A very uncomfortable situation- how to handle

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Anonymous wrote:Jewish Supremacy.

The temerity to imagine that one is so exceptional and chosen before God and that one’s suffering is somehow above others—in order to be exempt from all moral considerations--that is what is disliked.



Ah yes. Let’s not think about Christian Supremacy or Muslim Supremacy. Girl, no religion has a corner on this idiocy.


there is no Christian supremacy that is murdering people for a good century!
and Muslim supremacy doesn't exist as a concept. Muslims don't believe that they ares special b.c they are Muslim, they believe that the Quran and Muhammad are truth and a gift but the Quran explicitly states that the Jews and Christians are wrong about salvation being promised to them and God hasn't made a promise of salvation to any group (including Muslims) , the verse continues to say He judges people solely on what they do and it doesn't matter what group they belong to and that the question of who is close to Allah lies only and solely in His hands and noon can dictate or enforce any rules on Him and he has made no promise but will judge each indiviual based on what they send before them (what they do as a record of their life)
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Anonymous wrote:As an Indian, my sympathies and support is with Israel. Very sorry about innocent lives being lost on both sides as it happens in any war - but Hamas is responsible for that. Israel is fighting for its very existence.


As an Indian, I hate Israel. Hate. I cannot understand for the life of me how anyone can support this kind of violent nationalism.

Belly laughs! I’m not sure you meant to be ironic or not…Your racism and hate free no one.



I’m not the one who wrote the first quote but how is it racist to hate Israel? It’s a despicable nation that is taking people’s land and killing them for it in the most cruel ways every single day.

I would say that to any nation that inflicted such cruelty.

Are you offended because it’s a nation of white settlers from Eastern Europe. And you are one too? Sorry but THAT is racist. To obsolve one’s people who are doing harm just because of their race.


No, racist. I am offended because you are a Neo-Nazi advancing racist, white supremacist, ignorant AF, ahistorical nonsense. Sorry, but nothing absolves (note spelling) you of your petty bigotry and lack of moral compass. And it’s funny that someone who identifies as Indian (an ethnonreligious state founded in 1947 displacing over a million people) would advance hate in this forum against Israel And you can kiss my brown Semitic ass, skinhead.


umm I'm Pakistani but India was NOT founded as an ethnoreligious state. The present day BJP hindutva people who are very pro-Israel are not the founders of India, far from it and those founders advocated for a similar multilingual, multiethnic, multi sectarian state to be established in what is now palestine/Israel which is what any modern. liberal right thinking human being should want- only nut jobs and crazies want a state that is a religious republic. It's literally why my parents immigrated from Pakistan- when it became an islamic republic in the 1970s. anyone who likes religious republics is a backwards freak - doesn't matter what religion.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:As an Indian, my sympathies and support is with Israel. Very sorry about innocent lives being lost on both sides as it happens in any war - but Hamas is responsible for that. Israel is fighting for its very existence.


As an Indian, I hate Israel. Hate. I cannot understand for the life of me how anyone can support this kind of violent nationalism.

Belly laughs! I’m not sure you meant to be ironic or not…Your racism and hate free no one.



I’m not the one who wrote the first quote but how is it racist to hate Israel? It’s a despicable nation that is taking people’s land and killing them for it in the most cruel ways every single day.

I would say that to any nation that inflicted such cruelty.

Are you offended because it’s a nation of white settlers from Eastern Europe. And you are one too? Sorry but THAT is racist. To obsolve one’s people who are doing harm just because of their race.


No, racist. I am offended because you are a Neo-Nazi advancing racist, white supremacist, ignorant AF, ahistorical nonsense. Sorry, but nothing absolves (note spelling) you of your petty bigotry and lack of moral compass. And it’s funny that someone who identifies as Indian (an ethnonreligious state founded in 1947 displacing over a million people) would advance hate in this forum against Israel And you can kiss my brown Semitic ass, skinhead.


umm I'm Pakistani but India was NOT founded as an ethnoreligious state. The present day BJP hindutva people who are very pro-Israel are not the founders of India, far from it and those founders advocated for a similar multilingual, multiethnic, multi sectarian state to be established in what is now palestine/Israel which is what any modern. liberal right thinking human being should want- only nut jobs and crazies want a state that is a religious republic. It's literally why my parents immigrated from Pakistan- when it became an islamic republic in the 1970s. anyone who likes religious republics is a backwards freak - doesn't matter what religion.


Our current American President is doing what he can to make Israel an effective ethnoreligious state so the ancient prophesies can be fulfilled so Christians can take over and Jesus will return.

IOW, he is playing to fundamentalist Christians. He doesn't believe a word of it himself.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:As an Indian, my sympathies and support is with Israel. Very sorry about innocent lives being lost on both sides as it happens in any war - but Hamas is responsible for that. Israel is fighting for its very existence.


As an Indian, I hate Israel. Hate. I cannot understand for the life of me how anyone can support this kind of violent nationalism.

