Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?

Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:From another thread in this forum. If I saw this on a dating site, I'd contact her for sure. This is the perfect profile for me.

"I'm 41, five foot five and 115 lbs,, with an average face but a nice sense of style. I'm divorced and looking to meet a nice guy to go out and have a relationship with - not a sugar daddy, and not just sex. My standards are reasonable. Willing to date guys up to age 60 who are employed, not repulsive (somewhat overweight or balding ok), and have some similar hobbies or interests (hiking, cooking, soccer, movies). I'm not finding much out there in terms of guys who are interested in more than sex, even with those standards. Take from that what you will."


I love how you put overweight in same category as balding. Ugh.

I posted it as an example of an early 40s woman, who would date a 60 year old man who isn't rich. And she is HWP. They are out there. I may go out with her.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:haha this guy, so hung that "plenty" of women are too small to handle him. An actual grown woman can stretch to handle quite a lot, up to and including babies. If you're built as big as a baby head, okay, you're not going to be pleasant to sleep with. I somehow doubt that's the case.

In any case, why get so defensive about 50-year-old women not caring whether you're interested in them, or about the size of your equipment. Holy screaming insecurities.


Wait, the president posts here? You know he's not really in his 60s, right?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:From another thread in this forum. If I saw this on a dating site, I'd contact her for sure. This is the perfect profile for me.

"I'm 41, five foot five and 115 lbs,, with an average face but a nice sense of style. I'm divorced and looking to meet a nice guy to go out and have a relationship with - not a sugar daddy, and not just sex. My standards are reasonable. Willing to date guys up to age 60 who are employed, not repulsive (somewhat overweight or balding ok), and have some similar hobbies or interests (hiking, cooking, soccer, movies). I'm not finding much out there in terms of guys who are interested in more than sex, even with those standards. Take from that what you will."


I love how you put overweight in same category as balding. Ugh.


I know. I mean some fat guys can still be cute and they can always lose the weight but that hair ain't never coming back.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Then why call a woman a whore for wanting to find a man who can support her and her children? It's not like most women want a sugar daddy so they can do nothing but shop all day. Most women just want a man who can financially support the family because they know that women do the majority of child care and house chores. You try doing the majority of that and wor full time. And no, take out, warming up leftovers, not having your kids bathe for a week, etc. doesn't count as doing the "majority of housework/childcare".


They don't know that. They just think that. It certainly is not true in our household, though I would not be surprised if DW said it was.

Men learn through bitter experience not to expect women to give them credit for anything they do, and also to expect women to give themselves enormous credit for anything they do, including imaginary bullshit like "emotional labor".

Stats say otherwise.


Haw, if you ask women "who does most of the housework" of course they are going to say that they do, but that doesn't mean they actually do.


I have to bite my tongue when my DW wants a medal for doing ordinary Mom things. Such a f**king martyr complex. My mother would never have said half the things about how “hard” being a Mom is. You send care packages to your kid in college b/c you love him/her not because you need validation on what a great Mom you are.

And do you send your kid care packages?

Regardless, stats don't lie. Women do the majority of the house work/child care.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Regardless, stats don't lie. Women do the majority of the house work/child care.


Women lie to the people compiling the statistics.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Regardless, stats don't lie. Women do the majority of the house work/child care.


Women lie to the people compiling the statistics.


Woman lie? Now way!!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:From another thread in this forum. If I saw this on a dating site, I'd contact her for sure. This is the perfect profile for me.

"I'm 41, five foot five and 115 lbs,, with an average face but a nice sense of style. I'm divorced and looking to meet a nice guy to go out and have a relationship with - not a sugar daddy, and not just sex. My standards are reasonable. Willing to date guys up to age 60 who are employed, not repulsive (somewhat overweight or balding ok), and have some similar hobbies or interests (hiking, cooking, soccer, movies). I'm not finding much out there in terms of guys who are interested in more than sex, even with those standards. Take from that what you will."


I love how you put overweight in same category as balding. Ugh.


I know. I mean some fat guys can still be cute and they can always lose the weight but that hair ain't never coming back.


Female here---our boobs are sagging, the c-section scars are there, the lines on our face are evident. None of us are in our 20s anymore. We are all aging. Men lose their hair. If we want men to accept us as we are, we have to accept them as they are.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Regardless, stats don't lie. Women do the majority of the house work/child care.


