You’re disgusted by the idea of context being inportant? |
+1 I didn’t read the whole thread but this comment resonates. My perspective is from decades of work as a DV advocate, defense attorney and prosecutor, and attorney for children, parents and the state in the child welfare court. I’ve seen a very great deal and been very extensively and well educated by professionals in all the relevant areas that pertain to this case. Kitty and Jose Menendez were horrible abusers, nobody should be defending them in any respect. Yes it is equally awful abuse to be fully aware your children are being raped and to do nothing to protect them - never mind the other psychological abuse that was inflicted by the domestic abuse in the family system which is corroborated by Jose’s own family - they all know he was a bastard to his wife and kids. At the same time the two sons can be spoiled entitled etc. and of course there is every possibility that they have disordered personalities because they’ve been raped by their own father for many years and cruelly bullied by him as well. That is early childhood trauma people, of course they aren’t perfect people after going through the abuse and trauma they had no way to leave and no protection from. People are reacting viscerally to the killing of parents which I get, but a great many of you are not applying reason to the total set of facts. 30+ years for a murder of tormentors committed by damaged boys whose brains were not fully developed seems like a reasonable place to begin considering if we really believe in the rehabilitation we preach. Their infractions have been very minor and their accomplishments in prison extensive, from everything I’ve read. They heard the concerns of the board and can address those concerns and if the board is honest they will reward them next time they are considered for release assuming the record shows they’ve made the progress requested. |
That's not what I said or implied. I don't think the "context" of the comparisons you made are remotely the same. |
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Charles Manson was horribly abused in childhood. Did you think he should be released, too? |
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I cannot believe those that think these men should be freed.
The gist here is that these two premeditated a murder - a murder of two human beings. They planned the murder in advance (obviously so) then lied about doing so after the fact. They then went on multiple spending sprees almost immediately in the aftermath, then once they were caught they used a common technique = the abuse excuse. They have zero proof that they had been abused, one statement from another person who claimed they were abused by one of their victims is simply not enough. (I haven’t heard that the former Menudo member who allegedly was abused by their dad testified in depth about said abuse). ** If these two were actually rehabilitated during their incarceration they would have followed prison rules. Instead they justified their infractions using excuses. Ex: they smuggled in cell phones which in jail were illegal contraband. Their reasoning? That they were afraid that their phone calls would be recorded, then leaked publicly due to their notoriety. See a familiar pattern here? |
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When they break rules/laws, they try to justify doing so to paint themselves as victims. If they cannot follow laws inside jail they most certainly will be unable to follow them if they are part of society again. And then taxpayers will likely foot the bill for any legal measures that would follow. The best thing would be to keep them locked up until they both are deceased which will keep the public safe too. |
Yes he should be released. He can’t do any more harm at this point |
While I respect your comprehensive response, I cannot in good faith be convinced that these two premeditated two examples that you provided are stable enough to call for the release of two self-confessed murderers. The letter that was written could have been part of the premeditation (like purchasing the guns used) of their murder plan. Also the sexual abuse by the former Menudo member is simply an allegation >> there is no mitigating evidence that can prove Jose actually abused this person. No written messages or even phone messages, etc. And yes, Jose likely was a huge jerk (even much worse!) to his family, however his two sons knew where the door was and could have rightfully left home. When they were minors they could have stayed w/one of their relatives that are claiming now that Jose abused his family. Yet instead they chose to exact mortal revenge, then get paid for it claiming self defense made them do it. What explains the shopping sprees afterward?? And who really believes that their jail infractions were minor? Running an elaborate tax scheme with a drug gang does not sound benign to me. Nor does selling drugs behind bars….. |
Context matters here, DID you think was pertaining to when Manson was actually alive -> not meaning now in the present tense since we all know he is deceased at this time. |
+1 Of course. That poster was just being a jerk. |
You do realize he did not actually kill anyone right? These 2 did. |
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They were adults that went back and killed their parents, and then went on a shopping spree.
Hmmmm ……… |
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Just because you think these two men should remain behind bars does not mean that you do not believe that they were sexually molested.
I think they could have been, but that is really not relevant to this situation. I do not think being sexually molested gives people a free license to commit murder - especially one as calculated and brutal such as this one was. Of course if a minor is being abused and the abuser is threatening them with immediate bodily injury then that would be relevant. But these two guys were both old enough to leave home w/o breaking any law, they were not mandated to live with their parents as they were no longer minors. And it is a fact that they were not being abused during the course of the killing. Yes they have lost their youth while incarcerated but their parents both lost their entire lives. And these two have shown over the course of their incarceration that they have issues with following basic rules. Selling drugs behind bars can be indicative of how their mindset works. As well as defrauding innocent victims in an elaborate tax scheme. Just because a prison guard is singing their praises does not mean they are changed men. Because it was one or more of these guards that smuggled in cellphones as well as drugs for these brothers inside the prison. |
Plus one The brothers are justifying their actions with excuses, just like they are justifying killing their parents. They say they felt that their parents were going to murder them, that they felt forced to shoot them in an act of pure self defense. Yet it is obvious that they could have left their home as they were old enough to get a job and an apartment. If they shot their parents because of years of abuse they surely didn’t seem like victims while out spending major dollars on expensive cars and watches, ETC. |