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Anonymous wrote:In state = 13th Grade
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That's what parents/kids say when they don't get in. It's a face-saving technique that's entirely transparent.
What? Plenty of kids who don't get into UVA or UMD can do better than VT/JMU or UMBC oos
dp... yes, but this particular thread is about how going to in state = 13th year.
If you are saying that someone applied to but didn't get into to UVA or UMD (in state), that would still mean they were willing to do the 13th grade.
And if you didn't get into UVA/UMD, and then say it's like "13th grade", then that's just face-saving sour grapes.
I hope my kids leave the state/area for college. But they may prefer the “13th grade” option. It’s just how it is and different people have different preferences.
If you are offended by “13th grade” then you may want to reflect on why.
DP. It's not "offensive," it's merely inaccurate. Students do not run into their high school classmates at any of these large schools unless they make a plan to do so. There are thousands of students, including many OOS kids. People who call it "13th grade" don't actually have kids at these schools; they're just making dumb statements that aren't backed up in way.
“13th grade” doesn’t mean they literally run into HS peers constantly. It’s just a continuation of what they have done for the last 13 years.
If you are offended by it, that really speaks more about your own insecurities.
Please explain how it is in any way a "continuation of what they have done for the last 13 years" any more than any other college would be. Especially if we've all established they are not seeing their HS peers at these large schools. We'll wait.
You think kids from FCPS have significantly different life experiences than kids from ACPS? VA state colleges are full of nova kids who have all had similar upbringings. Many will end up back in nova. 13th grade.
I’m hoping my kids will pick somewhere OOS, but they might pick in-state. Which is fine if that’s what they prefer.
The 13th grade thing is such bullshit. One third of UVA is from NOVA, one third is from other parts of the state, and one third are from elsewhere. The kids from NOVA come from some of the most diverse suburbs in the country. Many have parents who moved here from elsewhere. And any given student doesn’t know the overwhelming majority of them and has nothing to do with the kids from their own high school.
I had two kids go to UVA. Both studied abroad in college and lived abroad for several years after college. One got a master’s degree in Europe in the middle of a several year stint living in Latin America. The other joined the Peace Corps. One’s bff from college is Australian; the other’s is from New Hampshire. Their experience is no less diverse than that of my other kid, who went to college 1000 miles away (turning down William & Mary for merit aid).
I guarantee you that my UVA grads are far more “worldly” than your typical Fairfax kid going to OSU or IU.