
We've been in two very different elementary schools in FCPS and the "great divide" happened to my older child in the first school and younger child in the second school. Both LLIV schools. I get that mine is also an anecdote, but it seems common, unfortunately. |
You're in denial. |
I love how you're taking full credit for your child being in AAP, thank you for admitting what we all already know. You prepped your child for the tests, you helped your child with their "work samples," and you chatted up the AART and classroom teacher. Everybody knows that only a small percentage of the kids in AAP are truly gifted. |
Actually I take no personal credit for my child being in AAP, nor for being one of the "AAP parents have achieved" in my quote you posted. The hard work to create and defend AAP from people like you was done long before I had kids to benefit from it. As for my child in particular, no matter what I say you'll take offense that either I prepped or I'm bragging - neither is true. They've never done any outside enrichment and scored extremely high on every Cogat / SOL / IReady / IAAT. They belong there all on their own. How about instead of focusing on tearing down my kid and calling them names, you start putting in some work on your own. |
You're misreading the post you're responding to - whether wilfully or not I have no way of knowing. They aren't taking credit for their kid's achievement, they're referencing AAP being established as a program. The suggestion is that other parents can similarly advocate for their students' collective needs rather than tearing down a program that exists. FWIW, we didn't do any prepping nor do we do any enrichment. Nor did I speak to the principal or the AART, nor did I join the PTA or otherwise volunteer. My kid was just bored mindless in class and scores in the high 99th percentile on everything. |
This point I was trying to make was that mom was SO sure it was "great divide" related as well and... it just wasn't. |
Dp. Base school is a center school and the great divide definitely happened. Not everyone is that much of an ahole about it ..but it was definitely a noticable split, and a few kids and moms were bold enough to say the quiet part out loud, that my dc wasn't good enough to hang out with their dc since my kid was never going to be in the same classes with their kid. It was noticable in 3rd and 4th grade. By 5th and 6th the friend groups started to shift ( less mommy influence and more kid choice) and the divide started to become less noticeable. |
Expect more pressure on AAP, both for and against, in the future. The county is getting poorer. And as average ES approach 30-40% FARMs, more parents will be trying to get their kids into AAP and centers, not less. Meanwhile, that push will create concerns among the equity types. |
I don't know how to reconcile
with all the other posts about how housing is too expensive and teachers (among other jobs) can't afford to live where they work. Which is it? Are the poor people priced out or moving in? |
Don’t know what to tell you other than FARMs rates have doubled in the last 15 years. |
DP. There is a little nuance in it, but the homes that most people want to live in are getting a lot more expensive and there are lots of MFH and apartments going in. |
There's also a growing population of families living in basement apartments or other house-sharing arrangements. The area is a microcosm of the growing wealth divide in the nation. Both extremes are represented and the middle is faltering. |
Partly due to Fairfax County's very generous support for poor residents (and ability to tax the rest of us. |
I agree with this analysis 100%. I realize it's impolitic for the reasons cited, but it would be nice to strive for excellence in FCPS again. |
LOLing at you saying AAP parents didn't cause this. PLEASE. Parents are absolutely the reason there is a bloated AAP program full of normal children who belong in GenEd. |