Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He’s such a mess. This entire summer, he had his hands full juggling Kick Kennedy, JG, and Jennifer Lopez.

He won’t ever stop cheating, will he?

No he won’t. I am a PP who said he is a mess and someone tried to argue he isn’t. I just can’t see him any other way at this point. He needs to focus on his kids.

[Anonymous]

A well-connected trust fund girl from MA, without much of a career of her own, seems just his speed honestly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He’s such a mess. This entire summer, he had his hands full juggling Kick Kennedy, JG, and Jennifer Lopez.

He won’t ever stop cheating, will he?

No he won’t. I am a PP who said he is a mess and someone tried to argue he isn’t. I just can’t see him any other way at this point. He needs to focus on his kids.

His kids are pretty big. Why would he be focusing on them?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A well-connected trust fund girl from MA, without much of a career of her own, seems just his speed honestly.

https://pagesix.com/2024/08/24/celebrity-news/ben-affleck-has-been-hanging-out-with-rfk-jr-s-daughter-kick-kennedy/

Man, he can't be alone for a hot minute. No wonder he showed no interest in working on the relationship with JLo. He already had a jump off.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A well-connected trust fund girl from MA, without much of a career of her own, seems just his speed honestly.

https://pagesix.com/2024/08/24/celebrity-news/ben-affleck-has-been-hanging-out-with-rfk-jr-s-daughter-kick-kennedy/

Man, he can't be alone for a hot minute. No wonder he showed no interest in working on the relationship with JLo. He already had a jump off.

This is embarrassing for him. It's got to be painful for JLo, too. But just super embarrassing for him. Will they be living together 36 hours from now?

[Anonymous]

He and JLo are the same person. They struggle to be alone and remain single because they’re so codependent.

JLo would get raked over the coals if she already had a new flame.

Ben introduced his kids to Ana de Armas and had pap strolls with the kids included. I am sure he’ll introduce them to Kennedy before the year is over.

I wonder how the proud Democrat that Affleck is can reconcile that RFK just endorsed Trump. I am not sure if Kick is close to her dad or not but Affleck getting tied into RFKs family during this particular moment is hilarious

[Anonymous]

https://people.com/ben-affleck-had-control-over-documentary-about-marriage-to-jennifer-lopez-exclusive-8701006?taid=66cb4c9204415e000168889f&utm_campaign=peoplemagazine&utm_content=new&utm_medium=social&utm_source=twitter.com

Now they're saying Ben lied about being hesitant about the movie and documentary. Some qoutes lfited directly from the page six article. Leaving her like this was nasty but JLO needs to stop. Ben and JLO said he was supportive through the the documentary. Uncomfortable but supportive since it meant a lot to her.

[Anonymous]

JLo should make a movie "what really happened with Ben" and dish on everything including Miler, Garner, kids and what happened 20 years ago. It would much more interesting.

[Anonymous]

JLo should take her bruises, learn her lessons, and move on. Not because Ben doesn't deserve to be dragged through the mud, but because whatever she does reads like upset Latina lashing out at A-list, attractive male star. If she stays silent, the default is to continue blaming her in the press. If he stays silent, it's because he's 'being productive with work and family.' Though he's already spending time with a new, younger woman.

These two are branded differently.
Lopez not photographed with her kids = neglectful mother.
Lopez photographed with Ben's kids = using them in the media.
Ben not photographed with any of the kids = why would he be? He owes nothing to JLo's kids and his kids must be with Garner, who affords them love and peace and stability.
Ben photographed tagging along with Garner and their kids = he's such a good dad.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:JLo should take her bruises, learn her lessons, and move on. Not because Ben doesn't deserve to be dragged through the mud, but because whatever she does reads like upset Latina lashing out at A-list, attractive male star. If she stays silent, the default is to continue blaming her in the press. If he stays silent, it's because he's 'being productive with work and family.' Though he's already spending time with a new, younger woman.

These two are branded differently.
Lopez not photographed with her kids = neglectful mother.
Lopez photographed with Ben's kids = using them in the media.
Ben not photographed with any of the kids = why would he be? He owes nothing to JLo's kids and his kids must be with Garner, who affords them love and peace and stability.
Ben photographed tagging along with Garner and their kids = he's such a good dad.

+1 It's a losing situation for her. She will never win the PR war and the best thing to do is not engage.

[Anonymous]

He has taken too much of her life already. She needs to move on and not mention him ever again. Thrive, like she did before when he came crawling back for a second chance.

Women must learn that men always look out for themselves and will drop you in a heartbeat without looking back when they feel you or the relationship does not serve them.

They replace rather than reflect or put in the work. It is what is is. When women truly internalize this, it might change how they move in relationships.

He did her dirty twice. She has to be exhausted. Whew.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He has taken too much of her life already. She needs to move on and not mention him ever again. Thrive, like she did before when he came crawling back for a second chance.

Women must learn that men always look out for themselves and will drop you in a heartbeat without looking back when they feel you or the relationship does not serve them.

They replace rather than reflect or put in the work. It is what is is. When women truly internalize this, it might change how they move in relationships.

He did her dirty twice. She has to be exhausted. Whew.

I'd argue that there are some men evolved enough to put in the work. The problem with Ben/Jen is that he has shown her and the world exactly who he is. Repeatedly! And she chose to ignore all the red flags.

But your general message to women to be cautious is 100% accurate.

[Anonymous]

His production company financed the documentary according to the J Lo camp.

I think he is always fine with J Lo the brand until she gets public ridicule. Once the documentary started getting online mockery, he ditched.

He’s a messed up person. A woman in love like that is because he love bombed her and gave her a ring that said not going anywhere. She had reasons to believe he was serious

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:JLo should take her bruises, learn her lessons, and move on. Not because Ben doesn't deserve to be dragged through the mud, but because whatever she does reads like upset Latina lashing out at A-list, attractive male star. If she stays silent, the default is to continue blaming her in the press. If he stays silent, it's because he's 'being productive with work and family.' Though he's already spending time with a new, younger woman.

These two are branded differently.
Lopez not photographed with her kids = neglectful mother.
Lopez photographed with Ben's kids = using them in the media.
Ben not photographed with any of the kids = why would he be? He owes nothing to JLo's kids and his kids must be with Garner, who affords them love and peace and stability.
Ben photographed tagging along with Garner and their kids = he's such a good dad.

+1 It's a losing situation for her. She will never win the PR war and the best thing to do is not engage.

Right. Even if she were to tell the truth about Garner being the other woman, what good would it be now? They married and had 3 kids. She also cheated on her own marriage to get with Ben Affleck.

There’s no point in doing a burn book or album about Ben. Because he’s an alcoholic with fragile sobriety , he’s going to always seem like the victim compared to J Lo the evil diva.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Um isn't kick a partier herself? Her bf OD years ago

https://people.com/style/matthew-mellon-dated-kick-kennedy-before-death/

She went to Stanford yet appears to do... nothing.