Men seem eager to be remarried!

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Anonymous wrote:Late thirties woman looking for a husband. I’m dating a lot of divorced days; mid thirties; make good money; have a kid or two. They all want to settle down and be married and are even open for another kid.

It’s definitely raining men! ☺️


It’s raining ManChildren!
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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.


You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

This is the same clown who's been writing awful works of fiction every few pages in this thread.

I'm in my 40s with ED and a bright red face set in an overgrown bald head about to explode like an overripe tomato from abusing steroids and growth hormone to develop an underwhelming four pack, but a long line of supermodel billionaire 25 year olds want to mother my 9 rotten kids under age 6 and marry me!!! Herp derp duh."


+10 million
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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.


You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

Most likely he cheated on his wife while she was pregnant or postpartum. Extremely common with these low quality men.
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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.


You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

Most likely he cheated on his wife while she was pregnant or postpartum. Extremely common with these low quality men.


Yea, he already dated 3 women during separation and post divorce; heading to second set of multiples. Zero integrity. Yakis
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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.


You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?


ExW is crazy.

She was so crazy that you impregnated her four times in five years. Are the kids you inflicted on her also as stupid as you?


Troll math ain’t math’in



It's the biggest red flag when a dude with little kids badmouthed his exW calling her "crazy". Usually it's a code word for someone who couldn't pull off his parenting duties at home, and the exW indeed went crazy and depressed. And yet he kept making babies with her, and already plans for baby #5 with his current partner. Who would you consider crazy in this whole setup?

Judges don't buy this s..t about crazy wives. My attorney told me literally 90% of divorcing dads were trying to pull this crap at no avail.

The GF is ether inexperienced or she's stupid and/or unattractive if she's ok to be anywhere near this mess.


Remember the thread about the Phd 27yo who was thinking about marrying that divorced dad. There are smart & attractive women out there that date guys like this but yeah they’re usually inexperienced.
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This is the same clown who's been writing awful works of fiction every few pages in this thread.

I'm in my 40s with ED and a bright red face set in an overgrown bald head about to explode like an overripe tomato from abusing steroids and growth hormone to develop an underwhelming four pack, but a long line of supermodel billionaire 25 year olds want to mother my 9 rotten kids under age 6 and marry me!!! Herp derp duh."


+10 million


Stop sockpuppeting your posts! It takes up space and makes your original post look even weaker.
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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.


You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?


ExW is crazy.

She was so crazy that you impregnated her four times in five years. Are the kids you inflicted on her also as stupid as you?


Troll math ain’t math’in



It's the biggest red flag when a dude with little kids badmouthed his exW calling her "crazy". Usually it's a code word for someone who couldn't pull off his parenting duties at home, and the exW indeed went crazy and depressed. And yet he kept making babies with her, and already plans for baby #5 with his current partner. Who would you consider crazy in this whole setup?

Judges don't buy this s..t about crazy wives. My attorney told me literally 90% of divorcing dads were trying to pull this crap at no avail.

The GF is ether inexperienced or she's stupid and/or unattractive if she's ok to be anywhere near this mess.


So everything is the divorced dad’s fault. For me, parenting duties were never a problem. My exwife and I both decided to have kids, and if I get married again in the future and my spouse wants kids, I’m open to having one or two. And my current girlfriend is none of that—you ladies might find it believe, but yes she truly is a gem.


At what point did your exW become crazy ? If it was between babies 1-3 then why did you agree to impregnate a crazy woman ? If she went nuts after #3, why did you impregnated her again, and then divorced a year after having the baby #4, without first trying to get mental health for the mother of your kids? Don’t you see how crazy it looks ?

She wasn’t ‘crazy’ in the sense some might think, but I do believe there were traits, like some narcissistic and borderline tendencies, that made things worse. I wanted to save our marriage and did put in a lot of effort to save it, but we ultimately just weren’t compatible, and it didn’t work out. Absolutely, wish it did though.


