Confessions

[Anonymous]

I confess that I hate, hate, hate my brother-in-law. He is a short, pompous, gregarious, loud, moody, pathological-lying, ex-roid using, bodybuilding egotist. I have never met a person who is uglier or more hollow on the inside. If you can conjure an image of a sleazy and slick salesman, you can get the picture. He is mean to my sister and they only got engaged because she caught him cheating. The secret part is that my distaste for him affects how I feel about my nephew because he looks exactly like my BIL.

I am also insanely jealous of the fact that my sister is a SAHM. She has a horrible marriage and I wouldn't trade places for the world, but I wish my husband made enough for me to stay home too.

[Anonymous]

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Please. This thread is the place for minor judging. We all do it about something. It's not like anyone threatened to destroy vegetarians. They are just saying the smugness of some is annoying even though they seem to appreciate their viewpoint. And your annoyance of them is just as annoying.

Your smugness is similarly annoying. As your inability to write grammatically: "Your annoyance of them"? Please don't be offended. This thread is the place for minor judging, after all.

LOL. I thought the topic was confession, not judgement.

[Anonymous]

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Please. This thread is the place for minor judging. We all do it about something. It's not like anyone threatened to destroy vegetarians. They are just saying the smugness of some is annoying even though they seem to appreciate their viewpoint. And your annoyance of them is just as annoying.

Your smugness is similarly annoying. As your inability to write grammatically: "Your annoyance of them"? Please don't be offended. This thread is the place for minor judging, after all.

LOL. I thought the topic was confession, not judgement.

Me too. I almost wrote that myself. Perhaps many confessions incite judgments in others.

[Anonymous]

I want to be a SAHM and I feel like I am wasting away my baby's childhood by going to work each day. I grew up in poverty though and can't fathom walking away from my 6 figure salary, or denying my child our current lifestyle- it isn't opulent by any stretch, but we are very comfortable. I want him to have all the experiences I missed.

[Anonymous]

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.I can and do "do it all". Work as a successful professional, keep a nice house, cook meals, have a happy family, have well behaved children. If I can do it, I expect others to be able to do it.




Why?

[Anonymous]

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.I can and do "do it all". Work as a successful professional, keep a nice house, cook meals, have a happy family, have well behaved children. If I can do it, I expect others to be able to do it.

Why?

Are you the mom from American Beauty? She had it all too...

[Anonymous]

What I am saying is that just because that particular poster can work, cook, clean her house and stay organized, I don't understand the leap to expecting everyone else to. Some people have high energy. Some people are depressed. Some people can stay focussed. Some people obsess. Some people want their house spotless. Some don't care. Some people need 5 hours of sleep a night. Some need 9.

It just seems like an unrealistic expectation.

Other than that: I confess to what most of you confess to, and apologize for having nothing original to add.

Except I don't masturbate often, and have not cheated.

Oh, and about the 25-30 partners thing? I'm totally there. More than 30 and no shame, ladies. When I took a vow for forsake all others, I had a VERY GOOD IDEA of what I was forsaking. It's made my marriage stronger.

Oh, to the posters who want to make money: There are some reputable companies that pay you to take surveys. Opinion Outpost is probably the best one I've found (they pay cash). I've been with them for 3 months and made about $75. There are other companies who give you gift card to places like Amazon, which to me are just as good as cash. And this other company send me products I get to test and keep. Which also saves money.

Go to www.surveypolice.com. It's amazingly accurate.

I wish I had a confession. OK, I have one: I don't like going to the park with my children and will try to avoid it at all costs. I don't know why this is the case. But I don't do the park thing. Daddy does.

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Anonymous wrote:I have told vegetarians that I used vegetable broth when I used chicken broth (so much yummier, i am sorry). I also confess that vegetarians annoy me. Many are so smug. And they make dining so difficult. I feel terrible that I think this way because I am very disturbed by industrialized farming and hardly eat meat anymore myself. I totally get why people are vegetarians but they still annoy me! Esp vegans!!!
Also, so many women are just veggies so they can cut calories and have an excuse for their eating disorder!

I confess I totally agree with this.

Me too! And I am like 90% vegetarian. I rarely eat red meat and eat chicken or turkey probably 2x a week. I love vegetarian foods - love cooking with beans, love veggie burgers, etc.

I think it's the "I will NEVER eat meat" from vegetarians that annoys me. Also, I have known several anorexic women who are vegetarians and I do think it is an excuse to be able to cut a food group out of their life. Not saying all vegetarians are anorexic obviously, but certainly some do use it an excuse.

As a vegetarian, I am annoyed by nonvegetarians who are so judgmental. Please don't lump us all into the same category. That's as small-minded as the people you're criticizing.

Please. This thread is the place for minor judging. We all do it about something. It's not like anyone threatened to destroy vegetarians. They are just saying the smugness of some is annoying even though they seem to appreciate their viewpoint. And your annoyance of them is just as annoying.

Your smugness is similarly annoying. As your inability to write grammatically: "Your annoyance of them"? Please don't be offended. This thread is the place for minor judging, after all.

Okay, I am not offended - and I accept your annoyance.

[Anonymous]

I confess that I read all 23 pages of this thread, not all in one sitting.

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Anonymous wrote:I have told vegetarians that I used vegetable broth when I used chicken broth (so much yummier, i am sorry). I also confess that vegetarians annoy me. Many are so smug. And they make dining so difficult. I feel terrible that I think this way because I am very disturbed by industrialized farming and hardly eat meat anymore myself. I totally get why people are vegetarians but they still annoy me! Esp vegans!!!
Also, so many women are just veggies so they can cut calories and have an excuse for their eating disorder!

