Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?

[Anonymous]

Only very, rarely. We’re programmed to like beautiful women in their twenties and early thirties. Sorry.

[Anonymous]

quick scan of the women at the party I attended on Saturday night showed 1 over 45 that looked good. The men were probably overall worse looking. Maybe this topic should be rephrased "if you are a good looking, in shape 50 something man would you date women in their 50s" the reality of that topic is No..why would they, its easy to date much younger.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Only very, rarely. We’re programmed to like beautiful women in their twenties and early thirties. Sorry.

No worries, we feel the same way about men in their 20s/30s. Mmmmm, abs....

[Anonymous]

Bottom line: most men find most women who are in fit shape attractive regardless of age. The older women get, the less likely they are fit, hence less attractive. Here are the mathematical formulae:

Man's "is she attractive" formula: 82% body + 10% face + 5% hair + 2% clothes + 1% nails
(not much wiggle room in any category)

Woman's "is he attractive" formula: 30% wealth + 25% height + 25% social status + 10% face/body/hair + 10% random number
(extreme wealth or social status can compensate for low scores in other categories)

[Anonymous]

Woman's "is he attractive" formula: 30% wealth + 25% height + 25% social status + 10% face/body/hair + 10% random number
(extreme wealth or social status can compensate for low scores in other categories)

I don't think it is the same for everyone. Wealth isn't that high for me, but "social status" (is he good at his job regardless of the money it makes, does he have friends and do people like him), intelligence, sense of humor, ability to make conversation, interests and hobbies can make up for a lot in terms of a guy's physical appearance.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:quick scan of the women at the party I attended on Saturday night showed 1 over 45 that looked good. The men were probably overall worse looking. Maybe this topic should be rephrased "if you are a good looking, in shape 50 something man would you date women in their 50s" the reality of that topic is No..why would they, its easy to date much younger.

You're a woman; you're judging everyone very harshly. Most not-obese women in their 50s who care to try look pretty good. Those conditions I mentioned whittle it down by quite a bit, but it is your choice.

[Anonymous]

Most men over 50 look horrible

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes men change. Omg, the vast majority of men over 50 are not attractive due to not taking care of themselves over the years. The ones that are (I do know some from sports we play together ) freely admit that they have slowed down. Nature hits everyone.

Eh. Not me. I'm 53 and I'm lifting heavier now than I did in my late 20s. If there's a slow-down point, I haven't hit it yet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Bottom line: most men find most women who are in fit shape attractive regardless of age. The older women get, the less likely they are fit, hence less attractive.

Nope. Most men of all ages find women age 20-22 most attractive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Woman's "is he attractive" formula: 30% wealth + 25% height + 25% social status + 10% face/body/hair + 10% random number
(extreme wealth or social status can compensate for low scores in other categories)

I don't think it is the same for everyone. Wealth isn't that high for me, but "social status" (is he good at his job regardless of the money it makes, does he have friends and do people like him), intelligence, sense of humor, ability to make conversation, interests and hobbies can make up for a lot in terms of a guy's physical appearance.

IOW extreme social status offsets other weak areas, and appearance is negotiable. Despite your opening sentence to the contrary, did you not just totally agree with the PP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most men over 50 look horrible

Maybe but men's attractiveness is not based on looks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Bottom line: most men find most women who are in fit shape attractive regardless of age. The older women get, the less likely they are fit, hence less attractive.

Nope. Most men of all ages find women age 20-22 most attractive.

That wasn't the question. The question is: will a 50yo man ever find a 50yo woman attractive? If she's in great physical shape, the answer is YES. Otherwise, NO.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most men over 50 look horrible

Maybe but men's attractiveness is not based on looks.

Yeah .... Right. Just cuz you're stuck with someone doesn't mean you're not revolted.

[Anonymous]

The question is: will a 50yo man ever find a 50yo woman attractive? If she's in great physical shape, the answer is YES. Otherwise, NO

A lie. If she's not fat and doesn't look like Aunt Bee, sure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Bottom line: most men find most women who are in fit shape attractive regardless of age. The older women get, the less likely they are fit, hence less attractive. Here are the mathematical formulae:

Man's "is she attractive" formula: 82% body + 10% face + 5% hair + 2% clothes + 1% nails
(not much wiggle room in any category)

I don't think you can break it down like that because for most men it is: "Will I do her if given the opportunity?" It's a "yes" or "no" and it's a body+face+hair question or overall attractiveness question. Men don't give a rat's ass about clothes or nails generally but I do agree that fitness/not fat is at least 50%. A pretty face and nice hair will not make up for being obese.