Confrssion thread

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I slept with a good friends' widow the night after his funeral.

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Anonymous wrote:I slept with a good friends' widow the night after his funeral.

Did you marry the Freckled Fox?

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Anonymous wrote:I have a crush on Josh from the Stuff You Should Know podcast based solely on his voice. I refuse to Google what he looks like. When I masturbate, I think about him explaining really nerdy stuff to me.

I have never heard of the podcast but googled him out of curiosity. He is smokin HOT!

Bahaha I love that podcast and I also googled when I saw this. Chuck and Josh both do NOT look how I would expect, but are very good looking! I won't spoil Josh for you, but Chuck is kinda big guy with a giant beard... I pictured a skinny, crunchy hipster lol

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Anonymous wrote:I have so much contempt for my spouse. I was going through a massive bout of depression leading to self destructive behavior and they sat idol and did nothing. Even after an attempted suicide, nothing but attacks and having them make me feel an inch tall.

After seeing professionals - and a long healing process did it get better for myself.

Now I feel my spouse is the enemy and not an ally or friend. I can't ever trust them for essentially leaving me out there to hang myself. I wouldn't have done the same thing. While I sat downstairs, cried and drank myself to sleep a lot - sometimes multiple days in a row - they were upstairs on their tablet or watching shows or laughing with friends on the phone.

Can't leave though - too many financial obligations.

Sounds to me like you abandoned your spouse, not the other way around.

Sounds like you need help, did you push him/her away when they offered help, assuming they did because even the worst spouse I would imagine trying to help? Or did you blame him? If there is no trust don't stay. You will never get better that way. Money shouldn't be a factor, friends will help you.

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Anonymous wrote:I go to survivinginfidelity.com and read the just found out posts to try to find some empathy. But, I haven't, for the most part. I just get bored with the perpetual whining of the betrayed spouses.

I did the same. I still feel no guilt about taking her husband.

You are awful. I hope karma comes back and kicks you right in the teeth.

^^ Do we have a whining betrayed spouse here? ^^

No, marriage 18 years and good. But I have seen the carnage of affairs. Friend committed suicide over it. And damage to kids is awful. I have zero tolerance for home wreckers, and the ones who gloat or are proud are despicable

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Anonymous wrote:I go to survivinginfidelity.com and read the just found out posts to try to find some empathy. But, I haven't, for the most part. I just get bored with the perpetual whining of the betrayed spouses.

I did the same. I still feel no guilt about taking her husband.

You are awful. I hope karma comes back and kicks you right in the teeth.

^^ Do we have a whining betrayed spouse here? ^^

No, marriage 18 years and good. But I have seen the carnage of affairs. Friend committed suicide over it. And damage to kids is awful. I have zero tolerance for home wreckers, and the ones who gloat or are proud are despicable

Do you consider a low/zero libido spouse to be a home wrecker?
This creates alot of carnage, damage to kids, etc, resulting in alot of affairs.

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Anonymous wrote:Confession: I am having a travel sports affair.

Seriously.

+1
ILY

+1 I'd like to join the fan club!

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Anonymous wrote:Confession: I am having a travel sports affair.

Seriously.

+1
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+1 I'd like to join the fan club!

Is this related to the "travel sports affair" thread.

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Anonymous wrote:I go to survivinginfidelity.com and read the just found out posts to try to find some empathy. But, I haven't, for the most part. I just get bored with the perpetual whining of the betrayed spouses.

I did the same. I still feel no guilt about taking her husband.

You are awful. I hope karma comes back and kicks you right in the teeth.

^^ Do we have a whining betrayed spouse here? ^^

No, marriage 18 years and good. But I have seen the carnage of affairs. Friend committed suicide over it. And damage to kids is awful. I have zero tolerance for home wreckers, and the ones who gloat or are proud are despicable

I'm not defending the adulterer, per se. But, perhaps your friend was really hard to live with. Infidelity sucks, but committing suicide is not a typical reaction. He/she probably had preexisting issues from childhood and/or a mood disorder. I know people who have committed suicide. None of them who were triggered by a life event were "normal"/healthy, resilient prior to the event. Just sayin'.

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Anonymous wrote:I have never stepped out on my 15 year marriage until a month ago...Since then with my carpenter it's been in his truck twice and in the back of my SUV twice. I do things to him that would make a porn star blush.

About ten years ago and, after having been faithful our entire marriage, we had a big construction project underway at our home one summer. There was a young carpenter working late one day who came up behind me and slid his hand into my pants pocket. I was stunned but just blushed and said no thanks. But i couldn't stop thinking about how turned on I was. A few days later he was working late again and I took him up on his offer. The sex was amazing (I guess first time sex often is) but afterwards I was WTF was I thinking. I haven't done it again. Ever since I've worked hard to make sex with my DH memorable so there would be no sexual reason to stray.

