I've seen enough posts on here about "playing 4 sports and 3 travel teams". Why is that OK? There seems to be an implied assumption that playing sports is "wholesome/apple pie/white bread/whatever" and such kids must be doing it out of choice.. ![]() To each their own.. |
Oh, that's every bit as problematic as well. There are a ton of (honestly, mostly white) travel sports parents who are toxic, hyper-competitive jerks who end up ruining the experience not only for their own kids but for other kids who are on the same team. Parents who force their relatively mediocre kids into additional training and additional leagues and teams in order to make them appear to be something they're not, in pursuit of the next elite team, or a high school varsity spot, or a college scholarship. It's honestly the EXACT same phenomenon. But just as TJ is adjusting their processes to account for this type of behavior, smart and savvy coaches are doing the same thing. |
If they can't diversify TJ and make it more equitable, they need to shut it down. |
25% FARMS and about 18% Black/Hispanic is a good start for class of 2025.... |
That's impressive! |
Not impressive, but better. |
Not at all. Just that the parents don't take sports as seriously. They will show up late, not inform coaches if they can't make it. Not travel, but at the rec level, it is just an activity they don't care that much about. |
Really now? So much snark and generalization. You must be a really fun person. |
Don’t worry, those FARMS and URM students will take lots of TJ spots from top college admissions in 4 years. that’s called hooks.
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So quit whining and get your kid to develop a hook. But I'll tell you, being a lesser version of other STEM-intensive kids who also come from TJ and other schools in Northern Virginia isn't going to be a great hook. |
That's what they call a non-sequitor. I think it's great they're finally adding some diversity to TJ. It should serve all tax payers not just a select group. |
Not all behave that way, but I have seen some Indian kids with this attitude on rec level teams and it’s against the rules to bench them. |
It's a little thing, but it betrays an attitude that does not comport well with "contributing to a collaborative academic environment". You're either committed to the things you commit to or you're there for yourself and what you can get out of it. |
I'd be careful ascribing that attitude to the kids. Far more often it's attributable to the parents. |
Hmm, I wonder if you see some white kids behave this way or if you’re just a racist? |