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+1 Hell yes. |
I went to school in one of the better districts in MA in the 90’s/early 2000’s. We had the “puberty talk” in 5th grade and it was desperately sexes. In 7th grade they did a combined “puberty talk” (us kids called it) as the whole grade which wasn’t too large in the town of Hanover. I think 8th grade we learned some more with a health teacher. I remember 8th grade was when our health teacher used baby goldfish crackers on a drawing on the bored to explain swimming sperm. I can’t remember if this was by homeroom or separated by sex but I think it was just as a homeroom. Kids made some goldfish jokes for a while… In high school we had health class as a special once a week. We learned about STDs and contraception in that class as well as general health practices and wellbeing. This was a designated health teacher. I think all of our health lectures in Hanover, no matter the grade, were with a health teacher (not PE or homeroom teachers but someone who studied to specifically teach health). Of course this could all be different now. When I taught in FCPS I was surprised they did a puberty talk in fourth grade and more in 5th. It seemed really young to me but I was a “late bloomer” so maybe these days kids really need that earlier. |
| *different, not desperately. I’m sure I made other errors too but I noticed that after posting lol |
| Kids are starting puberty earlier these days. There are definitely 5th graders who have boobs, etc. |
The parents absolutely do know what its like but their need to push an agenda overrides common sense. They keep going around and around repeating the same nonsense talking points despite actual FLE teachers providing their perspective. |
100% I had a girl cry during 4th grade FLE a few years back. That’s how little she knew beforehand. |
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It is not parents pushing this nonsense. It is outside political activists withough childre , and pur extrwmely political left leaning school board who sees your kids as political pawns for blue Virginia twitter points. None of this is parent driven and none of this is about the kids. |
If you gave read this thread there have been many parents supporting this change. |
It’s not something I feel passionately about and I wouldn’t push for it but I support this change. Seems like a better approach. And is how we did it back in the 80s (not FCPS). If teachers are having issues with classroom management in general then maybe FCPS should invest in more teacher training. |
There are one, maybe larents posting repeatedly who are for this. Talk to your neighbors with kids in fcps No one with children in school supports this change, except for a tiny segment on the fringe. Most parents are horrified by the idea, especially parents of girls. |
This is simply not true. It’s the people YOU know in real life because the people we know in real life tend to be a lot like us. So of course your little cohort is dismayed. You are on emotional collapse about it. Most of us are fine with whatever. Keep it separate, don’t, it’s fine either way. It’s parents like you who are absolutely terrified of trans kids or the idea your kids might learn information you can’t control that are so upset. |
Everyone I know is a typical northern virginia liberal or left of center dem. Most of them are not church goers. |
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Not all parents who want separate classes are terrified of trans kids or information students would learn about them. Some parents regularly have to reteach, provide context or flat out correct information taught in schools. That is par for the course for parents of color for example and this would be no different if "being afraid" was the issue.
Some of us genuinely want an environment where our kids can learn the best and feel comfortable asking questions. Nothing about separating kids by gender is harmful if both groups get the same information. Let the trans kids go with the gender they identify with. |