Men seem eager to be remarried!

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Why would you have kid 4 and do a 1 year separation at the same time? Wtf.

Kid 4 wasn’t intentional. We separated when she was 8 months old, five years ago, & and the official divorce was four years ago.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

ExW is crazy.

NP. You thought divorcing when you had a 1 and 3 year old was something to boast about. You're also deriding a woman who had 4 children in 5 years for your nasty behind. You were the nutjob in that relationship and your current girlfriend will soon realize it.

Deriding? I still have respect and love for her. It’s been almost a year of dating and so far we haven’t had any issues.

The woman you just called crazy? Lol

Yes, her. I’ve never said anything like that to her, & would never. We have a good coparenting relationship, we’re pretty much still friends.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

What does she get out of this deal?

What she gets? A well off guy with a solid career, financial security, and a real partnership. We both get what we want, good times, stability, future kids.

Yeah, sooo much money with those four young kids and crazy ex wife to take care of.
Screams solid, security, stability, partnership.
Yeah.

There is enough to go around for everyone (including ex-wife, kids & future wife).

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

What does she get out of this deal?

What she gets? A well off guy with a solid career, financial security, and a real partnership. We both get what we want, good times, stability, future kids.

"I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me."

At least make the troll worth the read.

Future official partnership & stability.

Im taking it slow & steady this time. My kids are involved, I don’t have any need to rush, everything feels okay the way it is right now.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

ExW is crazy.

NP. You thought divorcing when you had a 1 and 3 year old was something to boast about. You're also deriding a woman who had 4 children in 5 years for your nasty behind. You were the nutjob in that relationship and your current girlfriend will soon realize it.

Deriding? I still have respect and love for her. It’s been almost a year of dating and so far we haven’t had any issues.

Try reading that again and then write something that makes sense this time. You can do this, early 40s dad. We believe in you.

It doesn’t have to be black & white.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

ExW is crazy.

She was so crazy that you impregnated her four times in five years. Are the kids you inflicted on her also as stupid as you?

Troll math ain’t math’in

It's the biggest red flag when a dude with little kids badmouthed his exW calling her "crazy". Usually it's a code word for someone who couldn't pull off his parenting duties at home, and the exW indeed went crazy and depressed. And yet he kept making babies with her, and already plans for baby #5 with his current partner. Who would you consider crazy in this whole setup?

Judges don't buy this s..t about crazy wives. My attorney told me literally 90% of divorcing dads were trying to pull this crap at no avail.

The GF is ether inexperienced or she's stupid and/or unattractive if she's ok to be anywhere near this mess.

So everything is the divorced dad’s fault. For me, parenting duties were never a problem. My exwife and I both decided to have kids, and if I get married again in the future and my spouse wants kids, I’m open to having one or two. And my current girlfriend is none of that—you ladies might find it believe, but yes she truly is a gem.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

ExW is crazy.

She was so crazy that you impregnated her four times in five years. Are the kids you inflicted on her also as stupid as you?

Troll math ain’t math’in

It's the biggest red flag when a dude with little kids badmouthed his exW calling her "crazy". Usually it's a code word for someone who couldn't pull off his parenting duties at home, and the exW indeed went crazy and depressed. And yet he kept making babies with her, and already plans for baby #5 with his current partner. Who would you consider crazy in this whole setup?

Judges don't buy this s..t about crazy wives. My attorney told me literally 90% of divorcing dads were trying to pull this crap at no avail.

The GF is ether inexperienced or she's stupid and/or unattractive if she's ok to be anywhere near this mess.

So everything is the divorced dad’s fault. For me, parenting duties were never a problem. My exwife and I both decided to have kids, and if I get married again in the future and my spouse wants kids, I’m open to having one or two. And my current girlfriend is none of that—you ladies might find it believe, but yes she truly is a gem.

At what point did your exW become crazy ? If it was between babies 1-3 then why did you agree to impregnate a crazy woman ? If she went nuts after #3, why did you impregnated her again, and then divorced a year after having the baby #4, without first trying to get mental health for the mother of your kids? Don’t you see how crazy it looks ?

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

ExW is crazy.

She was so crazy that you impregnated her four times in five years. Are the kids you inflicted on her also as stupid as you?

Troll math ain’t math’in

It's the biggest red flag when a dude with little kids badmouthed his exW calling her "crazy". Usually it's a code word for someone who couldn't pull off his parenting duties at home, and the exW indeed went crazy and depressed. And yet he kept making babies with her, and already plans for baby #5 with his current partner. Who would you consider crazy in this whole setup?

Judges don't buy this s..t about crazy wives. My attorney told me literally 90% of divorcing dads were trying to pull this crap at no avail.

The GF is ether inexperienced or she's stupid and/or unattractive if she's ok to be anywhere near this mess.

So everything is the divorced dad’s fault. For me, parenting duties were never a problem. My exwife and I both decided to have kids, and if I get married again in the future and my spouse wants kids, I’m open to having one or two. And my current girlfriend is none of that—you ladies might find it believe, but yes she truly is a gem.

