I'm just going to be honest. We often turn to private training because the coaching at the club level is lacking and doesn't prepare our kids for anything. Alternatively, we pay for extra sessions with coaches who may have influence within the club, in exchange for more favorable treatment for our child. |
I thought people did private training outside their club because they had drive and motivation to develop into strong players. Coaches are coaching a team of players. They don't have enough time to give all the kids the personal attention to their individual development. Just like school, the ones who do the most at home excel the most. |
The problem with Club supported private training is that it makes the Coaches not work on skills at all. Plus conflicts of interest. |
The shinier and more hype the private business, the more folks are lined up throwing wallets at them 😂 I know of a coach who is a no-name that has sent 100% of their private trainees from small grassroots to MLS Next teams and Professional Academies. No frills. No fancy surroundings. No super fancy equipment. Cheap Coaches like that aren't desired by the masses in the DMV |
The PG way |
Pay to play at its maximum expression. Thanks for your honesty |
Come on we all have kids in the system. Coaches don't have time pay attention to kids individual development is BS. Then what are paying for team success lol. |
at least he didn't put his son in the first team as his bro did |
Well, we know you're not a coach or familiar with training sessions for 15 or 20 kids Also, the moment a U8 to U10 coach seriously started focusing solely on development of individuals to the detriment of W's parents are in uproar and mass migration begins |
Lol JC’s club, board and team. Deal with it! But all jokes aside the moves JC pulled with that group were pretty bad. |
This^^^ And like a great restaurant, you want to tell enough people about them so they stay in business, but not so many that you can’t get a table anymore. I think all these complaints are because people have a mismatch of expectations from the club and their kids performance. Almost every club I know of send an email a couple times a season it says just doing the practices with the club is not enough to have success. And almost every Baller I know or my kid knows that’s of quality is doing significant training outside the club. Some at home, some with trainers, some with small groups, some with structured groups (commercialized), etc. |
Wait for your first road trip when the hiearchies become deeply apparent, its a blast! But your winning so its awesome, right? |
This whole thread also has parents complaining about coaches not developing kids. My thesis of this case is that parents are more invested in their dreams for their kid than the kids are in those dreams. Of course the coach and the club have zero investment in the parent dream for the kid, they can’t. |
+1 The best players on DS team, which includes DS, train outside of practices (and no one is asking with whom or how, etc., probably bc everyone assumes ur putting in the work somewhere). And the other players on the team are also doing outside practices/training to keep up or to get better. It’s so clear which players are putting in the work and who aren’t. |
What exactly is the club investing in? They constantly boast about developing players and taking credit for work they didn't even do. They can't then spin it by blaming parents saying they have unrealistic expectations or dreams when they failure consistently on delivering what they promise. |