Confrssion thread

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So I kind of want to go out for a drink with the 51 year old with a great sense of humor and a phd. I'm single, so no flaming!

My ears are burning.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have been in an affair for 3 years. Tried to end it once, but it started up again. I just can't end it and the dual life is starting to kill me. DH has no idea.

Yes you can. Tell your DH. Tell your AP's wife. It will end. Like a fungus or mold, this kind of thing gets exposed to sunlight and it dries up. You don't want it to end. At least admit that to yourself. I feel so bad for your DH.He deserves much better

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have been in an affair for 3 years. Tried to end it once, but it started up again. I just can't end it and the dual life is starting to kill me. DH has no idea.

I thought my xh didn't know. He later told me he knew 2 yrs into my affair. I have a very high drive and I said no thanks for the first time in 8 yrs. I think aps wife always knew. Although he thought she didnt. Ap is a horrible liar. I tried to end it after year 3. We stayed away for a few months and it didn't work. I'm divorced and he's going through one now. Our relationship is much less stressful now that we don't have to sneak around.
My dual life started because I had begged my then husband to pay attention to me, and get off the effing Xbox. I'd walk around naked and he'd still play the xbox.
He'd ignore me all day and have sex with me while I slept.
Ugh

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have been in an affair for 3 years. Tried to end it once, but it started up again. I just can't end it and the dual life is starting to kill me. DH has no idea.

I thought my xh didn't know. He later told me he knew 2 yrs into my affair. I have a very high drive and I said no thanks for the first time in 8 yrs. I think aps wife always knew. Although he thought she didnt. Ap is a horrible liar. I tried to end it after year 3. We stayed away for a few months and it didn't work. I'm divorced and he's going through one now. Our relationship is much less stressful now that we don't have to sneak around.
My dual life started because I had begged my then husband to pay attention to me, and get off the effing Xbox. I'd walk around naked and he'd still play the xbox.
He'd ignore me all day and have sex with me while I slept.
Ugh

Wait, what?

[Anonymous]

I'm so skinny postpartum because I abuse drugs. At least I don't lie outright and pretend I work out or eat well. I just say, "I haven't had an appetite since the baby was born" which is true.

[Anonymous]

26 pages on a DCUM confession thread and not one, "I was an escort and am now a suburban mom with kids and nobody knows my past" post? This used to be a staple.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Confession 1: I've been having an inappropriate relationship with my friend/neighbor for years. Confession 2: Once I accidentally sent an explicit photo to her DH (both of their cell numbers are in my contacts list). He never mentioned it to either one of us. We think he didn't recognize the number, assumed it was a either a wrong number or some type of gay spam, and just deleted it.

OR, she is a hotwife and her husband is fully aware. What that means is you are a part of this particular 'lifestyle' but are being left in the dark.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have never strayed in my marriage. 18 years. But sex has all but stopped and for the first time I am thinking of hiring an escort

It amazes me how women just don't get how damaging the lack of sex is

They do. They just don't give a shit.

+ 100000

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm so skinny postpartum because I abuse drugs. At least I don't lie outright and pretend I work out or eat well. I just say, "I haven't had an appetite since the baby was born" which is true.

Nice. What's your drug/s of choice?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have never strayed in my marriage. 18 years. But sex has all but stopped and for the first time I am thinking of hiring an escort

It amazes me how women just don't get how damaging the lack of sex is

They do. They just don't give a shit.

+ 100000

It's your job to provide a reason for her to give a shit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm so skinny postpartum because I abuse drugs. At least I don't lie outright and pretend I work out or eat well. I just say, "I haven't had an appetite since the baby was born" which is true.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have been in an affair for 3 years. Tried to end it once, but it started up again. I just can't end it and the dual life is starting to kill me. DH has no idea.

I thought my xh didn't know. He later told me he knew 2 yrs into my affair. I have a very high drive and I said no thanks for the first time in 8 yrs. I think aps wife always knew. Although he thought she didnt. Ap is a horrible liar. I tried to end it after year 3. We stayed away for a few months and it didn't work. I'm divorced and he's going through one now. Our relationship is much less stressful now that we don't have to sneak around.
My dual life started because I had begged my then husband to pay attention to me, and get off the effing Xbox. I'd walk around naked and he'd still play the xbox.
He'd ignore me all day and have sex with me while I slept.
Ugh

Wait, what?

Yeah. I didn't find out until later. He did it often. He thoughit was funny. I'd tell " but I was asleep", and he'd say " your p**** wasnt" and then laugh. Not a cruel laugh, but one where he was so effing pleased with himself

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have been in an affair for 3 years. Tried to end it once, but it started up again. I just can't end it and the dual life is starting to kill me. DH has no idea.

I thought my xh didn't know. He later told me he knew 2 yrs into my affair. I have a very high drive and I said no thanks for the first time in 8 yrs. I think aps wife always knew. Although he thought she didnt. Ap is a horrible liar. I tried to end it after year 3. We stayed away for a few months and it didn't work. I'm divorced and he's going through one now. Our relationship is much less stressful now that we don't have to sneak around.
My dual life started because I had begged my then husband to pay attention to me, and get off the effing Xbox. I'd walk around naked and he'd still play the xbox.
He'd ignore me all day and have sex with me while I slept.
Ugh

Wait, what?

Yeah. I didn't find out until later. He did it often. He thoughit was funny. I'd tell " but I was asleep", and he'd say " your p**** wasnt" and then laugh. Not a cruel laugh, but one where he was so effing pleased with himself

Sounds like ol' Elvis was working with a little pinky if you managed to stay sleep and not know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Many years ago a close GF of mine told me about the amazing sex (multiple O's etc.) she was having with a guy we both worked with. I always liked him but never wanted to risk dating someone I worked with. But now I was intrigued even though I was definitely not someone who slept around. I hit on him soon after and the sex was amazing. We've been married 35 years and the sex is still great. Just this morning I told him that "I missed him" since he's been recovering from minor surgery. He said "I'm back" so I'm looking forward to tonight! BTW, I'm still friends with my old GF. Many years ago I was dumb enough to tell my DH what my GF had said and he said something like advertising does work. They weren't really dating, more like today's FWB, so I never felt like I stole him from her.

That is so great. How old are you now? Are you one of those rare post-menopause DWs who still has sex? 51 here and my DW could be fine never having sex again. I hear stories like yours and I get so jealous and frustrated in equal measure....

PP here - I'm 65 and still love sex and DH is 66. It takes lube and some meds for me but DH has no problems unless he has a wee bit too much to drink. I know we are very lucky but the sexual connection has always been important for both of us.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have been in an affair for 3 years. Tried to end it once, but it started up again. I just can't end it and the dual life is starting to kill me. DH has no idea.

I thought my xh didn't know. He later told me he knew 2 yrs into my affair. I have a very high drive and I said no thanks for the first time in 8 yrs. I think aps wife always knew. Although he thought she didnt. Ap is a horrible liar. I tried to end it after year 3. We stayed away for a few months and it didn't work. I'm divorced and he's going through one now. Our relationship is much less stressful now that we don't have to sneak around.
My dual life started because I had begged my then husband to pay attention to me, and get off the effing Xbox. I'd walk around naked and he'd still play the xbox.
He'd ignore me all day and have sex with me while I slept.
Ugh

Wait, what?

Yeah. I didn't find out until later. He did it often. He thoughit was funny. I'd tell " but I was asleep", and he'd say " your p**** wasnt" and then laugh. Not a cruel laugh, but one where he was so effing pleased with himself

Sounds like ol' Elvis was working with a little pinky if you managed to stay sleep and not know.

It was like a aa battery.