At what point did your exW become crazy ? If it was between babies 1-3 then why did you agree to impregnate a crazy woman ? If she went nuts after #3, why did you impregnated her again, and then divorced a year after having the baby #4, without first trying to get mental health for the mother of your kids? Don’t you see how crazy it looks ?

She wasn’t ‘crazy’ in the sense some might think, but I do believe there were traits, like some narcissistic and borderline tendencies, that made things worse. I wanted to save our marriage and did put in a lot of effort to save it, but we ultimately just weren’t compatible, and it didn’t work out. Absolutely, wish it did though.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

ExW is crazy.

She was so crazy that you impregnated her four times in five years. Are the kids you inflicted on her also as stupid as you?

Troll math ain’t math’in

It's the biggest red flag when a dude with little kids badmouthed his exW calling her "crazy". Usually it's a code word for someone who couldn't pull off his parenting duties at home, and the exW indeed went crazy and depressed. And yet he kept making babies with her, and already plans for baby #5 with his current partner. Who would you consider crazy in this whole setup?

Judges don't buy this s..t about crazy wives. My attorney told me literally 90% of divorcing dads were trying to pull this crap at no avail.

The GF is ether inexperienced or she's stupid and/or unattractive if she's ok to be anywhere near this mess.

So everything is the divorced dad’s fault. For me, parenting duties were never a problem. My exwife and I both decided to have kids, and if I get married again in the future and my spouse wants kids, I’m open to having one or two. And my current girlfriend is none of that—you ladies might find it believe, but yes she truly is a gem.

At what point did your exW become crazy ? If it was between babies 1-3 then why did you agree to impregnate a crazy woman ? If she went nuts after #3, why did you impregnated her again, and then divorced a year after having the baby #4, without first trying to get mental health for the mother of your kids? Don’t you see how crazy it looks ?

She wasn’t ‘crazy’ in the sense some might think, but I do believe there were traits, like some narcissistic and borderline tendencies, that made things worse. I wanted to save our marriage and did put in a lot of effort to save it, but we ultimately just weren’t compatible, and it didn’t work out. Absolutely, wish it did though.

Sure, bro. You tried to save it by sticking your D in her unprotected. Cool, bro. Bravo ! Keep doing it - this country needs you

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

ExW is crazy.

She was so crazy that you impregnated her four times in five years. Are the kids you inflicted on her also as stupid as you?

Troll math ain’t math’in

It's the biggest red flag when a dude with little kids badmouthed his exW calling her "crazy". Usually it's a code word for someone who couldn't pull off his parenting duties at home, and the exW indeed went crazy and depressed. And yet he kept making babies with her, and already plans for baby #5 with his current partner. Who would you consider crazy in this whole setup?

Judges don't buy this s..t about crazy wives. My attorney told me literally 90% of divorcing dads were trying to pull this crap at no avail.

The GF is ether inexperienced or she's stupid and/or unattractive if she's ok to be anywhere near this mess.

So everything is the divorced dad’s fault. For me, parenting duties were never a problem. My exwife and I both decided to have kids, and if I get married again in the future and my spouse wants kids, I’m open to having one or two. And my current girlfriend is none of that—you ladies might find it believe, but yes she truly is a gem.

At what point did your exW become crazy ? If it was between babies 1-3 then why did you agree to impregnate a crazy woman ? If she went nuts after #3, why did you impregnated her again, and then divorced a year after having the baby #4, without first trying to get mental health for the mother of your kids? Don’t you see how crazy it looks ?

She wasn’t ‘crazy’ in the sense some might think, but I do believe there were traits, like some narcissistic and borderline tendencies, that made things worse. I wanted to save our marriage and did put in a lot of effort to save it, but we ultimately just weren’t compatible, and it didn’t work out. Absolutely, wish it did though.

Sure, bro. You tried to save it by sticking your D in her unprotected. Cool, bro. Bravo ! Keep doing it - this country needs you

Well, the past is the past, no reason to dwell on that now. I’m dating, she also has a boyfriend that she’s been dating for a year and a half, she’s also planning to get remarried, we’re both doing okay. There were too many issues in our marriage for it be saved, and it really was like that from the beginning. Just because we had four kids, doesn’t mean we had to stay together.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

ExW is crazy.

She was so crazy that you impregnated her four times in five years. Are the kids you inflicted on her also as stupid as you?

Troll math ain’t math’in

It's the biggest red flag when a dude with little kids badmouthed his exW calling her "crazy". Usually it's a code word for someone who couldn't pull off his parenting duties at home, and the exW indeed went crazy and depressed. And yet he kept making babies with her, and already plans for baby #5 with his current partner. Who would you consider crazy in this whole setup?

Judges don't buy this s..t about crazy wives. My attorney told me literally 90% of divorcing dads were trying to pull this crap at no avail.

The GF is ether inexperienced or she's stupid and/or unattractive if she's ok to be anywhere near this mess.

So everything is the divorced dad’s fault. For me, parenting duties were never a problem. My exwife and I both decided to have kids, and if I get married again in the future and my spouse wants kids, I’m open to having one or two. And my current girlfriend is none of that—you ladies might find it believe, but yes she truly is a gem.

