Ask me anything: I am a kept woman

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Anonymous wrote:If you weren't with a married man, I'd say hey, good for you but since you are.....not right. I'm not puritanical, religious or any other term people who excuse cheating like to throw but being involved with someone who is in a relationship with another person and that other person doesn't know is wrong.

BUT....I don't think you're a home wrecker. Your trashy slore of a sugar daddy is the one who is wrecking the home.

I agree that the guy is more to blame in this situation, but bad karma is not to be denied. Do you worry about karma, OP?

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okay, back it up. He isn't doing this because his wife is denying him sex. If you recall, op said she started up with this loser when he was only engaged to his now wife. He had plenty of time to back out of the wedding if in fact she was denying him. You are only assuming that and even the op is only going on what this scumbag says. Face it, he is lying to his whole family so why wouldn't he lie to her.

I think OP is posting on this forum because she is bored between tanning salon visits and pubic waxings. Her pathetic "boy friend" has mentioned during one of their intellectual conversations when she comes up for breath that his wife reads DCUM at night instead of doing him. OP spends her days trolling this forum hoping to find a glimpse of his legit wife and finally she got the guts to start this thread hoping that the scumbag's wife responds to her.

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Anonymous wrote:How did you unintentionally meet his children?

We unintentionally ran into each other a couple of times in public.

So you've met his wife then?

We didn't talk, just waved or whatever.

Were the kids cute? Was the wife pretty? Did she seem to know who she was waving to?

The kids are cute. The wife ... is almost pretty. She's very pinched looking. She is kind of plump.

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Anonymous wrote:Is he married?

He is.

Not to you?

Not to me. He was engaged when we met.

Wives are not "kept women".

Those who don't work are.

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this is weird. I work so not defending my life style, but how is raising children being a kept woman?

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Some people are awfully hard on OP. Yes, being the other woman is nothing to be proud of, but it's not like this behavior is uncommon. Advice columns and DCUM are FULL of affair stories. I don't think we all will suffer karmically for the stupid mistakes we made when we were 20 or 24. Some people just don't have the discipline or desire to be sexually monogamous, and not all 24 year olds are mature enough to want more from a relationship than good sex and fun times.

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Anonymous wrote:OP - forget the slamming posts. I've got a couple I'm sincerely interested in:

1. Does your guy pay for your apartment? How does that work - does he write you a check or send it directly to the apt. complex?

2. When he bought you your car, did he go with you to the dealership? Did he act like you're buying it (you know, so you wouldn't by a Ferrari or something like that) and then when you picked it out he said, I'll get this. Again - how were the logistics - did he pay the dealership directly? is it a loan with monthly payments that he pays for?

3. Does his wife know you? If so, how?

4. When you go out, do you have to be discreet? (sit in back corner or restaurant, go to out-of-the way places, etc.) or is he not too worried about being seen?

Thanks!

1. At first he wrote me a check each month and then I paid rent. Now he gives me a year's worth of rent at once.
2. He paid for the car in cash. I knew he was going to buy it for me because we'd talked about it a few times, though I hadn't known he'd pay all at once.
3. No she doesn't know me.
4. We don't go to the pizza joint five minutes from his house. And I know he made sure to never set me up at the same spa or gym his wife goes to.

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Congrats OP! I'm a kept woman too, but married. It's a great gig if you can get it!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP - forget the slamming posts. I've got a couple I'm sincerely interested in:

1. Does your guy pay for your apartment? How does that work - does he write you a check or send it directly to the apt. complex?

2. When he bought you your car, did he go with you to the dealership? Did he act like you're buying it (you know, so you wouldn't by a Ferrari or something like that) and then when you picked it out he said, I'll get this. Again - how were the logistics - did he pay the dealership directly? is it a loan with monthly payments that he pays for?

3. Does his wife know you? If so, how?

4. When you go out, do you have to be discreet? (sit in back corner or restaurant, go to out-of-the way places, etc.) or is he not too worried about being seen?

Thanks!

1. At first he wrote me a check each month and then I paid rent. Now he gives me a year's worth of rent at once.
2. He paid for the car in cash. I knew he was going to buy it for me because we'd talked about it a few times, though I hadn't known he'd pay all at once.
3. No she doesn't know me.
4. We don't go to the pizza joint five minutes from his house. And I know he made sure to never set me up at the same spa or gym his wife goes to.

Buy a house in your name, don't pay rent. Who will pay the rent when he is gone. Grab what you can, you have 3-5 years left, or else move up to 50+ years olds.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:okay, back it up. He isn't doing this because his wife is denying him sex. If you recall, op said she started up with this loser when he was only engaged to his now wife. He had plenty of time to back out of the wedding if in fact she was denying him. You are only assuming that and even the op is only going on what this scumbag says. Face it, he is lying to his whole family so why wouldn't he lie to her.

I think OP is posting on this forum because she is bored between tanning salon visits and pubic waxings. Her pathetic "boy friend" has mentioned during one of their intellectual conversations when she comes up for breath that his wife reads DCUM at night instead of doing him. OP spends her days trolling this forum hoping to find a glimpse of his legit wife and finally she got the guts to start this thread hoping that the scumbag's wife responds to her.