I confess I totally agree with this.

Me too! And I am like 90% vegetarian. I rarely eat red meat and eat chicken or turkey probably 2x a week. I love vegetarian foods - love cooking with beans, love veggie burgers, etc.

I think it's the "I will NEVER eat meat" from vegetarians that annoys me. Also, I have known several anorexic women who are vegetarians and I do think it is an excuse to be able to cut a food group out of their life. Not saying all vegetarians are anorexic obviously, but certainly some do use it an excuse.

As a vegetarian, I am annoyed by nonvegetarians who are so judgmental. Please don't lump us all into the same category. That's as small-minded as the people you're criticizing.

Please. This thread is the place for minor judging. We all do it about something. It's not like anyone threatened to destroy vegetarians. They are just saying the smugness of some is annoying even though they seem to appreciate their viewpoint. And your annoyance of them is just as annoying.

Oh, there's more than enough smugness on both sides of this issue. I've been harangued for turning down meat and seen people get really, disproportionately angry about vegetarians. Hell, I've had people give me a hard time for enjoying Amsterdam Falafel ("Why would you ever eat falafel when you could have a burger?"), or the vegetarian Indian lunch buffets at Nirvana! And I'm not vegetarian, I just don't eat a lot of meat. Really silly stuff.

But I also recently unfriended someone on Facebook - she's vegan and I tired of her sanctimoniousness. No, being veggie or vegan does not automatically make you a better person. I've known my share of veggie (or perhaps I should say "soy-based") a**holes.

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Anonymous wrote:I have told vegetarians that I used vegetable broth when I used chicken broth (so much yummier, i am sorry). I also confess that vegetarians annoy me. Many are so smug. And they make dining so difficult. I feel terrible that I think this way because I am very disturbed by industrialized farming and hardly eat meat anymore myself. I totally get why people are vegetarians but they still annoy me! Esp vegans!!!
Also, so many women are just veggies so they can cut calories and have an excuse for their eating disorder!

I confess I totally agree with this.

Me too! And I am like 90% vegetarian. I rarely eat red meat and eat chicken or turkey probably 2x a week. I love vegetarian foods - love cooking with beans, love veggie burgers, etc.

I think it's the "I will NEVER eat meat" from vegetarians that annoys me. Also, I have known several anorexic women who are vegetarians and I do think it is an excuse to be able to cut a food group out of their life. Not saying all vegetarians are anorexic obviously, but certainly some do use it an excuse.

I confess that I believe people who respond to other posts with grammatical corrections have second-rate intellects, and simply (a) can't come up with a pithy response to the original point, and (b) HAVE to get the last word in.

As a vegetarian, I am annoyed by nonvegetarians who are so judgmental. Please don't lump us all into the same category. That's as small-minded as the people you're criticizing.

Please. This thread is the place for minor judging. We all do it about something. It's not like anyone threatened to destroy vegetarians. They are just saying the smugness of some is annoying even though they seem to appreciate their viewpoint. And your annoyance of them is just as annoying.

Your smugness is similarly annoying. As your inability to write grammatically: "Your annoyance of them"? Please don't be offended. This thread is the place for minor judging, after all.

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Anonymous wrote:I fantasize about having sex with a black guy. No, scratch that. I fantasize about having sex with a BUNCH of black guys.

Are you male or female?

Its 1am in the part of the world I am in at the moment and i just got back from dinner and drinks with friends, and there was an amazing looking man on a table not too far from us. I was speechless and felt like a teen again. He kept staring but I kept looking away. He didn't say anything and probably thought I wasn't interested. Oh well

He probably was interested.

I think you're right! But he looked so scrumptious and confident and all I could think of was he probably has a huge cock, and my va-jay-jay can't handle it! lol!

Because he's black?

[Anonymous]

I confess that I believe people who respond to other posts with grammatical corrections have second-rate intellects, and simply (a) can't come up with a pithy response to the original point, and (b) HAVE to get the last word in.

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Anonymous wrote:I confess that I believe people who respond to other posts with grammatical corrections have second-rate intellects, and simply (a) can't come up with a pithy response to the original point, and (b) HAVE to get the last word in.

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Anonymous wrote:I confess that I will assume you're either slutty or a recovering crack whore if you have 2 children by 2 different men by the time you're 22.

Wow. And you are a judgmental angel. I hope that never happens to one of your kids. Karma is a bitch.

You hope *what* never happens to my kids? That they would have 2 out of wedlock births by age 22 with 2 different men (neither of whom seems to be in the picture any longer), no college education, taking childcare subsidies? Or that they would channel their anger at those who have worked hard and NOT MADE THE SAME BAD CHOICES (affluent people who make her "SICK") and thus avoided the same unenviable situation she's GOTTEN HERSELF INTO?

At least my post was a confession.

22yo here...it's not 1930 anymore! Surprises happen, that's how my first daoughter came about. The pill is only 99.9% accurate. Furthermore, I will be getting married to the second father (and at the same time he will be adopting my first child) but seeing as how I am pregnant right now we are going to wait so both children can be a part of one of the biggest days of our lives. (They do deserve it!!!) I have NEVER touched crack a day in my life nor have I even seen it in real life and I have slept with far less men than some of the woman have confessed to sleeping with on this thread. (No offense, I am NOT calling anyone a whore). So chill out, loosen up and stop being jealous that other people can be truely happy in "non-tradtional" situations. SMILE!!!

Good for you that you're happy and in a happy relationship. Now get off the dole and pay your share for your childcare!