I see what you’re saying about narcissism. Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. Either overt or covert, or however on the NPD spectrum, it’s a hard thing to handle. Then you read about associated behaviors. I think modern society is also breeding narcissism with social media culture, etc. Either way, it’s toxic in marriage.
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This is the same clown who's been writing awful works of fiction every few pages in this thread.

I'm in my 40s with ED and a bright red face set in an overgrown bald head about to explode like an overripe tomato from abusing steroids and growth hormone to develop an underwhelming four pack, but a long line of supermodel billionaire 25 year olds want to mother my 9 rotten kids under age 6 and marry me!!! Herp derp duh."


+10 million


Stop sockpuppeting your posts! It takes up space and makes your original post look even weaker.

I'm not sock puppeting, but you are. There are at least 3 sock puppets in this thread. The guy who keeps saying DC women are damaged. The lady who keeps attacking any woman who criticizes men. I think she's the one with the 4 daughters or something. There's you. I think you're the one who kept trying to start a fight with false accusations of black/white thinking. You got ignored, so you're trying a more direct form of trolling.
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Actually, there's a fourth troll. There's the guy who keeps posting about how gorgeous younger women want him. He's the best one because his posts require a little reading between the lines to get fully pissed off. The divorced 5 years ago with the youngest kid being only 6 was clever bait.
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I'm not sock puppeting, but you are. There are at least 3 sock puppets in this thread. The guy who keeps saying DC women are damaged. The lady who keeps attacking any woman who criticizes men. I think she's the one with the 4 daughters or something. There's you. I think you're the one who kept trying to start a fight with false accusations of black/white thinking. You got ignored, so you're trying a more direct form of trolling.


Please tell us that you see how immature and sad your post is. You should left writing "I am not ____, but you ARE" behind when you left 5th grade. And you are many years past 5th grade now.

Your posts are so angry. Do you have this problem in other areas of your life? I think you do. Try starting with less paranoid ideas (e.g., there are at least three, no, wait, at least four ___ on here) and more logical ones.

Why does it matter how many daughters a poster has? This is a site for parents.
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I'm not sock puppeting, but you are. There are at least 3 sock puppets in this thread. The guy who keeps saying DC women are damaged. The lady who keeps attacking any woman who criticizes men. I think she's the one with the 4 daughters or something. There's you. I think you're the one who kept trying to start a fight with false accusations of black/white thinking. You got ignored, so you're trying a more direct form of trolling.


Please tell us that you see how immature and sad your post is. You should left writing "I am not ____, but you ARE" behind when you left 5th grade. And you are many years past 5th grade now.

Your posts are so angry. Do you have this problem in other areas of your life? I think you do. Try starting with less paranoid ideas (e.g., there are at least three, no, wait, at least four ___ on here) and more logical ones.

Why does it matter how many daughters a poster has? This is a site for parents.

Oh, interesting. The loon posting about black/white thinking is the same one with the 4 daughters, who claimed multiple sons in a previous thread. You're super crazy and angry, but inadvertently funny as hell.
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Oh, interesting. The loon posting about black/white thinking is the same one with the 4 daughters, who claimed multiple sons in a previous thread. You're super crazy and angry, but inadvertently funny as hell.


Not "inadvertent" at all. You are easy to make fun of, and you will rise to the bait every time. It is a result of your damaged self-esteem.

What you do not see is that by making crazy posts you fuel your problems instead of addressing and resolving them.
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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.


You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?


ExW is crazy.

She was so crazy that you impregnated her four times in five years. Are the kids you inflicted on her also as stupid as you?


Troll math ain’t math’in



It's the biggest red flag when a dude with little kids badmouthed his exW calling her "crazy". Usually it's a code word for someone who couldn't pull off his parenting duties at home, and the exW indeed went crazy and depressed. And yet he kept making babies with her, and already plans for baby #5 with his current partner. Who would you consider crazy in this whole setup?