Totally off base. I'm posting this because I wondered what people who are not my friends would think of it. One of my volunteer gigs is tutoring kids, which is how I found out about this forum. I have no idea if his wife posts here. I don't read the forums looking for his wife and really have no interest in having any sort of conversation with her.

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Anonymous wrote:OP - forget the slamming posts. I've got a couple I'm sincerely interested in:

1. Does your guy pay for your apartment? How does that work - does he write you a check or send it directly to the apt. complex?

2. When he bought you your car, did he go with you to the dealership? Did he act like you're buying it (you know, so you wouldn't by a Ferrari or something like that) and then when you picked it out he said, I'll get this. Again - how were the logistics - did he pay the dealership directly? is it a loan with monthly payments that he pays for?

3. Does his wife know you? If so, how?

4. When you go out, do you have to be discreet? (sit in back corner or restaurant, go to out-of-the way places, etc.) or is he not too worried about being seen?

Thanks!

1. At first he wrote me a check each month and then I paid rent. Now he gives me a year's worth of rent at once.
2. He paid for the car in cash. I knew he was going to buy it for me because we'd talked about it a few times, though I hadn't known he'd pay all at once.
3. No she doesn't know me.
4. We don't go to the pizza joint five minutes from his house. And I know he made sure to never set me up at the same spa or gym his wife goes to.

If the car is on your name, did you pay a gift tax?

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Anonymous wrote:Is he married?

He is.

Not to you?

Not to me. He was engaged when we met.

Wives are not "kept women".

Those who don't work are.

Uh uh, no. Not even close. I put down half of the down payment on our house, I worked before we had kids and it was a joint decision that I quit work when our first was born. This is how we work together as a team. No way am I a "kept" woman. How ridiculous of you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP - forget the slamming posts. I've got a couple I'm sincerely interested in:

1. Does your guy pay for your apartment? How does that work - does he write you a check or send it directly to the apt. complex?

2. When he bought you your car, did he go with you to the dealership? Did he act like you're buying it (you know, so you wouldn't by a Ferrari or something like that) and then when you picked it out he said, I'll get this. Again - how were the logistics - did he pay the dealership directly? is it a loan with monthly payments that he pays for?

3. Does his wife know you? If so, how?

4. When you go out, do you have to be discreet? (sit in back corner or restaurant, go to out-of-the way places, etc.) or is he not too worried about being seen?

Thanks!

1. At first he wrote me a check each month and then I paid rent. Now he gives me a year's worth of rent at once.
2. He paid for the car in cash. I knew he was going to buy it for me because we'd talked about it a few times, though I hadn't known he'd pay all at once.
3. No she doesn't know me.
4. We don't go to the pizza joint five minutes from his house. And I know he made sure to never set me up at the same spa or gym his wife goes to.

If the car is on your name, did you pay a gift tax?

I was wondering the same thing. Big lump sum cash gift for a year's rent, a car....

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If you weren't with a married man, I'd say hey, good for you but since you are.....not right. I'm not puritanical, religious or any other term people who excuse cheating like to throw but being involved with someone who is in a relationship with another person and that other person doesn't know is wrong.

BUT....I don't think you're a home wrecker. Your trashy slore of a sugar daddy is the one who is wrecking the home.

Um no, it is his wife who forced his hand through her frigidity. She's the one at fault and who should seek professional help.

Um no. OP said the douche was engaged when she met him. He could have called of the wedding if she was so 'frigid' but being the low life punk he is, he didn't. Just because you either hate women or think cheating id okay doesn't mean you're right.,

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP - forget the slamming posts. I've got a couple I'm sincerely interested in:

1. Does your guy pay for your apartment? How does that work - does he write you a check or send it directly to the apt. complex?

2. When he bought you your car, did he go with you to the dealership? Did he act like you're buying it (you know, so you wouldn't by a Ferrari or something like that) and then when you picked it out he said, I'll get this. Again - how were the logistics - did he pay the dealership directly? is it a loan with monthly payments that he pays for?

3. Does his wife know you? If so, how?

4. When you go out, do you have to be discreet? (sit in back corner or restaurant, go to out-of-the way places, etc.) or is he not too worried about being seen?

Thanks!

1. At first he wrote me a check each month and then I paid rent. Now he gives me a year's worth of rent at once.
2. He paid for the car in cash. I knew he was going to buy it for me because we'd talked about it a few times, though I hadn't known he'd pay all at once.
3. No she doesn't know me.
4. We don't go to the pizza joint five minutes from his house. And I know he made sure to never set me up at the same spa or gym his wife goes to.

Buy a house in your name, don't pay rent. Who will pay the rent when he is gone. Grab what you can, you have 3-5 years left, or else move up to 50+ years olds.

He was attracted to her when she was 19. I don't see it lasting 3 to 5 more years to be quite honest. I'll give it a year before she's replaced. So, ya, live it up Op!