what's the worst affair story you've heard of where the marriage recovered?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

You forget what the AP wants. They might want the child and they might want to break someone else's heart and get lots of attention. An abortion breaks the heart of the AP

LOL. MarriageBuilders poster, whether your position is "evil" or moral is academic. The bottom line is that the choice to have contact with the child is that the choice is ultimately his.

Men are naturally curious about their offspring. Many a man who has wanted his mistress to have an abortion loves the child on first sight. Of course, that's what you fear.

Eventually, he'll give in to his curiosity and meet the child.. Attempts to control his email and phone won't change that; in fact, the fact that the child is "forbidden fruit" will only make the meeting more dramatic and emotional.

Then what? Do yo follow through on your threat to divorce him? Doubtful. Do you apply an extra layer of control, making the mistress look even better.

If he's afraid of the financial fallout of divorce that he'll stick with you even after meeting the child. Based on what you posted, it sounds like you fear that's not the case.

If he wants to leave, he'll leave. You can make all the threats you want, but the courts will give him the kids every other weekend, same as every other father gets them. The best you can do is look as attractive as possible and make sure he gets laid as often as he wants and how he wants.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The best you can do is look as attractive as possible and make sure he gets laid as often as he wants and how he wants.

That's the mistress' game, wives don't have to contort themselves this way.

My husband had fathered a child outside of marriage. We stayed together and he sees the child. However, as a condition of staying together I made him sign a postnup that directs all marital assets to me. I work hard for my money and my goal was to make sure that all the benefits, house, money and insurance goes to MY children. The trustee is someone else. I don't hate the child but I won't support her, and neither will my money after my death.

[Anonymous]

This is the worse I have seen. Never thot they would reconcile.

DW had an affair with another man who was also married. Eloped with this man for 3 days leaving behind two kids. DH knew about the affair and the day she was planning to elope. Sent the cops/her parents after them. Cops/parents caught them and brought them home.
Few days later the other man finds out it was DW's sister-in-laws's husband who helped the husband sent the cops and catch them. He hired some goons and killed sister-in-laws husband.

DW and husband are back together happily while DH's sister's life was ruined. Few years later SH's sister got re-married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She chested, drained the bank account, kidnapped the children and moved in with his best friend. He hanged himself.

OMG. when? did this make the news?

When does suicide ever make the news? Ffs, go back under your rock

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is the worse I have seen. Never thot they would reconcile.

DW had an affair with another man who was also married. Eloped with this man for 3 days leaving behind two kids. DH knew about the affair and the day she was planning to elope. Sent the cops/her parents after them. Cops/parents caught them and brought them home.
Few days later the other man finds out it was DW's sister-in-laws's husband who helped the husband sent the cops and catch them. He hired some goons and killed sister-in-laws husband.

DW and husband are back together happily while DH's sister's life was ruined. Few years later SH's sister got re-married.

OMG..Where was this? was it in news