So let me get this straight. If somoeone mentions museums as just one of many favorable attributes of a location, that means the person is really reaching and the location is actually boring. Thus, if I mention Paris has the wonderful Louvre, then Paris is a dull, meh city. Sure. |
I can understand the appeal of going oos if you can't get into the state flagship that has a stellar reputation, especially for your major, or if money is not an issue. I understand the appeal. I have a bit of wanderlust myself. But, for most people, money is an issue, so it makes no sense to forgo the state flagship that may have a great reputation for your major, over a lesser oos just because you want to be a road warrior. |
Nobody in their right mind would choose U of SC over UMD for CS or engineering. That would be a dumb move. |
Or Math, Physics, Journalism, Political Science… |
Actually some kids prefer U of SC |
Just because they prefer it doesn't make it not a dumb move. USC out of state likely costs a lot more for a much lower quality education. |
You’re mistaken |
I don’t think the towns even necessarily need to be “better”. Just being somewhere different is fun. |
“it makes no sense to forgo the state flagship that may have a great reputation for your major, over a lesser oos just because you want to be a road warrior.”
I guess we should just send you our contact information & let you decide what our priorities should be and how to run our lives. |
+1 |
+1 My DD is planning to head out of VA because she wants to get away from this political climate. Women’s rights/LGTBQ+ right are a priority for her. |
I agree. We have twins that wanted totally different experiences than Wash DC offers (coming from private schools). They do want the bid school experience , big sports included. One is going to the University of Texas. The other is going to PSU. Vastly different schools in some ways. To each their own. We live in DC proper, and both kids said they would never stay in DC for school or even Virginia. They both were accepted to Georgetown and UVA but wanted to attend college farther away from home. I'm excited for them. Who know's how it turns out. |
The Georgetown app is a total PITA. Why go through that if you "would never stay in DC for school"? |
Your kid picked Penn State over Georgetown and UVA? I am shocked, actually. |
“Thus, if I mention Paris has the wonderful Louvre, then Paris is a dull, meh city. Sure.“
Not quite. The key premise is that no matter how sophisticated people act, for the vast majority of residents, museums are something they voluntarily visit rarely if at all. And even if they do go, I’m skeptical about what they learn in them. So, given the level to which residents’ attendance at museums and improvement from museums are (from my experience) vastly overestimated, if museums show up on your short list of reasons that some place is peachy to spend years in, I can only conclude that that place doesn’t have a lot going for it. Museums might be a reason to visit a place, but reasons to visit & reasons to spend years somewhere are 2 different lists. If you tell me you lived in Paris for 10 years, visited museums every month, and came out of each visit with a new insight on life, fine. I’m happy for you. But I would also say you have no resemblance to any college student I ever met. |