I think the above response demonstrates different traits between men and women. If you want to work in STEM, you want to know the how and the why, so that you can understand and solve a problem. Likewise in other areas in life, it allows for communication. If you're married to a man, it helps to be explicit as to what you want. There's no scores being kept here. This is an anonymous forum, we have no clue who each other are and who said what. |
ok dimwit. saying someone is IN PART unable to do the job due to their gender is overt. "Overt" does not mean "the only reason." Imagine if someone said |
I'm saying it's the most important reason, and there's no way to disentangle any other factors until we remedy discrimination. |
That's a fair view, thanks for the clarification. |
I think your comment got cut off there. I wouldn't call it overt. Instead, i would call that ambiguous. I don't read any hostility in those quotes, but you're taking offense to those quotes as well as my understanding of them. There's no need to belittle anyone's intelligence for drawing two different interpretations of the same phrase. I would caution taking offense to ambiguous statements. |
but what about women who WANT to be the lead parent? I do. It is more important to me than any other job I have ever held (and I've been an "executive") or could ever hold. my husband is willing to and capable of doing all the parenting "stuff" but I want to be the one to spend as much time with my kids before they go off to college. i think this might be the point google guy was trying to make -- woman have been "allowed" to break out of their norms, but men haven't. until they do -- and by that i mean until it is ok for them to leave the office to get the kids on a regular basis (because they want to, not because the old ball and chain is out of town), we are going to be stuck in the same ruts. |
it's not ambiguous, jerk |
Well we won't really know until men step up to the plate, will we? |
Wow you guys are old school. I did own it and I left that crappy place and found a place that appreciated my talent and compensated me very well. On top of that, I am in a leadership position, though it wasn't something I wanted. You know we are talking about tech jobs here right? If you can't figure out how to do your job without being chained to your desk or if you can't figure out how to support your boss remotely then you a pretty bad engineer.. I'm a manager now of a team of 20. We work in 5 different locations across the country; some of us work at home at least 1 day a week. I want my team to have work life balance, and I only care that they meet their deadlines and work at least 40 hours a week. And yes, I can depend on my team. |
You are committing a logical fallacy. This is pretty basic logic. |
If you're working with women, it helps to believe them when they tell you they perceive something differently from you. And the "how" and "why" that you need to understand so that you can solve problems--in any aspect of life--includes "how people feel" and "why they feel that way." You can't treat every people problem like a technical problem. |
lol. there's no logical fallacy or ambiguity there. it's just that you don't know how to read and don't understand discrimination law. |
lol. there's no logical fallacy or ambiguity there. it's just that you don't know how to read and don't understand discrimination law. "Differences in distributions of traits between men and women may in part explain why we don’t have 50% representation of women in tech and leadership." You appear to not understand the word "may" as a modifier to "in part". may 1. expressing possibility. in part 1. to some extent though not entirely. May is ambigious. In part is to what degree. Used in that quote you can have multiple interpretations (I'm open to hearing more) including: 1) Distribution of traits might (or might not) explain... 2) Distribution of traits might explain to some degree (along with other factors) o·vert done or shown openly; plainly or readily apparent, not secret or hidden. You appear to be arguing that this can be read plainly, running counter to the ambiguous language. Of course you will just dismiss all of this anyways. |
"Differences in distributions of traits between men and women may in part explain why we don’t have 50% representation of women in tech and leadership." You appear to not understand the word "may" as a modifier to "in part". may 1. expressing possibility. in part 1. to some extent though not entirely. May is ambigious. In part is to what degree. Used in that quote you can have multiple interpretations (I'm open to hearing more) including: 1) Distribution of traits might (or might not) explain... 2) Distribution of traits might explain to some degree (along with other factors) o·vert done or shown openly; plainly or readily apparent, not secret or hidden. You appear to be arguing that this can be read plainly, running counter to the ambiguous language. Of course you will just dismiss all of this anyways. "you are probably dumb because you are black, but maybe it's just because your mom is dumb too." does that sound like overt discrimination? |
I would agree with that statement, because the intent is more apparent in the second clause. I don't see the same fact pattern from the Googler's manifesto. |