Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?

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Anonymous wrote:Yes men change. Omg, the vast majority of men over 50 are not attractive due to not taking care of themselves over the years. The ones that are (I do know some from sports we play together ) freely admit that they have slowed down. Nature hits everyone.

Eh. Not me. I'm 53 and I'm lifting heavier now than I did in my late 20s. If there's a slow-down point, I haven't hit it yet.

Same. 52 yo dude with abs

52 year old abs aren’t the same as 25 year old abs. Huge difference. I like both, but prefer the 25 year old ones.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes men change. Omg, the vast majority of men over 50 are not attractive due to not taking care of themselves over the years. The ones that are (I do know some from sports we play together ) freely admit that they have slowed down. Nature hits everyone.

Eh. Not me. I'm 53 and I'm lifting heavier now than I did in my late 20s. If there's a slow-down point, I haven't hit it yet.

Same. 52 yo dude with abs

Yeah but can you have sex five times a day like you did in your twenties? Most men in their fifties can’t.

Twice per day, Yes. And if that's not enough for you, I would happily keep going with toys.

I’m a 50yo man who can easily go five times per day with my girlfriend. No problem at alk. A full day? Come on, that’s not difficult. That’s a lot of time.

It can be done but it is rare. I dated a 47 year old who could go 4 imes in less than 9 hours. He wasn't American. Lot of it has to do with the unhealthy diet, stress, etc. He was just as strong the first time as he was the fourth.

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No. They've had other men's children in most cases and they have mental baggage too. It makes me sad.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes men change. Omg, the vast majority of men over 50 are not attractive due to not taking care of themselves over the years. The ones that are (I do know some from sports we play together ) freely admit that they have slowed down. Nature hits everyone.

Eh. Not me. I'm 53 and I'm lifting heavier now than I did in my late 20s. If there's a slow-down point, I haven't hit it yet.

Same. 52 yo dude with abs

52 year old abs aren’t the same as 25 year old abs. Huge difference. I like both, but prefer the 25 year old ones.

I didn't have abs when I was 25 because I wasn't eating right. Now at 53, I do. That's the main difference.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes men change. Omg, the vast majority of men over 50 are not attractive due to not taking care of themselves over the years. The ones that are (I do know some from sports we play together ) freely admit that they have slowed down. Nature hits everyone.

Eh. Not me. I'm 53 and I'm lifting heavier now than I did in my late 20s. If there's a slow-down point, I haven't hit it yet.

Same. 52 yo dude with abs

Yeah but can you have sex five times a day like you did in your twenties? Most men in their fifties can’t.

Twice per day, Yes. And if that's not enough for you, I would happily keep going with toys.

I’m a 50yo man who can easily go five times per day with my girlfriend. No problem at alk. A full day? Come on, that’s not difficult. That’s a lot of time.

It can be done but it is rare. I dated a 47 year old who could go 4 imes in less than 9 hours. He wasn't American. Lot of it has to do with the unhealthy diet, stress, etc. He was just as strong the first time as he was the fourth.

He may have been able to go 4 times in less than 9 hours, but he wouldn't have been able to do 4 times in EVERY nine hours. I don't remember where I read it, it was some book written by a man who admitted that yes, men like to talk about how they did it twelve times a night when they were twenty, but they never say it was JUST ONE NIGHT when they did it twelve times a night.

There is an old but funny youtube clip called Real R'nB songs that goes..."nobody really makes love ALL night long." And it's true.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes men change. Omg, the vast majority of men over 50 are not attractive due to not taking care of themselves over the years. The ones that are (I do know some from sports we play together ) freely admit that they have slowed down. Nature hits everyone.

Eh. Not me. I'm 53 and I'm lifting heavier now than I did in my late 20s. If there's a slow-down point, I haven't hit it yet.

Same. 52 yo dude with abs

52 year old abs aren’t the same as 25 year old abs. Huge difference. I like both, but prefer the 25 year old ones.

I didn't have abs when I was 25 because I wasn't eating right. Now at 53, I do. That's the main difference.

You may look better now at 53 than you did at 25, but you can’t hold a candle to a 25 year old who is in good shape. Doesn’t mean you aren’t attractive at all, it just means younger men are more attractive.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes men change. Omg, the vast majority of men over 50 are not attractive due to not taking care of themselves over the years. The ones that are (I do know some from sports we play together ) freely admit that they have slowed down. Nature hits everyone.

Eh. Not me. I'm 53 and I'm lifting heavier now than I did in my late 20s. If there's a slow-down point, I haven't hit it yet.

Same. 52 yo dude with abs

52 year old abs aren’t the same as 25 year old abs. Huge difference. I like both, but prefer the 25 year old ones.

I didn't have abs when I was 25 because I wasn't eating right. Now at 53, I do. That's the main difference.

You may look better now at 53 than you did at 25, but you can’t hold a candle to a 25 year old who is in good shape. Doesn’t mean you aren’t attractive at all, it just means younger men are more attractive.

I'm 32 and I really think the age thing is on a case by case basis.

On average? Sure. A group of 25-year-olds if either gender will be shinier, brighter whatever.

