Your analogy isn’t on point, so the prior comment stands. A book in a public school library has the imprimatur of public officials as suitable reading material, unlike your private conversation with your friend. The School Board needs to insist on some accountability here. |
Here you go: https://www.fcps.edu/sites/default/files/media/forms/is706.pdf Account away. |
Utterly false equivalence. No one thinks that a library endorses every idea in every book. I think some books are terrible (*cough* Ulysses *cough*) but I don’t argue against them being in a high school library. Your stance is akin to the eejits who oppose Harry Potter in school because it promotes witchcraft. Guess what? Harry Potter-was not suitable for my kindergartener, nor was Are You There, God? it’s Me, Margaret. But they were perfectly fine for the 6th graders who had access to them in the same library. And if my kindergartner happened upon them before I could see they were in his backpack? No harm, no foul. A chance for conversation, maybe. My 3rd grader doesn’t have access to either of these books in his school library. But what if he had an older sibling who brought one home and he saw the page in question? Sigh. It’s not that hard. I’d explain that the two people are grownups. I’d explain that, as best I understand it, the main character feels confused in their body and sometimes feels like a woman or sometimes a man or sometimes both or neither, and that they don’t have a penis so they tried one on, kind of like a fake penis on the front of a pear of underwear. And it was a pretty silly idea for the other one to put the toy penis in their mouth! But look…it didn’t feel right so the main character asked the other person to do something else and they smiled and felt good, and that’s what people do when they respect each other’s bodies. If one person doesn’t like what you’re doing, you stop. When I first read this outrage on Thursday night, I thought WTF?! The quote sounded outrageous. How could this happen? And then I read Lawn Boy and there was no pedophilia in it. Just a young adult reflecting on how erased he felt by a guy with whom he has sexually experimented in 4th grade. Guess what? Same thing happened to me with a girl I sort of fooled around with in 6th grade not even knowing what we were doing, who then pretended she didn’t know me in high school. So I’m not the only one. It wasn’t even remotely pornographic and had nothing whatsoever to do with pedophilia. Then I actually read parts of Gender Queer and it, too, is about as far from pornography as you can get. There is nothing “graphic” on the page where the MC tries on a strap on. No middle school or high school kid is going to be shocked by news that something protrudes from Boy underwear or at the concept of blow jobs. But this isn’t even a blow job! It’s someone trying on a fake penis and realizing it’s awkward and not fun and then negotiating respectful consent and a change. But not arousing. Not meant to arouse. Awkward and uncommon, sure. But hardly sexy and certainly not porn. I can’t imagine my son ever taking it out but if he did, it wouldn’t HARM him. So, the claim of “pedophilia” is a lie. Graphic sex scene claim is a lie. A cartoonish drawing of awkward play with a strap-on is unusual but hardly merits a full scale book burning. |
Wow. You have some f’d up values. You’d discuss a strap on with a third grader? And putting a penis in one’s mouth? |
| Ah, the hoops that some people will jump through to demonstrate their allegiance to those now in charge in Fairfax. The sycophancy is almost as revolting as the obscenity. |
The books are fine. The lies and misinformation you are pushing are not. |
You are so afraid of being associated with the so called “Trumphumpers” that you’ve convinced yourself of this. Unbelievable. Those books are not fine. |
love it!
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You do realize that Republicans love the Bible? |
That’s your opinion. Let’s see what this so called “committee” decides in regards to the books. |
Lol. It’s another book they get all fired up about but haven’t actually read. At least the Jesus parts at least, they clearly haven’t read. |
Point is, this is not a book that my 3rd grader would have access to in the school library. But if by chance he came upon it, it wouldn’t hurt him to turn the pages in it, not like porn would. He would have questions about menstruation or shaving body hair or why someone would wear a pretend penis. But that page in particular is not particularly shocking and doesn’t even have an actual penis. It’s nothing like pornography. My 3rd grader does know body parts, does know about consent, and does know the basics of where babies come from. Our values focus on taking care of others and ourselves, trying to do good in the world, avoiding harm to others, and making the world a better place when we can. Nothing in these books violates my values. |
| The hilarious part is when the smug a-holes defending smut revert to their usual condescending patterns. |
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It would be nice if Fairfax Dems were as passionate about academics as they are about these books.
I guess they need to prioritize. |
Part of being passionate about academics is showing respect for the hard work of our teachers and librarians, respecting their training, professionalism, and dedication. Cherry-picking quotes and mischarateyizing their context in order to demonize our educators is not good for academics, not good for children, not good for communities. Our teachers have been under siege this year from attacks from rabid parents taking out their COVID rage on them. Now we have political agitators attacking school librarians. So yeah, I’m going to stand my ground against that. You know what? There is also a book that they’re forcing FRESHMEN to read and it involves kids of middle school age having sex, running away from home, and overdosing on drugs! And it glorifies defying parents and dying by suicide!!!!!! OMG! Call the GOP! (Oh, wait. It’s not a gay relationship so apparently all that is okay.) |