Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Who the hell is Finn??

Seraphina, the second daughter, introduced herself as Finn a few months ago when eulogizing Garner’s dad. Ben and Jennifer Garner traveled to West Virginia for the funeral back in April together with the kids.

Perhaps this was another bone to pick for J Lo. I truly think her insecurity over Garner and Ben is what unraveled their relationship. She isn’t as close with her co parenting so she doesn’t understand their bonds are closer

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think Finn is perfectly fine but the oldest may be a bit hypochondriac.

She is hyper persistent about masks which is a good thing but she seems very risk averse which is the total opposite of her father.

Violet is a constipated princess. Ugh.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I feel bad for her.

Why? They're both incapable of a long term relationship. She's just as much to blame as him - especially the 2nd time.

not PP, and I don't even like JLO but I feel sorry for her because this is very painful. He clearly dumped her, while she went all in - really in (not like him). She should have known better and not do xyz, but still, the punishment is brutal. Romantic life doesn't get much worse than where she is now.

Totally agree with this. Good for her with blitzing the media with all the drama he brought. He just wanted to get her, he did and then he just returned to who he was before. He seems miserable and tiresome. he knew exactly who she was when he married her and that’s that. I hope she finds happiness

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think Finn is perfectly fine but the oldest may be a bit hypochondriac.

She is hyper persistent about masks which is a good thing but she seems very risk averse which is the total opposite of her father.

Violet is a constipated princess. Ugh.

As the oldest child, Violet went through a lot watching her dad's shenanigans over the years. Must have been very hard for her. Not surprising she's got some control issues and perfectionism. My DH developed similar coping mechanisms after being raised in chaos.

[Anonymous]

I feel bad for everyone in this situation, except Ben Affleck who needs five kinds of rehab and a lobotomy.

[Anonymous]

Violet, who is very close to her mom, voluntarily spent time with J Lo this summer, on her own. To me that speaks volumes about the dynamics and what went down.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Violet, who is very close to her mom, voluntarily spent time with J Lo this summer, on her own. To me that speaks volumes about the dynamics and what went down.

What does it say to you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Violet, who is very close to her mom, voluntarily spent time with J Lo this summer, on her own. To me that speaks volumes about the dynamics and what went down.

What does it say to you?

That JLo is a kind and warm role model and that Violet already knew what her dad was like, he’s been through other women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Violet voluntarily spent time with J Lo this summer, on her own. To me that speaks volumes about the dynamics and what went down.

That's the narrative that JLo wants you to think. You don't know that Violet voluntarily spent time with JLo. It could've been JLo's idea to invite Violet along. JLo does things because she knows it will be photographed.

In fact, the pap pics from the Hamptons vacation were staged. Whitney Port was physically there when JLo set up pap shots outside the ice cream shop. Whitney said JLo staged those pictures.
https://pagesix.com/2024/08/07/entertainment/whitney-port-saw-weird-jennifer-lopez-set-up-paparazzi-shot-in-hamptons/

[Anonymous]

^^ I'm not convinced these two knew what happened. The reporting is vague and sloppy --the town name was even misspelled.

"Candy Kitchen in Brideghampton … is so special that I’m pretty sure J. Lo the other day was riding her bike to get a scoop of ice cream for a paparazzi shot,” the former reality star, 39, said in last week’s episode.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Violet, who is very close to her mom, voluntarily spent time with J Lo this summer, on her own. To me that speaks volumes about the dynamics and what went down.

She was kind because she wanted to win Ben back. I’m sure she was not kind about Jennifer Garner and that’s why Ben was turned off.

He’s the only one allowed to mistreat Jennifer Garner

[Anonymous]

I believe the stories that John Miller, Garners bf, was also jealous.

Why would J Lo and John not be jealous? Those two have a history. They were married for 10 years with 3 kids..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Violet voluntarily spent time with J Lo this summer, on her own. To me that speaks volumes about the dynamics and what went down.

That's the narrative that JLo wants you to think. You don't know that Violet voluntarily spent time with JLo. It could've been JLo's idea to invite Violet along. JLo does things because she knows it will be photographed.

In fact, the pap pics from the Hamptons vacation were staged. Whitney Port was physically there when JLo set up pap shots outside the ice cream shop. Whitney said JLo staged those pictures.
https://pagesix.com/2024/08/07/entertainment/whitney-port-saw-weird-jennifer-lopez-set-up-paparazzi-shot-in-hamptons/

Violet is 18. She didn't need to fly across the country and spend time with her stepmom without her dad present unless she wanted to.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think Finn is perfectly fine but the oldest may be a bit hypochondriac.

She is hyper persistent about masks which is a good thing but she seems very risk averse which is the total opposite of her father.

Violet is a constipated princess. Ugh.

And you know this how?

[Anonymous]

I think Ben will have another oops baby in the future with a young girlfriend. He’s 100% going to be in a dramatic child support situation in the future