Belly laughs! I’m not sure you meant to be ironic or not…Your racism and hate free no one.



I’m not the one who wrote the first quote but how is it racist to hate Israel? It’s a despicable nation that is taking people’s land and killing them for it in the most cruel ways every single day.

I would say that to any nation that inflicted such cruelty.

Are you offended because it’s a nation of white settlers from Eastern Europe. And you are one too? Sorry but THAT is racist. To obsolve one’s people who are doing harm just because of their race.


No, racist. I am offended because you are a Neo-Nazi advancing racist, white supremacist, ignorant AF, ahistorical nonsense. Sorry, but nothing absolves (note spelling) you of your petty bigotry and lack of moral compass. And it’s funny that someone who identifies as Indian (an ethnonreligious state founded in 1947 displacing over a million people) would advance hate in this forum against Israel And you can kiss my brown Semitic ass, skinhead.


umm I'm Pakistani but India was NOT founded as an ethnoreligious state. The present day BJP hindutva people who are very pro-Israel are not the founders of India, far from it and those founders advocated for a similar multilingual, multiethnic, multi sectarian state to be established in what is now palestine/Israel which is what any modern. liberal right thinking human being should want- only nut jobs and crazies want a state that is a religious republic. It's literally why my parents immigrated from Pakistan- when it became an islamic republic in the 1970s. anyone who likes religious republics is a backwards freak - doesn't matter what religion.


Ummmm. The partition of India followed the 1947 Rawalpindi massacres wher Sikhs and Hindus were kidnapped, raped, and murdered in large numbers by Islamic militants. The partition created two ethnoreligious states Hindu-majority India and Muslim-majority Pakistan. Fifteen million people were displaced, and between one and two million were dead, rape and murder of religious minorities were rampant. Here are some good books/movies on the topic: https://theconversation.com/5-books-and-films-that-tell-the-story-of-the-trauma-of-the-partition-of-india-and-its-aftermath-187340; https://www.theguardian.com/world/video/2022/aug/12/my-mother-was-beheaded-in-front-of-me-a-survivor-recalls-indias-violent-partition; https://www.theguardian.com/world/2022/aug/11/a-sikh-soldier-pulled-me-out-of-the-rubble-survivors-recall-indias-violent-partition-and-reflect-on-its-legacy; https://www.sikhfoundation.org/documenting-the-holocaust-of-1947/.
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Anonymous wrote:As a jewish (American) person who doesn't want to hear people bash Israel, I would appreciate the call from you. Yes, a lot of what Israel is doing is atrocious but this country has been defending themselves from all sides for their entire "life".

I have never heard ANYONE unleash on the IDF without ALSO talking smack about Jewish people. THAT is the real issue for me. Their antisemitism comes roaring out, and they can't/won't see that.


I have. And it gets called antisemitism anyway.


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I am against what Israel is doing and that doesn't make me antisemitic.


I am against what Trump is doing, but that doesn’t make me anti-American. In fact, I love America, and have no problem with most Americans.

When I hear people talk about Israel, they seem to make my statements that Israel is terrible (like the poster above). I have heard very few people say they don’t like the current Israel administration, but that they have no problem with Israel and most Israelis in general.
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Anonymous wrote:I am friends with a group from my sons school. We get together once a month for lunch or dinner.

So happens we went out for lunch today for our monthly get together. We are a real mix of personalities. Of the 8 of us, 2 are Jewish the rest are mixed religions. We all never bring up politics or religion as an unspoken rule however today the most outspoken of the bunch came out and blasted Israel for what they are doing. She really unloaded, once she got started, she didn't let up (with encouragement from others). We were all kind of surprised and in shock at first. One of the moms (Jewish) is married to a christian husband and is not religious and was one of the first to agree. Then a few others did too. The other Jewish mom however did not take this well. She started to defend whats going on then abruptly got up and said she had to leave early.

Of all the moms, shes the one I am the least close with but I feel badly for how it went. I want to call her just to see how shes doing because I know it was upsetting to her. Not to say I agree with her at all but shes human and no doubt felt really outnumbered as the "ringleader" came on really strong. Should I call or leave it alone?


NP

I hope you resolved this already but if not -I probably would reach out to the woman just to gently check on her.


I believe we need to try to not let politics damage our personal relationships and mutually supportive group vibes. You may not be that close to her but she is part of a group that you value.

I say that as someone who completely horrified by the starvation and dehumanization of Gaza citizens. The approximate places to register disapproval are with your elected officials, peaceful protests and public forums dedicated to addressing this issue. Faith communities of all kinds are rightfully praying for the Palestinians (and Ukrainians/ other victims of violence and displacement all over the world).

I agree with many PPs that most of us distinguish between IDF and civilian Israelis. Civilian Jewish Americans are even further removed from responsibility for the horror show.

(I believe that) we need to not allow all extremism in the world fracture our personal social connections.