But there's depth and complexity that comes with age that nothing compares to. The understanding of situations, how to dress, how to carry oneself - it's incredibly attractive with either gender. When done right (big if - there are as many buffoonish older people as young).

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Anonymous wrote:Yes men change. Omg, the vast majority of men over 50 are not attractive due to not taking care of themselves over the years. The ones that are (I do know some from sports we play together ) freely admit that they have slowed down. Nature hits everyone.

Eh. Not me. I'm 53 and I'm lifting heavier now than I did in my late 20s. If there's a slow-down point, I haven't hit it yet.

Same. 52 yo dude with abs

Yeah but can you have sex five times a day like you did in your twenties? Most men in their fifties can’t.

Twice per day, Yes. And if that's not enough for you, I would happily keep going with toys.

I’m a 50yo man who can easily go five times per day with my girlfriend. No problem at alk. A full day? Come on, that’s not difficult. That’s a lot of time.

It can be done but it is rare. I dated a 47 year old who could go 4 imes in less than 9 hours. He wasn't American. Lot of it has to do with the unhealthy diet, stress, etc. He was just as strong the first time as he was the fourth.

He may have been able to go 4 times in less than 9 hours, but he wouldn't have been able to do 4 times in EVERY nine hours. I don't remember where I read it, it was some book written by a man who admitted that yes, men like to talk about how they did it twelve times a night when they were twenty, but they never say it was JUST ONE NIGHT when they did it twelve times a night.

There is an old but funny youtube clip called Real R'nB songs that goes..."nobody really makes love ALL night long." And it's true.

I think having all day sessions is kind of unrealistic though. No?

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Anonymous wrote:Yes men change. Omg, the vast majority of men over 50 are not attractive due to not taking care of themselves over the years. The ones that are (I do know some from sports we play together ) freely admit that they have slowed down. Nature hits everyone.

Eh. Not me. I'm 53 and I'm lifting heavier now than I did in my late 20s. If there's a slow-down point, I haven't hit it yet.

Same. 52 yo dude with abs

52 year old abs aren’t the same as 25 year old abs. Huge difference. I like both, but prefer the 25 year old ones.

The 25 year old abs are pretty but they are attached to a 25 year old. I'd definitely go for the 52 year old. An experienced man, thank you very much.

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Good for scratching. Meeeeeoooow.

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I find them attractive. Past child rearing, usually empty nesters and while they may have hang ups about their not 30 year old bodies they are often amazing in bed.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes men change. Omg, the vast majority of men over 50 are not attractive due to not taking care of themselves over the years. The ones that are (I do know some from sports we play together ) freely admit that they have slowed down. Nature hits everyone.

Eh. Not me. I'm 53 and I'm lifting heavier now than I did in my late 20s. If there's a slow-down point, I haven't hit it yet.

Same. 52 yo dude with abs

52 year old abs aren’t the same as 25 year old abs. Huge difference. I like both, but prefer the 25 year old ones.

I didn't have abs when I was 25 because I wasn't eating right. Now at 53, I do. That's the main difference.

You may look better now at 53 than you did at 25, but you can’t hold a candle to a 25 year old who is in good shape. Doesn’t mean you aren’t attractive at all, it just means younger men are more attractive.

Good news for me, at 53, is that there aren't a lot of those 25-year-olds around. My 20-something coworkers, for example, are all skinnyfat. And they don't know how to dress well, either. Sad!

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Anonymous wrote:Yes men change. Omg, the vast majority of men over 50 are not attractive due to not taking care of themselves over the years. The ones that are (I do know some from sports we play together ) freely admit that they have slowed down. Nature hits everyone.

Eh. Not me. I'm 53 and I'm lifting heavier now than I did in my late 20s. If there's a slow-down point, I haven't hit it yet.

Same. 52 yo dude with abs

52 year old abs aren’t the same as 25 year old abs. Huge difference. I like both, but prefer the 25 year old ones.

I didn't have abs when I was 25 because I wasn't eating right. Now at 53, I do. That's the main difference.

You may look better now at 53 than you did at 25, but you can’t hold a candle to a 25 year old who is in good shape. Doesn’t mean you aren’t attractive at all, it just means younger men are more attractive.

Good news for me, at 53, is that there aren't a lot of those 25-year-olds around. My 20-something coworkers, for example, are all skinnyfat. And they don't know how to dress well, either. Sad!

Yep. All the under-30 professional dudes I see on the street in Upper Northwest or on Metro are either twig bois or fatties.

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No, past their prime and not all attractive. They start to look more like men and I'm not interested in men. I can't help how I feel. No longer able to reproduce and sex is not fun with women in their 50s. Just my opinion

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Anonymous wrote:Why do people always post pictures of celebrities when discussing aging? These pictures are taken by professionals, in ideal lighting and then retouched. I feel sorry for you women who try to compare yourselves with these photos. You'll always lose.

I've seen many celebrities in person (media job) and believe me, they don't look anything close to their public photos.

Ummmm... Some of us 50yo's don't look a hot mess. It's not always about "ideal lighting" and photos being retouched, we are actually out here looking GOOD. Stop hatin'.