I told my husband tonight that I wanted to separate

[Anonymous]

I had booked a hotel in anticipation of the announcement. He told me that if I took the car, he would call the police and have it reported stolen since it was registered in his name. He bought it before we were married. I am on the insurance as a primary driver though. If I take it, would I be arrested for theft of the car?

[Anonymous]

I don't think so. It would be too crazy. Also, what would he say- my wife stole my car? Or just report it- he would get in trouble for misinformation I think.

[Anonymous]

If his name is the only name on the title, you can be charged with auto theft.

This is why when I married I insisted my name be on the house and at least one vehicle.

[Anonymous]

Where are you? Could it be community property?

[Anonymous]

A vehicle is not community property.

[Anonymous]

Can a friend take you? Can you get a taxi?

[Anonymous]

Don't tell him you're leaving. Just find a way and go. You can figure out your vehicle situation after you get a lawyer. Be safe.

[Anonymous]

He is really angry, caught of guard and hurt right now. Don't take the car. Just call a cab or a friend and go. No need to antagonize an already vulnerable situation.

[Anonymous]

Damn. It couldn't wait until Friday?

[Anonymous]

I left our home (DH's name is the only name on the deed), DH changed the locks and I had a locksmith let me in when he was out if town since he denied me access for six months. I packed up a few things and he was, needless to say, infuriated. He called the police and a detective went to my neighbors house to investigate a "felony burglary". They never contacted me though. Yes, he tried to have the mother of his children arrested. I married a real gem.

[Anonymous]

OP, is this a typical sample of how you carry on with people? I sure he's no gem either, so don't get me wrong here.
How old are your children?

[Anonymous]

You need to talk to a lawyer about what the proper course of action is in your state.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, is this a typical sample of how you carry on with people? I sure he's no gem either, so don't get me wrong here.
How old are your children?

I'm

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I left our home (DH's name is the only name on the deed), DH changed the locks and I had a locksmith let me in when he was out if town since he denied me access for six months. I packed up a few things and he was, needless to say, infuriated. He called the police and a detective went to my neighbors house to investigate a "felony burglary". They never contacted me though. Yes, he tried to have the mother of his children arrested. I married a real gem.

I'm actually surprised you found a locksmith who did that. Most want proof that it's your home.

BTW, I would have called the police too, if my ex had done that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I left our home (DH's name is the only name on the deed), DH changed the locks and I had a locksmith let me in when he was out if town since he denied me access for six months. I packed up a few things and he was, needless to say, infuriated. He called the police and a detective went to my neighbors house to investigate a "felony burglary". They never contacted me though. Yes, he tried to have the mother of his children arrested. I married a real gem.

I'm actually surprised you found a locksmith who did that. Most want proof that it's your home.

BTW, I would have called the police too, if my ex had done that.

Wouldn't a drivers license with home address on it be sufficient proof for a locksmith? I don't think they expect you to produce the deed.