Don't feel guilty PPs. Jesus was also a carpenter.

I seriously just screamed with laughter at my desk and 2 people ran in here to see what was happening. I told them I was coughing loudly due to all the pollen. Not sure they believed me?

I'm the PP who posted the joke. I have a great sense of humor, and still can't get laid.

Are you fat?

No. Tall (6'4"), good shape, PhD, etc. But I am old (51).

I only posted the fat thing because women get that all the time. 51 and 6'4" is sexy in my book. PLUS a PhD??! Swoon.

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Anonymous wrote:I have never stepped out on my 15 year marriage until a month ago...Since then with my carpenter it's been in his truck twice and in the back of my SUV twice. I do things to him that would make a porn star blush.

About ten years ago and, after having been faithful our entire marriage, we had a big construction project underway at our home one summer. There was a young carpenter working late one day who came up behind me and slid his hand into my pants pocket. I was stunned but just blushed and said no thanks. But i couldn't stop thinking about how turned on I was. A few days later he was working late again and I took him up on his offer. The sex was amazing (I guess first time sex often is) but afterwards I was WTF was I thinking. I haven't done it again. Ever since I've worked hard to make sex with my DH memorable so there would be no sexual reason to stray.

Don't feel guilty PPs. Jesus was also a carpenter.

I seriously just screamed with laughter at my desk and 2 people ran in here to see what was happening. I told them I was coughing loudly due to all the pollen. Not sure they believed me?

I'm the PP who posted the joke. I have a great sense of humor, and still can't get laid.

Are you fat?

No. Tall (6'4"), good shape, PhD, etc. But I am old (51).

your not old! My carpenter is 53...im 37

You better not be doing my carpenter ... I thought we had something special.

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Anonymous wrote:I have never stepped out on my 15 year marriage until a month ago...Since then with my carpenter it's been in his truck twice and in the back of my SUV twice. I do things to him that would make a porn star blush.

About ten years ago and, after having been faithful our entire marriage, we had a big construction project underway at our home one summer. There was a young carpenter working late one day who came up behind me and slid his hand into my pants pocket. I was stunned but just blushed and said no thanks. But i couldn't stop thinking about how turned on I was. A few days later he was working late again and I took him up on his offer. The sex was amazing (I guess first time sex often is) but afterwards I was WTF was I thinking. I haven't done it again. Ever since I've worked hard to make sex with my DH memorable so there would be no sexual reason to stray.

Don't feel guilty PPs. Jesus was also a carpenter.

I seriously just screamed with laughter at my desk and 2 people ran in here to see what was happening. I told them I was coughing loudly due to all the pollen. Not sure they believed me?

I'm the PP who posted the joke. I have a great sense of humor, and still can't get laid.

Are you fat?

No. Tall (6'4"), good shape, PhD, etc. But I am old (51).

I only posted the fat thing because women get that all the time. 51 and 6'4" is sexy in my book. PLUS a PhD??! Swoon.

Older than pp, and shorted, but also with a phd. (53 & 188 cm vs pp's 193 cm).. oh I speak metric...

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I'm the PP who posted the joke. I have a great sense of humor, and still can't get laid.

Are you fat?

No. Tall (6'4"), good shape, PhD, etc. But I am old (51).

I only posted the fat thing because women get that all the time. 51 and 6'4" is sexy in my book. PLUS a PhD??! Swoon.

My confession: I haven't been with a woman other than ex-DW in over 25 years. Sort of terrified.

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Anonymous wrote:I go to survivinginfidelity.com and read the just found out posts to try to find some empathy. But, I haven't, for the most part. I just get bored with the perpetual whining of the betrayed spouses.

I did the same. I still feel no guilt about taking her husband.

You are awful. I hope karma comes back and kicks you right in the teeth.

^^ Do we have a whining betrayed spouse here? ^^

No, marriage 18 years and good. But I have seen the carnage of affairs. Friend committed suicide over it. And damage to kids is awful. I have zero tolerance for home wreckers, and the ones who gloat or are proud are despicable

No one cares. I didn't make vows to his wife. Anyway she should thank me. I kept other women away from our man.

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Anonymous wrote:I go to survivinginfidelity.com and read the just found out posts to try to find some empathy. But, I haven't, for the most part. I just get bored with the perpetual whining of the betrayed spouses.

I did the same. I still feel no guilt about taking her husband.

You are awful. I hope karma comes back and kicks you right in the teeth.

^^ Do we have a whining betrayed spouse here? ^^

No, marriage 18 years and good. But I have seen the carnage of affairs. Friend committed suicide over it. And damage to kids is awful. I have zero tolerance for home wreckers, and the ones who gloat or are proud are despicable

No one cares. I didn't make vows to his wife. Anyway she should thank me. I kept other women away from our man.

You are quite the catch