It's a stripper ama thread. irrelevant. |
Please keep this quote in mind when responding to this thread. It is not a "judge me" thread or an "argue with me" thread, or -- God forbid -- a "call me 'thick'" thread. If you have nothing to ask, then you have nothing to post and should probably find a thread of more interest to you. |
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Thank you, Jeff!
And thank you, OP. |
| Tell us sordid stuff OP |
Believe it or not, nothing sordid to share. What I have to report is about as sordid as a Las Vegas showgirl or a cocktail waitress would have to say. Sorry to disappoint. |
I don't do lap dances - they are prohibited at my club (by law, even though other clubs in the area allow them). Private dances I do, and they generate a lot more money than the dances on the main floor. No contest. I learned how to do body and face make-up over time. I always knew how to apply makeup, but this is like getting ready for a stage show - because that's what it is. It's much heavier, like what you would see on an actor about to perform for stage/screen. We all do our own makeup, but I've learned a lot from women who've been doing this longer than I have. It's pretty expensive to maintain. I spend at least 500 a month on wigs, shoes, outfits, etc - you always have to look "fresh" you know, and while I certainly use the same outfits repeatedly, I do mix it up. I have to buy higher quality makeup than I did when I worked in an office, and I go through it much more quickly. I maintain memberships at both a gym and a yoga studio, as maintaining my physique is a huge part of what I do. I also spend more on nutrition now than I used to (I used to eat like sh*t, seriously), as I pay very close attention to what I eat. |
This is a very boring ama
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So don't click on it! I'm not bored. |
Do you actually strip, as in, going out on stage in clothes and then take them off? Or do you come out and solely dance? For some reason when I think of a stripper, I'm picturing old timey gypsy rose type stuff. From what you're describing, I'm picturing what I guess folks refer to as "exotic dancing." Sorry if this sounds like an ignorant question!
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She goes to the club strips, doesn't allow touching, no client relationshipa and then goes straight home. Forgive me for thinking a a stripper ama would be sordid
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| To the Pp, mentioning Starbucks or Walmart, they don't pay 500 - 1000 dollars a day, so working there, doesn't pay the bills, as easily. Love you, too, Op |
I wear usually a two piece outfit ("outfit") and a top layer - a small dress, or a shirt and skirt. It is exotic dancing, a performance. I work in a topless bar, so don't get completely naked (I would never do this - there's nothing wrong with it, I'm just not comfortable enough to take it ALL off). It's erotic, it's sensual, it's sexy - that's what I get paid to do. I hope I answered your question. |
| Do you live in MD, DC, or VA? Just curious, not stalking. i seriously doubt any of my neighbors have a cool secret life but who knows what lurks beneath the surface (of Bethesda). |
| OP, what do you think of women who object to their husbands going to strip clubs? |
| How do you process, in a healthy way, men sitting there for hours staring at your body parts like you're subhuman? Do you have a mental game/trick that gives you a feeling of empowerment over this? Does it feel familiar, as a sexual abuse survivor? No judgment in this question, more purely psychological curiosity. |