Women lie to the people compiling the statistics.


Woman lie? Now way!!

And men don't?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Regardless, stats don't lie. Women do the majority of the house work/child care.


Women lie to the people compiling the statistics.


Woman lie? Now way!!

And men don't?


Women have much more incentive to lie about how much housework they do.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:From another thread in this forum. If I saw this on a dating site, I'd contact her for sure. This is the perfect profile for me.

"I'm 41, five foot five and 115 lbs,, with an average face but a nice sense of style. I'm divorced and looking to meet a nice guy to go out and have a relationship with - not a sugar daddy, and not just sex. My standards are reasonable. Willing to date guys up to age 60 who are employed, not repulsive (somewhat overweight or balding ok), and have some similar hobbies or interests (hiking, cooking, soccer, movies). I'm not finding much out there in terms of guys who are interested in more than sex, even with those standards. Take from that what you will."


I love how you put overweight in same category as balding. Ugh.


I know. I mean some fat guys can still be cute and they can always lose the weight but that hair ain't never coming back.


Like your youthful beauty. Should you be ignored now that you have a grey hair?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:From another thread in this forum. If I saw this on a dating site, I'd contact her for sure. This is the perfect profile for me.

"I'm 41, five foot five and 115 lbs,, with an average face but a nice sense of style. I'm divorced and looking to meet a nice guy to go out and have a relationship with - not a sugar daddy, and not just sex. My standards are reasonable. Willing to date guys up to age 60 who are employed, not repulsive (somewhat overweight or balding ok), and have some similar hobbies or interests (hiking, cooking, soccer, movies). I'm not finding much out there in terms of guys who are interested in more than sex, even with those standards. Take from that what you will."


I love how you put overweight in same category as balding. Ugh.


I know. I mean some fat guys can still be cute and they can always lose the weight but that hair ain't never coming back.


Like your youthful beauty. Should you be ignored now that you have a grey hair?


I've found that the gray coming in has worked in my favor with some women. I'd never have guessed.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:From another thread in this forum. If I saw this on a dating site, I'd contact her for sure. This is the perfect profile for me.

"I'm 41, five foot five and 115 lbs,, with an average face but a nice sense of style. I'm divorced and looking to meet a nice guy to go out and have a relationship with - not a sugar daddy, and not just sex. My standards are reasonable. Willing to date guys up to age 60 who are employed, not repulsive (somewhat overweight or balding ok), and have some similar hobbies or interests (hiking, cooking, soccer, movies). I'm not finding much out there in terms of guys who are interested in more than sex, even with those standards. Take from that what you will."


I love how you put overweight in same category as balding. Ugh.


I know. I mean some fat guys can still be cute and they can always lose the weight but that hair ain't never coming back.


Female here---our boobs are sagging, the c-section scars are there, the lines on our face are evident. None of us are in our 20s anymore. We are all aging. Men lose their hair. If we want men to accept us as we are, we have to accept them as they are.


Men can always get a hair transplant.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:From another thread in this forum. If I saw this on a dating site, I'd contact her for sure. This is the perfect profile for me.

"I'm 41, five foot five and 115 lbs,, with an average face but a nice sense of style. I'm divorced and looking to meet a nice guy to go out and have a relationship with - not a sugar daddy, and not just sex. My standards are reasonable. Willing to date guys up to age 60 who are employed, not repulsive (somewhat overweight or balding ok), and have some similar hobbies or interests (hiking, cooking, soccer, movies). I'm not finding much out there in terms of guys who are interested in more than sex, even with those standards. Take from that what you will."


I love how you put overweight in same category as balding. Ugh.


I know. I mean some fat guys can still be cute and they can always lose the weight but that hair ain't never coming back.


Female here---our boobs are sagging, the c-section scars are there, the lines on our face are evident. None of us are in our 20s anymore. We are all aging. Men lose their hair. If we want men to accept us as we are, we have to accept them as they are.


Men can always get a hair transplant.


Yes, hair plugs are so attractive.

I agree with an earlier poster that we all need to respect each other. I am always attracted to someone beyond their physical features.
Anonymous
This thread is so weird.

Who cares??
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:This thread is so weird.

Who cares??


22 pages of who cares and you just bumped it.
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