You do not have the data to back up this statement. You have not been able to show that the students getting in from public school are less deserving than private school kids. All you have is one or two stories of kids from your local publics getting into a school your private school peers were not getting into. And you have absolutely no way of knowing why. There are very high quality public school kids and public schools with high rigor. Regardless of what you think about grade inflation etc, An A student from my kid's high school with 12 APs is outstanding. Not all kids are able to do this by far. There are a few and the kids know who they are. And other than the athletes, these are the ones getting into the T10 schools, UVA Echols etc. For the T10 schools, so many many applicants are highly qualified. When one kid gets in over another, it can feel arbitrary and capricious. The only thing that has changed recently (if anything) is that private school kids are also feeling the randomness of the process which they were protected from in years past. But get over this idea that your children are disadvantaged. |
So you’re disadvantaged, maybe, at 2% of colleges in America. A true tragedy. |
I have no dog in this fight- but intuitively I feel amidst the chaos of gazillions of apps, high GPA is better than high rigor (either at the course level or the school level). A kid who is getting the best possible grades at his school is going to be looked upon favorably, whereas a kid who is not will be looked upon with some suspicion (during the two minute application review). When you are looking at 4.0 after 4.0, why bother with 3.5? I understand some state schools don't even entertain an application below a certain GPA threshold. |
People paying 200k for that treatment should be made at their schools' for refusing to play the game that everybody else is playing. This would be like a football team morally opposed to the forward pass wondering why it can't win |
they can always go to public and also get the grade inflation treatment. |
Is it also no big deal if blacks are disadvantaged at these colleges? Discuss. |
Exactly. If you are so sure that grade inflated publics are advantageous...then give your kid that advantage. I am sure your kid will just rocket to the top of the class with " minimal" eork |
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The whole premises that these kids are "disadvantaged" is flawed
1. There is no proof that going to a school "with rigor" makes you smarter or more able to do well and excel at the top colleges - Lots of homework doesn't equal IQ or intelligence no matter how measured 2. There is no proof that all students at these schools are the brightest in the region - the admissions at the private schools are a black box and we all know kids anecdotally who are there who are not going to win a Nobel Prize in mathmatics. We know they can afford a heft tuition and have connected parents 3. No proof that a 3.5 at these school is better than a 4.0 at any public or non-Big 3 school The only disadvantage might be that schools are only going to take a few kids from most HSs and if your student isn't in the top 1 or 2 that could hurt them - but that is not a structural disadvantage against your child . My kids btw are not in public school but i am really embarrassed by this thread. Your kids don't get to jump the line because you paid alot of tuition for k-12. |
Where did OP say that public school kids do "minimal work"? Maybe I missed it. |
Public HS teachers major in the subject they teach, not education. They then take an education minor or pursue a MEd for licensure. Elementary teachers major in education. |
As a parent who has had kids in a FCPS, a Big 3 and a catholic school, there is no doubt that the academic rigor/course load at the Big 3 was far more intense. It was also far more difficult to get an A at the Big 3. That doesn't mean the kids at the publics or catholic schools are any less bright but it does mean that the kids at the Big 3 are expected to work much harder. The quality of a B in english at a Big 3 is far above what constitutes an A at FCPS. Just is. The frustration of parents on this board is, in essence: why did I put my kid through that. It's a sentiment that is completely understandable. That other parents aren't empathetic to that frustration is also understandable. |
Not in every state. |
This is the quote at issue but I don’t think it was OP who wrote it. |
i do understand that you "feel" that. As do a lot of private school parents. Someone is going to have to show that in some way that is rigorous to be anything more than whining thought. |
I mean, I'm no big fan of affirmative action or racial preferences of any kind. But, comparing the historical discrimination faced by African-Americans in college admissions versus the slightly lower level of advantage currently happening to rich private schoolers is a little tone deaf. |