quite easy due to the egos, jealousy and bitterness on here