
100% this |
Let's get real, please. It's not even about advanced math, it's about people wanting their children in a "superior" cohort of kids. That's it. Nobody wants to admit it, but for 90% of AAP parents (the 90% whose children aren't children), they don't care about the academics, they care about their children's peers. For people like me at a high SES school, it really doesn't matter. I would love for my child to get advanced math, but it's fine, she'll take math honors in 7th and Algebra honors in 8th grade, and end up in all AP classes in high school. For families like mine in schools like ours, AAP really isn't a big deal at all. For my friend whose child is at a Title I school, IT MATTERS. She wants her kid out of that school and at the AAP Center and I absolutely DO NOT BLAME HER. |
As someone who works in an FCPS middle school...the last PP is spot on. AAP classes are coveted because the kids in them mostly have more support and supervision at home, less outrageous and disruptive behavior, and more of a clue how to be students. The advanced content is minimal but nice. The difference of behavior/attitude of kids in the classes - not intelligence but behavior - is sadly significant. |
DP. Unfortunately, anytime someone complains about this and insists that remedial/SPED/ESOL kids be taught separately from the bright GE students, they're called all sorts of horrible names. Apparently, Gen Ed is just supposed to suck it up and accept that kids of much lower abilities are "mainstreamed," bright Gen Ed kids be damned. |
+100 |
Just noticed my typo "the 90% whose children aren't gifted" is what that should say, LOL! Obviously all of your children are children. They're just not gifted children. |
Haha that's hilarious. My DD at a title 1 school chose to stay for local level 4. Two of the kids from her 2nd grade cohort, one of which cried all the time and another who would act out and get in trouble every day both went to the center school. Thinking going to a center school is going to solve any problems when in reality all it does is increase the amount of time it takes to get to and from school. |
It's clear you have no idea whatsoever - or rather, refuse to acknowledge - what's really going on here. Many AAP kids become absolutely insufferable, starting as early as 2nd grade when they're first told they'll be in AAP the following year. They will often cut out their Gen Ed kids right then, though some wait until a little later to do so. The Gen Ed kids then come home devasted because Larla has told them they're "just not smart enough to be in AAP" with all the other Larlas. At that point, parents have to address the situation at home. That you think it's the *parents* bringing all of this up to their kids makes you sound idiotic. I would have preferred my kids never experienced any of this ridiculous division, but that wasn't to be. |
+100 These parents want so desperately to have whatever perceived cache they think a center bestows on them/their kids that they refuse to admit just how similar these huge groups of kids are, for the most part. I agree with the poster who said perhaps centers are needed in Title I areas, but they are most definitely not needed in the majority of areas where there are tons of kids who leave their base school for a center. They need to end centers in those areas as they are redundant and inequitable. |
Bingo. |
I could have written this, word for word. Except in our case, the divide only continued through 5th and 6th grades. By middle school, it was as if those long-ago friends didn't even know each other at all. What's so sad about all of this is that it's all completely avoidable. If there were flexible groupings per subject, all the kids needing advanced math/LA/etc. would go to one classroom for their instruction; same for all the core subjects. The kids wouldn't be segregated into two giant monoliths that never meet or mix. They would all be switching groups for each subject and no one would be labeled as exclusively this or that. But of course, that would never fly with the AAP parents, who enjoy the labeling. DP |
+1 I blame FCPS for allowing this system to get so bloated and out of control. What a joke it is now, compared to when they had a tiny and excellent GT program. |
No one cares about name calling at this point. It has gotten real old. General education parents should fight for their own classrooms. Of course Reid is more likely to dismantle AAP than separate ESOL and special education students but it's worth a try |
+1000 |
So your kid didn't make it into AAP but you're arguing to reduce the number of other kids' access to AAP. What do you get out of this? Your kid isn't getting in either way. Is it spite that drives this behavior? |