Husbands out there - what could your wife do differently to increase your drive?

[Anonymous]

Just curious what you think could change in you house that would make you more in the mood.

[Anonymous]

Drive is fine. She just would need to be more available.

[Anonymous]

I'm a DW who's interested in this question too, OP. So far, I've thrown out all my granny panties and only have matching bra and panty sets; I've stopped burping around him (never farted); I've sent him raunchy pics; and I'm letting my hair get quite long.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a DW who's interested in this question too, OP. So far, I've thrown out all my granny panties and only have matching bra and panty sets; I've stopped burping around him (never farted); I've sent him raunchy pics; and I'm letting my hair get quite long.

Something is seriously wrong with a man who can't get excited over a ready and willing wife.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a DW who's interested in this question too, OP. So far, I've thrown out all my granny panties and only have matching bra and panty sets; I've stopped burping around him (never farted); I've sent him raunchy pics; and I'm letting my hair get quite long.

Something is seriously wrong with a man who can't get excited over a ready and willing wife.

Agreed. I do none of these things and my husband is on me all the time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a DW who's interested in this question too, OP. So far, I've thrown out all my granny panties and only have matching bra and panty sets; I've stopped burping around him (never farted); I've sent him raunchy pics; and I'm letting my hair get quite long.

Something is seriously wrong with a man who can't get excited over a ready and willing wife.

+1

[Anonymous]

More in the mood? She just simply exits. Whenever she is near me, I'm in the mood. She lost 40lbs a few years ago and was just as attracted to her when she was heavy as I am now that she is fit.

[Anonymous]

Give him a hand job and stop just before he comes. Then he will beg you. If it is not working, find someone on the side if divorce is not an option.

[Anonymous]

Sigh. Very jealous of these wives with DH's who are always ready to go. It's like pulling teeth over here. V demoralizing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sigh. Very jealous of these wives with DH's who are always ready to go. It's like pulling teeth over here. V demoralizing.

There's gotta be an underlying hormonal issue ( assuming he's not gay). Is he heavy? That leads to low T which is a huge culprit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sigh. Very jealous of these wives with DH's who are always ready to go. It's like pulling teeth over here. V demoralizing.

You don't know much painful for those DH with low drive wives.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sigh. Very jealous of these wives with DH's who are always ready to go. It's like pulling teeth over here. V demoralizing.

There's gotta be an underlying hormonal issue ( assuming he's not gay). Is he heavy? That leads to low T which is a huge culprit.

Works both ways. Is she heavy?

[Anonymous]

In our case a lethal combo of illness, anti-depressants, aging, fatigue and young kids.

[Anonymous]

My DH has not initiated sex for over a year. Is it me? Is it him? I'm not perfect but not that repulsive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My DH has not initiated sex for over a year. Is it me? Is it him? I'm not perfect but not that repulsive.

Its HIM. Any normal man is going to jump at tue opportunity with a ready and willing woman. They are not picky, you don't have to be perfect by any stretch.

I don't know how you folks tolerate sexless marriages. I'd have an affair ZERO DOUBT.