Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban split

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Babygirl was the last straw.

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Anonymous wrote:She filed for divorce, thinks he cheated. One thing I will say—wives really should be with their husbands on tour. For the sake of the marriage. Too many temptations, especially if a man is feeling neglected.

Sad a man can’t keep commitments.

McConaughey‘S wife made family on set demand before agreeing to marry him.

Being with someone doesn’t stop them from cheating. Where there’s a will, there’s a way.

His wife is a do-nothing gold digging "model". Actors are largely bi/gay, so I doubt Matthew would be cheating with a woman.

Isn't she a handbag designer? Sure, Jan.

McConaughey’s wife comes from a humble background. He has said that she worked as a maid at one time to make ends meet. They’ve been married for ages now, so why the hate?

No hate. But you don’t know anything about her. They met at some Hollywood night club. She was at the time modeling? Any evidence she was actually a model?

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Who’s planting all the stories about how she feels “betrayed” and didn’t want the split? Hmmm…she feels scorned. And he moved out in June?? Men don’t just move out unless there’s someone else.

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Anonymous wrote:My guess is that he was back to using and that led to additional poor decisions.

As messed up as me.

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Anonymous wrote:Why so much hate for NK? She works a lot, well so what? That lifestyle does not pay for itself and KU would not be living that lifestyle on his own merits.

I said she works a lot but I don't hate her. It's an observation. Other marriages deal with workaholics too. She seems to be a workaholic.

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Anonymous wrote:Babygirl was the last straw.

Well this is part of it. She works constantly but doesn’t even seem to take care about roles and takes everything that comes her way.

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Anonymous wrote:She doesn’t have a maternal bone in her body.

At least Demi Moore stepped away from Hollywood and took a break to raise her kids for a while.

And her career took a major hit from that decision. Then she was a mess for a while. I would say women like Sandra Bullock and Julia Roberts found more of a middle ground, without sacrificing much. Even Angelina Jolie took pretty long breaks between projects.

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Good mothers don’t prioritize sustaining A list celeb status over being present for their kids.

Jolie and Roberts aren’t good people imho. They’ve done some pretty crappy things. Bullock seems like a good human being; she hasn’t dumped her kids on hired help to chase her career.

Nicole seems like she has a lot of issues.

Why so much judgement on what is a 'good' mother?

Being a good mother is a really important thing. Given that she will have “custody” most of the time it’s totally relevant. They are human children not rescue dogs.

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Anonymous wrote:Who’s planting all the stories about how she feels “betrayed” and didn’t want the split? Hmmm…she feels scorned. And he moved out in June?? Men don’t just move out unless there’s someone else.

It’s so obvious. It’s weird how people are going to bat for Keith urban. It just is what it is.

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Anonymous wrote:Who’s planting all the stories about how she feels “betrayed” and didn’t want the split? Hmmm…she feels scorned. And he moved out in June?? Men don’t just move out unless there’s someone else.

I think people are being more understanding to him then her liking

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I think it's odd the girl hasn't taken down the post or clarified she had nothing to do with their divorce.

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Anonymous wrote:She doesn’t have a maternal bone in her body.

At least Demi Moore stepped away from Hollywood and took a break to raise her kids for a while.

And her career took a major hit from that decision. Then she was a mess for a while. I would say women like Sandra Bullock and Julia Roberts found more of a middle ground, without sacrificing much. Even Angelina Jolie took pretty long breaks between projects.

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Good mothers don’t prioritize sustaining A list celeb status over being present for their kids.

Jolie and Roberts aren’t good people imho. They’ve done some pretty crappy things. Bullock seems like a good human being; she hasn’t dumped her kids on hired help to chase her career.

Nicole seems like she has a lot of issues.

Why so much judgement on what is a 'good' mother?

+1. PP is projecting. Any of these hollywood women are doing a thousand times more than the fathers.

Why compare one's mothering instincts to the father's? Being there for our kids is way more important than a career, regardless of what a father chooses to do.

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Anonymous wrote:Who’s planting all the stories about how she feels “betrayed” and didn’t want the split? Hmmm…she feels scorned. And he moved out in June?? Men don’t just move out unless there’s someone else.

It’s so obvious. It’s weird how people are going to bat for Keith urban. It just is what it is.

I don't see any of that. I think it's just one or two posters harping on the workaholic thing. They say the worst childhood age to experience divorce is 9-11 years old, and that it gets easier once kids are teens and are more focused on themselves. So maybe the marriage was in trouble for a while but they waited until the kids were older. Who really knows except insiders.

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Anonymous wrote:For many years into her career I never sensed any true warmth in Nicole Kidman. She can be charming and engaging but true warmth? Not so sure. If you look at older pictures of her she often has a striking, aggressive stare....and she was often not smiling. I think there is an intensity there that she covers over and I actually wonder if this is probably more of who she is. I've also always wondered about her desire to play psychopathic characters, she's played a few. I may get laughed off the board, but I don't think she is quite right. And the announcement coming on a Monday versus a Friday as well as the statement that she did not want this and he left her suggests she may be feeling vindictive.

What a load of utter bull shit.

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Anonymous wrote:Women can't ever win.

If they focus on their careers, they are criticized for not spending enough time at home with their kids.

If they focus on raising their family, they automatically lose out on the best professional opportunities.

Men are not subject to the same criticism, and gaily go about their careers while their wives raise the kids and mommy-track or stay home.

I don't think any of us should criticize Nicole for wanting to be the most famous actress she can be. Yes there is a family cost. Men do that all the time.

I stay home to raise my kids, but I will never criticize a woman for prioritizing her career.

I knew when I saw the subject this would be no different than the Kate/Megan posts filled with backwards sexism and misogyny.