No one believes that your exW is 100% crazy and your current GF is 100% perfect. Because that’s not how people work.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

ExW is crazy.

She was so crazy that you impregnated her four times in five years. Are the kids you inflicted on her also as stupid as you?

Troll math ain’t math’in

It's the biggest red flag when a dude with little kids badmouthed his exW calling her "crazy". Usually it's a code word for someone who couldn't pull off his parenting duties at home, and the exW indeed went crazy and depressed. And yet he kept making babies with her, and already plans for baby #5 with his current partner. Who would you consider crazy in this whole setup?

Judges don't buy this s..t about crazy wives. My attorney told me literally 90% of divorcing dads were trying to pull this crap at no avail.

The GF is ether inexperienced or she's stupid and/or unattractive if she's ok to be anywhere near this mess.

So everything is the divorced dad’s fault. For me, parenting duties were never a problem. My exwife and I both decided to have kids, and if I get married again in the future and my spouse wants kids, I’m open to having one or two. And my current girlfriend is none of that—you ladies might find it believe, but yes she truly is a gem.

No one believes that your exW is 100% crazy and your current GF is 100% perfect. Because that’s not how people work.

True, she isn’t 100% crazy. I didn’t mean it in the way you see it mentioned on this thread. My current girlfriend isn’t 100% perfect but in terms of personality is pretty darn close.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

ExW is crazy.

She was so crazy that you impregnated her four times in five years. Are the kids you inflicted on her also as stupid as you?

Troll math ain’t math’in

It's the biggest red flag when a dude with little kids badmouthed his exW calling her "crazy". Usually it's a code word for someone who couldn't pull off his parenting duties at home, and the exW indeed went crazy and depressed. And yet he kept making babies with her, and already plans for baby #5 with his current partner. Who would you consider crazy in this whole setup?

Judges don't buy this s..t about crazy wives. My attorney told me literally 90% of divorcing dads were trying to pull this crap at no avail.

The GF is ether inexperienced or she's stupid and/or unattractive if she's ok to be anywhere near this mess.

It was a troll posting all of that.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

ExW is crazy.

She was so crazy that you impregnated her four times in five years. Are the kids you inflicted on her also as stupid as you?

Troll math ain’t math’in

It's the biggest red flag when a dude with little kids badmouthed his exW calling her "crazy". Usually it's a code word for someone who couldn't pull off his parenting duties at home, and the exW indeed went crazy and depressed. And yet he kept making babies with her, and already plans for baby #5 with his current partner. Who would you consider crazy in this whole setup?

Judges don't buy this s..t about crazy wives. My attorney told me literally 90% of divorcing dads were trying to pull this crap at no avail.

The GF is ether inexperienced or she's stupid and/or unattractive if she's ok to be anywhere near this mess.

So everything is the divorced dad’s fault. For me, parenting duties were never a problem. My exwife and I both decided to have kids, and if I get married again in the future and my spouse wants kids, I’m open to having one or two. And my current girlfriend is none of that—you ladies might find it believe, but yes she truly is a gem.

At what point did your exW become crazy ? If it was between babies 1-3 then why did you agree to impregnate a crazy woman ? If she went nuts after #3, why did you impregnated her again, and then divorced a year after having the baby #4, without first trying to get mental health for the mother of your kids? Don’t you see how crazy it looks ?

She wasn’t ‘crazy’ in the sense some might think, but I do believe there were traits, like some narcissistic and borderline tendencies, that made things worse. I wanted to save our marriage and did put in a lot of effort to save it, but we ultimately just weren’t compatible, and it didn’t work out. Absolutely, wish it did though.

Sure, bro. You tried to save it by sticking your D in her unprotected. Cool, bro. Bravo ! Keep doing it - this country needs you

No vasc for me!

Just leave me alone all Saturday late nite to troll post on DCUM.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

ExW is crazy.

She was so crazy that you impregnated her four times in five years. Are the kids you inflicted on her also as stupid as you?

Troll math ain’t math’in

It's the biggest red flag when a dude with little kids badmouthed his exW calling her "crazy". Usually it's a code word for someone who couldn't pull off his parenting duties at home, and the exW indeed went crazy and depressed. And yet he kept making babies with her, and already plans for baby #5 with his current partner. Who would you consider crazy in this whole setup?

Judges don't buy this s..t about crazy wives. My attorney told me literally 90% of divorcing dads were trying to pull this crap at no avail.

The GF is ether inexperienced or she's stupid and/or unattractive if she's ok to be anywhere near this mess.

So everything is the divorced dad’s fault. For me, parenting duties were never a problem. My exwife and I both decided to have kids, and if I get married again in the future and my spouse wants kids, I’m open to having one or two. And my current girlfriend is none of that—you ladies might find it believe, but yes she truly is a gem.

No one believes that your exW is 100% crazy and your current GF is 100% perfect. Because that’s not how people work.

True, she isn’t 100% crazy. I didn’t mean it in the way you see it mentioned on this thread. My current girlfriend isn’t 100% perfect but in terms of personality is pretty darn close.

Good old “No one’s perfect” cliche to excuse piss poor posting and behavior.