Peace

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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am friends with a group from my sons school. We get together once a month for lunch or dinner.

So happens we went out for lunch today for our monthly get together. We are a real mix of personalities. Of the 8 of us, 2 are Jewish the rest are mixed religions. We all never bring up politics or religion as an unspoken rule however today the most outspoken of the bunch came out and blasted Israel for what they are doing. She really unloaded, once she got started, she didn't let up (with encouragement from others). We were all kind of surprised and in shock at first. One of the moms (Jewish) is married to a christian husband and is not religious and was one of the first to agree. Then a few others did too. The other Jewish mom however did not take this well. She started to defend whats going on then abruptly got up and said she had to leave early.

Of all the moms, shes the one I am the least close with but I feel badly for how it went. I want to call her just to see how shes doing because I know it was upsetting to her. Not to say I agree with her at all but shes human and no doubt felt really outnumbered as the "ringleader" came on really strong. Should I call or leave it alone?


NP

I hope you resolved this already but if not -I probably would reach out to the woman just to gently check on her.


I believe we need to try to not let politics damage our personal relationships and mutually supportive group vibes. You may not be that close to her but she is part of a group that you value.

I say that as someone who completely horrified by the starvation and dehumanization of Gaza citizens. The approximate places to register disapproval are with your elected officials, peaceful protests and public forums dedicated to addressing this issue. Faith communities of all kinds are rightfully praying for the Palestinians (and Ukrainians/ other victims of violence and displacement all over the world).

I agree with many PPs that most of us distinguish between IDF and civilian Israelis. Civilian Jewish Americans are even further removed from responsibility for the horror show.

(I believe that) we need to not allow all extremism in the world fracture our personal social connections.

Peace



^ appropriate not approximate
Darn auto correct
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am friends with a group from my sons school. We get together once a month for lunch or dinner.

So happens we went out for lunch today for our monthly get together. We are a real mix of personalities. Of the 8 of us, 2 are Jewish the rest are mixed religions. We all never bring up politics or religion as an unspoken rule however today the most outspoken of the bunch came out and blasted Israel for what they are doing. She really unloaded, once she got started, she didn't let up (with encouragement from others). We were all kind of surprised and in shock at first. One of the moms (Jewish) is married to a christian husband and is not religious and was one of the first to agree. Then a few others did too. The other Jewish mom however did not take this well. She started to defend whats going on then abruptly got up and said she had to leave early.

Of all the moms, shes the one I am the least close with but I feel badly for how it went. I want to call her just to see how shes doing because I know it was upsetting to her. Not to say I agree with her at all but shes human and no doubt felt really outnumbered as the "ringleader" came on really strong. Should I call or leave it alone?


NP

I hope you resolved this already but if not -I probably would reach out to the woman just to gently check on her.


I believe we need to try to not let politics damage our personal relationships and mutually supportive group vibes. You may not be that close to her but she is part of a group that you value.

I say that as someone who completely horrified by the starvation and dehumanization of Gaza citizens. The approximate places to register disapproval are with your elected officials, peaceful protests and public forums dedicated to addressing this issue. Faith communities of all kinds are rightfully praying for the Palestinians (and Ukrainians/ other victims of violence and displacement all over the world).

I agree with many PPs that most of us distinguish between IDF and civilian Israelis. Civilian Jewish Americans are even further removed from responsibility for the horror show.

(I believe that) we need to not allow all extremism in the world fracture our personal social connections.

Peace



DP, but I do not agree with the bolded. This is about ethics and values, not politics. We are the company we keep, and I cannot sit idly with family and friends who are immoral and unethical.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:As an Indian, my sympathies and support is with Israel. Very sorry about innocent lives being lost on both sides as it happens in any war - but Hamas is responsible for that. Israel is fighting for its very existence.


As an Indian, I hate Israel. Hate. I cannot understand for the life of me how anyone can support this kind of violent nationalism.

Belly laughs! I’m not sure you meant to be ironic or not…Your racism and hate free no one.



I’m not the one who wrote the first quote but how is it racist to hate Israel? It’s a despicable nation that is taking people’s land and killing them for it in the most cruel ways every single day.

I would say that to any nation that inflicted such cruelty.

Are you offended because it’s a nation of white settlers from Eastern Europe. And you are one too? Sorry but THAT is racist. To obsolve one’s people who are doing harm just because of their race.


Have you been to Israel and Palestine? I have, and the idea that the Israelis are white oppressors and the Palestinians are oppressed people of color is inaccurate. It's trying to take the US racial perspective and overlay it onto a completely different region. When you walk down the street in Jerusalem, if not for the clothing and head wraps, it would be very difficult to separate Jews and Arabs into their constituents. This is because a large number of Israelis are Sephardic or Mizarahi Jews--they are from the Middle East. This is unlike American Jewry, whose demographics are predominantly Ashkenazi Jews from Eastern Europe. They're both Semitic peoples.
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