Please explain more. When I over eat I gain weight. When I need to lose weight my brain tells me I'm hungry. Instead of grabbing a burger and fries I eat whole foods that fill me, but are lower calories. Everytime my brain says eat, I eat, but choose foods that are healthy and lower calories. A result is I lose weight. Couldn't the people whose bodies are regulating high do the same thing and lose? Especially if exercise is a part of their lifestyle. |
Why can’t depressed people just choose to be happy? That’s what I do. If my brain is telling me to be sad, I just think about happy things until I’m not sad. Especially people who meditate as part of their lifestyle, like I do. Why do people need antidepressants? I don’t, I just use mental discipline and choose to be happy. Why can’t people do what I do instead of taking antidepressants? Please explain. (Obviously I don’t actually believe anything this simplistic.) |
#1 Willpower is not a factor #2 You are accusing them of some type of moral failure #3 95% of diets just don't work #4 You are dumb and don't understand science Those are the talking points |
I think the difference is that while the friend is taking the time and effort to do all the steps, some who are obese are not willing to try the proven steps to lose weight. They are eating the wrong food, drinking alcohol and not moving their bodies. This is what I see with the obese people in my life. So far they don't have diabetes so I'm not sure if they would qualify, but I'd love for them to take the drug to get healthy. I would not be jealous or think they are taking anything from me. I'm thin but not someone who can eat whatever I want and not gain. |
I’m not diabetic and my total cholesterol was 203. BMI of 30. My insurer paid for Saxenda. |
How much weight have you lost? Imagine that you weigh a healthy 150 pounds at 5’7. You’ve been that since college and it’s not hard to maintain that weight, it’s just where you naturally are when you’re not dieting. So somewhere in the middle of the normal BMI range. Imagine if you decided to weigh 110 pounds. How hard would it be to lose and then maintain that weight forever? Be honest. Could you do it, put in that kind of discipline and meticulous tracking for the rest of your life? That’s about as hard as it is for someone who weighs 300 pounds to weigh 150 pounds. Their bodies want to be 300 pounds just as badly as your body wants to be 150 pounds. |
Nonsense. Every obese person is not obese due to the way their brain works. Before these drugs people lost weight. Look at Jennifer Hudson. She changed they way she ate and has maintained a healthy weight for years. |
She had bariatric surgery, my judgmental friend. But I love how you can’t address the merits of the argument, you are just flailing for random celebrities. |
Same. I would not be jealous at all if my obese family members lost weight by taking a drug. I would be thrilled for them that there is finally something that works. I don’t understand thin people who wish for other people to stay obese so they can feel superior. I also don’t understand obese people who won’t even try these drugs and prefer to glamorize their obesity with tons of sugary cocktails, rich desserts, steak dinners, and sedentary lifestyles. Hedonism, gluttony, and BMI 45-50 are neither healthy nor attractive. |
Thank you for the explanation. 110 at 5'7 is underweight so that would be hard to maintain. The obese people in my life were healthy weight for most of their lives and then gained. So maybe something in their bodies changed and now it is hard to go back to a healthy weight. |
So many on this thread said the surgery doesn't work. If she did have the surgery (I'm not her doctor so I don't know. How do you know?) she has also made lifestyle changes to maintain. |
Now do Drew Carey. |
Surgery does work well, I don’t know where you got that. It isn’t perfect, and obesity is a chronic disease that even people who had surgery will need to manage for the rest of their lives. My DH had the sleeve 11 years ago, and in the past 3 years has had to track his calories and do WeightWatchers. It works for him now, whereas before the surgery he was never able to maintain a loss - it was relentless gaining. He’s now a more normal chubby dude who can control his weight through diet. |
Fine, 120 then. Still a normal weight but you’d have to lose 20% of your body weight from 150. Most people can admit that it would be pretty hard and take an intense amount of discipline to lose it and maintain it for life. But we tell obese people that they all should have that level of discipline so they can be a normal weight. |
Also had surgery. And Al Roker. |