Judges don't buy this s..t about crazy wives. My attorney told me literally 90% of divorcing dads were trying to pull this crap at no avail.

The GF is ether inexperienced or she's stupid and/or unattractive if she's ok to be anywhere near this mess.


So everything is the divorced dad’s fault. For me, parenting duties were never a problem. My exwife and I both decided to have kids, and if I get married again in the future and my spouse wants kids, I’m open to having one or two. And my current girlfriend is none of that—you ladies might find it believe, but yes she truly is a gem.


At what point did your exW become crazy ? If it was between babies 1-3 then why did you agree to impregnate a crazy woman ? If she went nuts after #3, why did you impregnated her again, and then divorced a year after having the baby #4, without first trying to get mental health for the mother of your kids? Don’t you see how crazy it looks ?

She wasn’t ‘crazy’ in the sense some might think, but I do believe there were traits, like some narcissistic and borderline tendencies, that made things worse. I wanted to save our marriage and did put in a lot of effort to save it, but we ultimately just weren’t compatible, and it didn’t work out. Absolutely, wish it did though.


I see what you’re saying about narcissism. Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. Either overt or covert, or however on the NPD spectrum, it’s a hard thing to handle. Then you read about associated behaviors. I think modern society is also breeding narcissism with social media culture, etc. Either way, it’s toxic in marriage.

Yeh, it was overt. Included a lot of manipulation, threats, sometimes violence. Not something that we needed to deal with together.
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Oh, interesting. The loon posting about black/white thinking is the same one with the 4 daughters, who claimed multiple sons in a previous thread. You're super crazy and angry, but inadvertently funny as hell.


[b]Not "inadvertent" at all. You are easy to make fun of, and you will rise to the bait every time. It is a result of your damaged self-esteem.

What you do not see is that by making crazy posts you fuel your problems instead of addressing and resolving them.

This is some deep thinking. Truly. I don't think your posts are deliberately funny though. You're frothing mad.
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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.


You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?


ExW is crazy.

She was so crazy that you impregnated her four times in five years. Are the kids you inflicted on her also as stupid as you?


Troll math ain’t math’in



It's the biggest red flag when a dude with little kids badmouthed his exW calling her "crazy". Usually it's a code word for someone who couldn't pull off his parenting duties at home, and the exW indeed went crazy and depressed. And yet he kept making babies with her, and already plans for baby #5 with his current partner. Who would you consider crazy in this whole setup?

Judges don't buy this s..t about crazy wives. My attorney told me literally 90% of divorcing dads were trying to pull this crap at no avail.

The GF is ether inexperienced or she's stupid and/or unattractive if she's ok to be anywhere near this mess.


So everything is the divorced dad’s fault. For me, parenting duties were never a problem. My exwife and I both decided to have kids, and if I get married again in the future and my spouse wants kids, I’m open to having one or two. And my current girlfriend is none of that—you ladies might find it believe, but yes she truly is a gem.


At what point did your exW become crazy ? If it was between babies 1-3 then why did you agree to impregnate a crazy woman ? If she went nuts after #3, why did you impregnated her again, and then divorced a year after having the baby #4, without first trying to get mental health for the mother of your kids? Don’t you see how crazy it looks ?

She wasn’t ‘crazy’ in the sense some might think, but I do believe there were traits, like some narcissistic and borderline tendencies, that made things worse. I wanted to save our marriage and did put in a lot of effort to save it, but we ultimately just weren’t compatible, and it didn’t work out. Absolutely, wish it did though.


I see what you’re saying about narcissism. Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. Either overt or covert, or however on the NPD spectrum, it’s a hard thing to handle. Then you read about associated behaviors. I think modern society is also breeding narcissism with social media culture, etc. Either way, it’s toxic in marriage.

Yeh, it was overt. Included a lot of manipulation, threats, sometimes violence. Not something that we needed to deal with together.

So, your ex-wife had postpartum from carrying your kids back to back and you ran out on her. Such a long suffering hero. When does your memoir come out?
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