What can American women learn from foreign women?

Anonymous
Interesting thought experiment- what do you all think would be the responses to a thread titled 'What can foreign women learn from American women?'
I can't think of anything else than 'be able to earn like their US counterparts'.
Though perhaps some men like assertiveness in women?

-Foreign woman



Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Interesting thought experiment- what do you all think would be the responses to a thread titled 'What can foreign women learn from American women?'
I can't think of anything else than 'be able to earn like their US counterparts'.
Though perhaps some men like assertiveness in women?

-Foreign woman





More freespirited, more diversity in general, optimism, sporty if that’s your thing
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Interesting thought experiment- what do you all think would be the responses to a thread titled 'What can foreign women learn from American women?'
I can't think of anything else than 'be able to earn like their US counterparts'.
Though perhaps some men like assertiveness in women?

-Foreign woman





That was literally a title of a s/o thread on here from a couple of days ago

It only got like 11 responses
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:“ Great Britain never was – and never will be – a European country”

- Robert Tombs



🙄 Says the American.


What?

Robert Tombs is a British historian of immense stature that teaches at Cambridge!

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Interesting thought experiment- what do you all think would be the responses to a thread titled 'What can foreign women learn from American women?'
I can't think of anything else than 'be able to earn like their US counterparts'.
Though perhaps some men like assertiveness in women?

-Foreign woman





Depends where the foreign woman is from.

Japan: learn to stop hiding your mouth when you laugh
France: learn that just because a man finds you desirable doesn’t mean he respects or even likes you
Russia: learn that sometimes smiling gets you better treatment than looking stern

Anonymous
“ Charles de Gaulle would have agreed. When he blocked Britain’s first attempt to join the trade bloc that would become the European Union, he said that “England is an island, sea-going, bound up, by its trade, its markets, its food supplies, with the most varied and often the most distant countries.”

From geography flow thousands of years of history, a messy mix of conflicts and ties with the continent. Tombs identifies two threads in the complicated, contradictory tapestry of Anglo–Continental relations. First, ever since the sixteenth century, British islanders have not “pursue[d] or accepted a permanent organic Continental link.” Second, Britain has never been “tempted or forced to ally itself with the hegemonic Continental power of the day.” It has always wanted a balance of power in Europe and never sought supremacy itself. Even within the EU, Britain has generally looked to maximize its independence from the bloc’s decisions rather than to dominate decision-making.

Tombs emphasizes another important factor too quickly dismissed elsewhere: just how different Britain’s experience of the twentieth century was compared with its neighbors’. Britain remained unconquered throughout the century and emerged victorious from World War II. That moment of triumph against fascism remains the foundation myth of modern Britain and a source of enormous and understandable national pride. As Jean Monnet, one of the founding fathers of the EU, understood, Brits feel no need to “exorcise history”—unlike those in Germany, Spain, France, Greece, Portugal, Italy, or Eastern Europe. “

— “the sovereign isle” , Robert tombs, Cambridge
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:“ Charles de Gaulle would have agreed. When he blocked Britain’s first attempt to join the trade bloc that would become the European Union, he said that “England is an island, sea-going, bound up, by its trade, its markets, its food supplies, with the most varied and often the most distant countries.”

From geography flow thousands of years of history, a messy mix of conflicts and ties with the continent. Tombs identifies two threads in the complicated, contradictory tapestry of Anglo–Continental relations. First, ever since the sixteenth century, British islanders have not “pursue[d] or accepted a permanent organic Continental link.” Second, Britain has never been “tempted or forced to ally itself with the hegemonic Continental power of the day.” It has always wanted a balance of power in Europe and never sought supremacy itself. Even within the EU, Britain has generally looked to maximize its independence from the bloc’s decisions rather than to dominate decision-making.

Tombs emphasizes another important factor too quickly dismissed elsewhere: just how different Britain’s experience of the twentieth century was compared with its neighbors’. Britain remained unconquered throughout the century and emerged victorious from World War II. That moment of triumph against fascism remains the foundation myth of modern Britain and a source of enormous and understandable national pride. As Jean Monnet, one of the founding fathers of the EU, understood, Brits feel no need to “exorcise history”—unlike those in Germany, Spain, France, Greece, Portugal, Italy, or Eastern Europe. “

— “the sovereign isle” , Robert tombs, Cambridge


Whatever, this is all just intellectual masturbation. For all intents and purposes, the UK is European. There’s just as much difference between a Bulgarian and a Swede as a Brit and a Swede, if not more.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Look at this Russian 50 something mom. I think most men would be happy with a middle aged wife who looks like this, is into sex, and she's not overly critical- non Russian wife here. Men are simple creatures.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CxSvXu8OYsL/?igshid=MWZjMTM2ODFkZg==


You’d better have major ducats. She looks expensive.

