S/O The thread on the missing boyfriend is waaay too long. Can someone sum it up?

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My sister also found her boyfriend on okcupid. He also has a beard and a weird job. Ugh. They both live in Pennsylvania tho.

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Wish you all the best OP. Glad this turned out that he is okay, just a liar.

PS--I met my DH on OKCupid. You don't have to avoid all free dating sites, just have to be smart about what to believe and only date local!

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Anonymous wrote:Well there is an Hamburg PA. But it's pretty close the Allentown. I guess there could be some coondog action there. Or poondog. :>

Maybe he was in Intercourse?

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I just finished this and the original thread. I have only one word:

*AWESOME!!!!!*

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Anonymous wrote:OP I wish we had a name for you - just a made up name. I feel like so many of us are invested in you now and we all wish we could sit around and rehash this together!

I seriously hope that you'll take all the support and encouragement that was offered here (and ignore the nasty bits) and use that to stiffen your spine w/ SV and any other jerks in your future.

Hold out for a guy who treats you decently and behaves normally. It's so worth it in the end and you need to believe you deserve it.

I don't really understand why you let us all go on this ride with you - it was so painful for you but so endlessly hilarious to us. Thank you for allowing us to see it through!

Jeff - I totally feel like I'm in some permanent club now - love the Woodstock analogy (where I'm from BTW) and the brand new website. You should totally use that for something!

To me she is Natalie, based on her fake Photobucket account.

There will be a baby born to a DCUM this year named Natandali. I can feel it.

First post here and only one post on the original thread, but I followed from almost the beginning, reported countless troll-calling posts, and wanted to chime in with thanks to the OP. And to +1 the advice on ceasing all contact with this guy, trying to meet someone in person rather than online, and absolutely stay local if online.

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OP, be strong and don't talk to him again! We're all rooting for you!!!!!

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Anonymous wrote:You'll also weed out some losers if you use a website that requires some payment. The free ones just have too many people looking to take advantage of others.

+1. I met my now husband on e harmony at age 25. It really did weed out the weirdos.

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You really think an awful lot of yourself, OP.

Glad to hear your story has an ending. Time for you to move on, make some IRL friends, and stop posting this self aggrandizing drama.

You're unbelievable, and not in the good way.

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You really think an awful lot of yourself, OP.

Glad to hear your story has an ending. Time for you to move on, make some IRL friends, and stop posting this self aggrandizing drama.

You're unbelievable, and not in the good way.

Go to bed

[Anonymous]

OOhh....This sounds like a really great mystery story...Online!!

I just love this type of stuff.

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More please...!!!!!!!!

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OP I was married/chained to sketchy Bobcat hunter for six months! Holy hell I want my money back! He loved science fiction in the way the Kardashians love photo ops and lasted a minute AT BEST in bed! No job for 2 years? Pshaw! It was the economy! Morbidly obese and schlubby? Dont be so shallow! Chronic bloody noses, profuse sweating in freezing weather, and slurred speech? He just needs to take better care of himself! Backwoods Appalachian values? Dont be such a prudish, privileged snoot!

Open your eyes and start dating like a grown ass woman who is deliberately selective with men! Would you hire Bobcat fishing dude to be your business partner? Didnt think so!

I'm now married to fabulous nonsketchy, super highly educated, handsome, successful, good in bed guy I met on.... eharmony. Never would have met him otherwise. Do the paid sites in addition to what you normally do...

40 gets here quickly, believe it or not!

Now, go eat some humble pie and accept you've been duped. Take a deep breath and commit to not tolerating any more bullshit from the men you date? Alright, my work here is done!

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Anonymous wrote:You'll also weed out some losers if you use a website that requires some payment. The free ones just have too many people looking to take advantage of others.

OP Here: I have been avoiding paying for a site because I refuse to believe that at 26, I need to pay to find a date

But maybe that's not the way to think about it. The free sites are for people who aren't looking for anything real or serious. Hold yourself and others to higher standards.

Or just don't date online. If you have an active social life, it's fine. But if you need a way to meet people, use a dating site that requires payment.

OP here: ehh..i wouldn't say I have an "active" social life. What sucked for me was that I was a nanny for 8+ years which doesn't allow you to meet many adult friends and now that I work from home, I don't have work friends like most people.

Go on meetup.com - you can find people that share your interests.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, just out of curiosity (and because I've never been able to keep my temper in check long enough to ask a real hunter this myself): can you ask him exactly what he enjoys about killing animals? Like, does he get a thrill from seeing it flinch as he shoots into it, or does he get a warm fuzzy feeling when he sees his "hounds" flushing out an animal to kill?

I've always wondered about the psychology of hunting/hunters.

Do you eat meat? If so, you have absolutely no room to talk.

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