+1 that's what I keep saying.

If you want to marry a woman who loves shopping and is into her looks, you'd better be able to pay for that.


But men are simple creatures! They just want a thin, white, rich foreign woman who is featured on Instagram fashion pages! That's all! Why can't all women just see that if you're just thin, white, rich, and foreign, then men on DCUM will want you, too!!
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:They can learn to take better care of themselves:
- Reduce or eliminate alcoholic beverages
- Wear no-makeup makeup
- Don’t tan
- Move more , not just exercise but more more in general
- Eat a healthy diet
- Don’t walk/drive and eat/drink
- Speak softly



You must be thinking of Asian women. European women tan and drink a lot.


Incorrect. We don't really drink and there is major social shaming for women who abuse alcohol or get drunk. As a woman in Europe, you don't get drunk or fat. Both are unacceptable.
To be fair, I haven't seen a lot of Hispanic or Black women here getting drunk either. It's usually the white women who abuse alcohol - see below for research. And I don't think it's happy drunk either, it's just a coping mechanism.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/national/wp/2016/12/23/nine-charts-that-show-how-white-women-are-drinking-themselves-to-death/

https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2021/06/09/1003980966/women-now-drink-as-much-as-men-and-suffer-health-effects-more-quickly


LOL you clearly spent no time near pubs in working class neighborhoods in Britain on a Friday night. Or at cheap Costa Brava resorts.


1. British aren’t really European

When people say europe, mostly they are referring to the mainland

2. People for sure aren’t thinking about British people in the 20 pages of this thread

3. British and American convergence on many metrics is larger than British-mainland convergence

Look at obesity rates and life expectancy. On these metrics British and Americans are closer than either is to say France


If British people “aren’t really European” then what continent do they “really” belong to? This is such a ridiculous argument.


Brexit baby
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:“ Great Britain never was – and never will be – a European country”

- Robert Tombs



🙄 Says the American.


What?

Robert Tombs is a British historian of immense stature that teaches at Cambridge!



I was referring to the historic American politician.

The current Tombs is a typical British conservative white historian who denies Britain engaged in colonial violence throughout its history. He even refutes Canada’s legacy with Indian residential schools.

https://blogs.sussex.ac.uk/snapshotsofempire/2022/02/01/the-british-empire-and-race/
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Interesting thought experiment- what do you all think would be the responses to a thread titled 'What can foreign women learn from American women?'
I can't think of anything else than 'be able to earn like their US counterparts'.
Though perhaps some men like assertiveness in women?

-Foreign woman





Depends where the foreign woman is from.

Japan: learn to stop hiding your mouth when you laugh
France: learn that just because a man finds you desirable doesn’t mean he respects or even likes you
Russia: learn that sometimes smiling gets you better treatment than looking stern



Totes, those Russians known for their friendly, smiley demeanors
Anonymous
Pseudo-intellectuals have taken over this thread and any post critical if Americans women have been removed
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Interesting thought experiment- what do you all think would be the responses to a thread titled 'What can foreign women learn from American women?'
I can't think of anything else than 'be able to earn like their US counterparts'.
Though perhaps some men like assertiveness in women?

-Foreign woman





More freespirited, more diversity in general, optimism, sporty if that’s your thing


I thought dcum women were the opposite of this but ok
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Interesting thought experiment- what do you all think would be the responses to a thread titled 'What can foreign women learn from American women?'
I can't think of anything else than 'be able to earn like their US counterparts'.
Though perhaps some men like assertiveness in women?

-Foreign woman

- more agency over your life
- not having to appease a man
- having strong opinions
- building strength
- expressing yourself
- not being confined to gender norms that work to ensure men have access to more wealth
- not being defined by the way you look


Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Pseudo-intellectuals have taken over this thread and any post critical if Americans women have been removed


Care to try that again?
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